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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I don't want to waste my weekends. Is there a win win solution?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - I have been telling my boyfriend we should do more fun stuff together when we spend time together. He agreed that we should look into something cool to do during the weekend. However, he just said it without really taking any actions. To him, ...

My sensei is hitting on me! What do I say to him? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - I am female, I'm 28. I take martial arts classes. Over the past few months I've been at the dojo/school...I've noticed that my sensei/instructor has been hitting on me more and more as time progresses. He will do things like: - Put his arm arou...

My first serious relationship ended yesterday! I can't stop thinking about him or what he's doing - I'm going crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - Yesterday, I got dumped by my boyfriend of 2 months. It doesn't sound like a long time at all, but I fell in love with him so quickly. It was a long distance relationship and he was depressed because we didn't see enough of each other. So he said ...

My partner is an environmentalist and I'm tired of being getting lectured and reprimanded! I feel like a child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is French and I'm American. We do very well together excepting one thing. I have many bad habits and I'm very bad at being an environmentalist (in which he is). He tells me what I ought to be doing and for the most part he is usually ...

Can my 16 year old son move out of our home without parental consent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - I need help so bad. I live in Canada. My 16 year old son got a job this summer and has become friends with a few questionable people, from this fast food place thay all work at. One of them is a 22 year old who has weekend parties (booze for ...

How do I get my g/f to go back to having threesomes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

19 October 2007 (M) - I found out that about a year before my girlfriend and I became a couple she had several threesomes with her previous boyfriend and other girls. She also was involved in orgies. She became "gun shy" of that scene after her boyfriend left her for ...

I'm feeling tied down by my serious relationship - but I don't want to break up! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

19 October 2007 (M) - Dear cupid.. Before I got together with my current girlfriend, I wasn't ready to get involved in a serious relationship. My life was in a mess and I promised myself that I wouldnt get involved with anyone until I had sorted things out. I had made ...

I have a crush on my friend's flatmate, but I know we can only ever be friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

19 October 2007 (M) - Hi i have a problem. I have a crush on my friends flatmate. I was over her's one evening and we just got talking about travelling and stuff and we got on quite well. she was really kind to me and I respect her. I have just came out of a relationship ...

How do I confront her about her low sex drive? If you want to have sex, wouldn't you find a way, regardless of how tired and stressed you were?? Also she doesn't seem to appreciate me: I cook, clean, pay bills...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

19 October 2007 (M) - So I've been with my fiancee a total of 10 months now. We got engaged about 1 month ago. Things with her are great, except for our sex life. To give you some background, I'm 31, she's 25. She's had quite a "colorful" past, and many lovers (som...

He's not entirely sure he 'got out' in time. I'm so worried! How reliable is the withdrawal method?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - hi, straight to the point here. I had unprotected sex recently, mid cycle. My partner and i were using the withdrawel method, we have done this before, however, afterwards he was feeling a bit panoid, leading me now to be paranoid, he's n...

How many dates should I have with him before we sleep together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - First date with recent divorcee is imminent. What I want to know is how many dates should I have with him before I sleep with him? I'm separated, and haven't slept with anyone except my husband of 20 years!...

I'm married, but thinking of an ex! I'm so confused and don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I seem to be in a lot of confusion...i have been married for 3 years now. i also have a son of 2 years with my husband. My problem is that my past relationships seem to haunt me terribly in the sense that i would love to revive the...

All of the pregnancy tests were negative - including the one performed at the doctor - but I still have no period!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - I posted a question before asking if there was a chance i was pregnant, lots of people gave me different answers saying yes u could be and others sayin no.Well i have done 2 pregnancy tests since then in a 1 week with 3 days apart and have also been ...

How can he say he loves me and I'm his soulmate but still leave me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - hi, I've been split up with my bf for 3 months now and it seems to be gettin harder. I love him so much and miss him more everyday no matter what i do i can't seem to move on . He told me that we needed to sort our heads out and he would love th...

She hurt me so much. Why do I still want her back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 311 days ago

19 October 2007 (M) - My ex hurt me a lot, cheated on me, lied to me, deceived me, and yet part of me still wants her back. When she's hurt me, why does some of me still want to hold on?...

Boyfriend is always intruding into who I see and why. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - I'm been with my boyfriend for almost 3 yrs. and I hate it when he tells me a story and leave out (the important parts) but when his friends are over he tells them the real thing. Also I don't like it when he gets to stop and talk to females he use ...

I'm getting board with my marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - hi... need some advice, im married 4 almost 7 years with 1 kid. since i got married me and my husband were staying together, we work on the same company,..lately, i was so bored with our relationship..our daily activities were only ...

I love him when I don't see him, When I see him, it makes me question if he's the one.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a distant relationship. We only see each other on the weekend. We talk on the phone almost every night. It has been like this for 2 years and our relationship is very steady. I used to love spending time with my boyfrien...

How do I please him before I give it a go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - I recently met someone very special, he is a Brit, I am American, and I am very, very excited to have sex with him for the first time. But, I am 31 years old, and I have never been with an uncircumsized man before. He knows that, and I think it ...

I'm scared, what's going on, please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 325 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - Im really scared so please help! My boyfriend and I (19 and 21) rarely see each other he is in Iraq. He came home in August 31, and we had sex. My period is always off last time that i had it was july 25th and i got it ther day we had sex. We ...

Can I be pregnant and have a light period monthly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - Is it possible to be pregnant but still have a light period monthly ? Me and my boyfriend had been trying for a baby 4 months ago, until I got into college and changed my mind. I also got my period so I wasnt pregnant. Now, I have put on some weig...

I want to tell her about us, but he'll be mad.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - Hey I'm a 19 yr old female with a dilemma! I have this friend, we have been best friends for about 7 years. He's had a girlfriend for the past 4 years, one that I helped him to get- when he saw her he basically fell in love and said he wanted t...

How do I not scare this woman off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

19 October 2007 (M) - Okay so heres the deal, Ive never really been a dater. Ive always been the type of guy who would pick up some easy company for the night(I know i a scum bucket) Ive been in one major relationship my whole life and that was for about 1 year before ...

Is this love, or is this friends with benefits?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

19 October 2007 (M) - I was separated and became involved with someone who was a friend. She spent alot of time with me (she was going thru the same thing) and was very affectionate. It seemed like we had something very good happening to both of us and others around us ...