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Archived questions from: June, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Is the perfect man out there for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - I'm 21 and got the perfect job and soon to be getting a lovely little cottage, hopefully.. only thing I'm missing is the man of my dreams. I'm not hunting for one but when I look around all i find is Unsuccessfuls. Is he out there? I'm beginnin...

Till Death Do We Part - A True Story

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 507 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - Doesn't anybody stay together anymore? In this day and time, it is so easy to get a divorce or even better...just live together to "see if it works out" first. Don't get me wrong, I personally believe there are good reasons to divorce, and I know I ...

I feel stupid and paranoid and have no direction in my life

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - Hi everyone. Please can u help me! I am at an age where i should no what i would like to achieve in life however i dont. I feel so unintelligent sometimes and it is really depressing. I m intimidated by people i think that maybe its to do with my ...

Why did she shake my hand? Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - what does she mean by this? one day before i left, she stated "i want you to shake my hand." i was going to walk out the door and refuse. however, i did not want to be rude so i just did what she told me and i shook her hand. while i shook he...

He was very generous financially to his ex wife but doesn't help me with our bills

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 508 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - Hi all and hope your well. I need some advice from the ladies really. I have kept my boyfriend for the past 18 months, while he was sorting out finances with his ex wife. Its all sorted now, they sold their house, and he brought her a new one so...

For the gals: What are you thinking when you are checking out a guy's wedding ring?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 509 days ago

28 June 2007 (M) - For the gals: What are you thinking when you are checking out a guy's wedding ring? I was having lunch with a buddy of mine when this topic came up. Occasionally, when I am among women, I catch them ogling my wedding ring. If they end up maki...

My boyfriend wants a penis enlargement....does anyone have any info on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - Apologies for the extremely long post but I want to get this out the way... it's been worrying me for 4 weeks now. I'm 21 years old, my boyfriend's 23. Recently he's been complaining our sex life's not good enough, even though I think it's good....

I think she's sleeping with the teacher and getting better grades than everyone else....what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

27 June 2007 (M) - Right how do i put this....well, i think a girl at my school is sleeping with one of the teachers and it isn't in my head. This girl is a layabout she sits around, sleeps and smokes her way through school and makes no effort to do anything, testamen...

As she's my first gf, is it natural to feel unsure that I'm doing the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 510 days ago

27 June 2007 (M) - Hi. Recently have got my first girlfriend, which im really happy about, but the thing is i'm having doubts about the whole thing. i really do like her and want to spend time with her, but im just not sure if im doing the right thing. is this j...

Raped when I was 12, told the police when I was 15, now having nightmares!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - Hi. This is going to be long but i have to get it all out.. When i was 12 i went through a rough time. I'm now 16. When i was 12 i was raped, the rapist has never been caught. I only went to the police when i was 15, i was too scared and ashamed ...

How do I make sure that it's me who he wants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - well my bf and i have been going out for a week and my best friend likes him too well alot of girls like him so how do i make sure that he likes me for who i am not becasue i am one of the girls that like him? thax 4 the help...

After 4 years together, he confessed he cheated. Then they moved in together. He seems so unhappy and I want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had been together for 4yrs.One day he made a confession to me and told me he had cheated on me with this other girl,and now they live together.But here is the twist,he still has his clothes at my house with his important ...

She used me then started meeting up w/ her ex and lying about it! I split w/ her, but want her to realize the pain she put me through.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

27 June 2007 (M) - My "ex" gf doesn't always log out of her yahoo email account properly so I checked her email after she uses the PC. I have been doing this for a little while now without her knowing and realise she has been meeting up with her ex. I told her tha...

I married him after 6 months only to feel secure - I feared that I wouldn't find anyone else. Now I'm so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - Not Sure If I Should Stay With My Husband... My husband and I have been married for a little over 3 years now. We met at a stressful point in my life and he was a strong support for me. We only dated for about 6 months before getting married....

My husband and his brother's wife had an affair. I feel his brother needs to know, but I don't want him to hurt as I do. Children are involved - what should I do??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - I found out my husband had an affair with his brother's wife. I am now going through a divorce. Learning about the affair has almost destroyed me. His brother knows nothing about the affair. I know my soon-to-be ex-husband and his broth...

My ex and I are seeing one another in a casual relationship and I kissed another guy! I feel guilty and confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 514 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - I'm sooo confused!!! Me and This Lad went out for just over two years we broke up xmas 2005 but for the last 6 months have been casually seeing each other. I totally fell for him again and we do always tell each other we love each other, we do no...

When I told her I liked her, she said she didn't want to lose me as a mate! How can I convince her to give us a try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

26 June 2007 (M) - I told a girl I like her and then we became close. But now if I say can we get together, she says she doesn't want it because she doesn't want to lose a good mate. How can I get her to see I'll always be there for her as a mate? And how can I get ...

I love my boyfriend, but I think he's trying to manipulate me into having sex! I want to wait. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 501 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - okay I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months, we haven't had sex yet but we've been close to so many times, I really love him and all but sometimes he acts like it is going to be the end of the world if we don't do it. I sometimes feel ...

How do I prepare to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - Ok so I have been going out with this guy now for about 2 years and I am 16 and he is 26.. I know the age right. Well he has deffently had sex. And I have but it was always really quick in and out. So I am worried that I might bleed while I have sex ...

I'm 99.9% sure my brother's wife has a thing for one of our friends. Should I confront her while my brother is in basic training??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

26 June 2007 (M) - My brother is in Basic Training for the Army. Before he left, his wife and him were joined together at the hip. Now I've been keeping an eye on her while hes gone. I'm like 99.9% sure shes got a thing for one of our friends, but I don't know what ...

