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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi, please help me get off to this situation.. im married, i have fallen to onother guy, yes i made mistake but i really wanted to get off to this other guy, although i loved him already.. i know its wrong to be with him coz im married.. i do love my husband but its realy a big question why i had fallen into somebody.. hundreds times i promised not to be with this guy but i failed,, i cant do anything..(he's attached to my work/he is connected to my work, so we talk often..perhaps one of the reason i was fallen because we had so many conversations with regards to works and personal matters, we often see each other).. he's kind to me...but i love my husband, i know that he's just so busy with himself and work at this time, reasn why we seldom talk...what should i do..how can i get off this other guy whos very kind and understanding to me... i wish i didnt love him, i wish i dont feel i love him...and if i could turn back times i really would...please give he advice.. i know this is reaaly wrong, so i need some kind of advice.. what to do...thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): I would say stop the cheating or whatever it is your doing with another guy and work very hard at your marriage. If you love your husband you need to talk to him about your feelings and you both need to work out whatever it is you both need in your relationship to be happy. I am going through a similar situation at this moment becuase I just found out my wife has done the same thing you are talking about and if she would have just came to me we could have worked it out a lot easier than now since she has been talking to guy for 3yrs and it turned sexual. I am really having a hard time dealing with it all but we are both trying to get through it to make it work so we can both be happy. Communication with your husband and his willingness to understand your needs & yours of his will help a lot. Men do not have a clue when it comes to women what they are feeling or needing so please tell him and work it out. Good luck! I hope it works out for you.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (22 October 2007):
 More information is needed please. Did you or did you not physically cheat on your husband with this other guy?
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