A
male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Please help, I am still in love with a woman after 14 years. I met her 14 years ago,we worked together, I feel deeply in love with her, like I have never experienced love. I was married at the time with two young children and she was only 22 and had a boyfriend, shes 14 years younger.She ended contact with me,it was the right thing to do at the time, given that I was married and she had a boyfriend. Although we never had sex, We got very sexually intimate,she was my soulmate. 8 years ago she contacted me to see how I was, we chatted as friends. She had got married and had a 2 year old daughter. I think her talking to me was very emotional for both of us, especially her. She told me she still loved me, I felt the same but told her to carry on with her life as I was and am still married and it would of only involved hurt. She agreed to carry on with her life, But I know she loved me. I so much want to contact her now but its 8years on from when she made contact with me. I still love her and have to know shes ok. Ive sent her some messages, as I think she has same number but she hasnt replied yet. I want to ring her up But dont know if I should. I know she loved me, I cant let go of the guilt that she did make contact with me and told me she still loved me. I know it was my original circumstances that meant we were never gonna be together. But I cant stop loving her ? Should I contact her now and tell her my feelings ? xx
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (22 October 2007):
 Of course you shouldn't contact her. Leave it alone, man. Married is married. Focus on your own family and leave her to hers.
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