Does DearCupid have a leftist, liberal bias?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

26 June 2007 (M) - hello everyone, over the past month i have seen your site. it is a great site for exploring relationship, sexual or confidence problems. however, i have been skeptical. I have one critism that might be apparent. getting a little off topic, le...

The guy I used to chat online with is now harassing me! He follows me to any website I visit and slanders me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, HELP! My life is a bit of insanity right now. Currently, I am in a rocky long term relationship. On top of that I thought I had liked someone else. Well, I started talking to this other person via the net and realized that I ...

He's giving me mixed signals - he's not affectionate anymore but said he could fall in love with me! Do I wait to see if he makes up his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - I need a guys point of view on this...what does he mean? Back in December a guy I had met through friends asked me if I wanted to start a band, as he plays guitar and I sing and am learning guitar. It was just an acoustic thing to play locally. ...

I can't stop thinking about this other guy! How can I split with my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - hi, recently i've been having feelings for an ex, we have spent a bit of time together, problem is he has a girlfriend and i am married. I have been unhappy with my husband for quite a while now, long before this other guy came on the scene again....

My bf and his parents know that I'm 9 weeks pregnant, but how do I tell MY parents??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - Hi I need help breaking the news..... adive and tips I'm 9 weeks pregnant and going through a very tough pregnancy i developed hypertension and this could be come critical for me and the baby.I have told my bf about everything and the only other p...

I can't let go and will not accept that he's left me. How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - Just to recap on my earlier questions: I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex gf! What can I do? everytime i think i will be okay and have left this man that hurt me alone i see something that gets ...

I can't decided if I should move in with him or not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is married and we have been dating for 9 months now. He didnt have a job in the beging he always asked me for money. He is now working wont get divorced and he wants me to move in with him. He is a wonderful guy i love him. I just dont ...

Should I let this row just be our break up, or should I patch things up even if it's only temporary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 514 days ago

26 June 2007 (M) - Should I let this row become a break-up? We are both in our 40s, have gone through our separate divorces since knowing each other 4 years ago and we are looking to move together. The problem is that we live 70 miles apart and because of our ...

I want to get married and he doesnt. I am afraid we may have come to our fork in the road.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - My man and I have been together for six years. We have lived together for three. We have talked about marraige before and recently we've had serious talks about it. He doesn't know what he wants. He has said he doesn't really want to get married,...

Really we are just roommates. Is it worth hanging on to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and I work different hours. He works night and I work day. For the first 2 years of our relationship it worked out fine, but the past two year have been a battle for me. We live together and spend a total of about 29 hours a week ...

something for all you soul searchers out there

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 502 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - We always want someone to blame, someone to be held accountable for things in our lives. We rarly take responsibility for our own actions. We turn to the gods, karma and evil out of our control to take responsibility for things we or others have ...

She wont tell me why we are breaking up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 515 days ago

25 June 2007 (M) - my girlfriend refuses to talk about why we are spliting up and i just can't live without her what can i do...

Do all men play games?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - Do all men play games? I realize I've been out of the dating scene for most of my adult life due to a long term relationship that ended. I am seeing a new guy, and we've been together for about a year but I still get the feeling at times, that he ...

I broke up with my BF 3 weeks ago... I think I now also need to end the friendship! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 515 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of three years because I just didn't know if he was the one for me. I just wanted some time for myself to think things through. And of course, to have some fun while I am single. We have been broken up for only ...

Now that her ex knows about me, shes not sure how she feels!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 515 days ago

25 June 2007 (M) - Hello there, i really need advice :( I have been completely devastated, and dont know what to do. there is a girl in my life, who i have known for over 2 years. she and i both had respectible relationhips, yet i finished mine before she did. ...

I'm trying to hide who I really am to keep him while everything else seems hopeless

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 509 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - I have abandonment issues which Im worried will eventually destroy my relationship..oh and I dont understand men. Ive just started seeing someone I adore, hes beautiful, so handsome sometimes Im shy to look at him. Hes kind, gentle and alway...

I get chills from looking at him when I don't even know him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 516 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - I saw this guy at Six Flags, and when i saw him i got the chills and the way he looked at me gave me chills and I cant stop thinking about him or dreaming about him. How do I stop loving a guy I don't even know?...

We agreed to try for a baby--now he wants me to get rid of it!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years we are also living together. We both agreed to try for a baby--then last week when I found out I was pregnant I told him and he was so disappointed and told me to get rid of it. I was so confused...

Is it possible to be so much in love yet be too much alike?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

22 June 2007 (M) - I live with the love of my life!However... we are are so much alike in so many ways at times we look at each other and its like staring in a personality mirror. We can both finish each others thoughts... Say things to each other and understand one ...

Is the CD she sent me a hint?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 492 days ago

22 June 2007 (M) - Hi. I like a Canadian girl who is Jewish, too. I am Mexican. She came to my country once, for work, and we had a very good time together. I think she was flirty to me, to some point, and we have been corresponding ever since she left. This...

After 8 months apart, he called me out of nowhere and now we're meeting up! Anyone have a similar experience? If so, what happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 518 days ago

22 June 2007 (F) - I can not believe it after 8 months apart and him finishing it with me he calls me up out of the blue, telling me how sorry he is, since then ive had loads of calls of him, im just shocked that he has got in contact after all this time. We are ...

Should I ask my ex if he wants to give it another go? I don't want to think "what if" for the rest of my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 518 days ago

22 June 2007 (F) - I was with a guy last year for 4 months. We actually loved each other or so i thought we did. Then he ended it because he was bored. I was really heartbroken. When he ended it he was really horrible to me and called me a cheap slag and said to me th...

Should I believe in a second reading from a medium?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 516 days ago

22 June 2007 (F) - Who believes in psycics/mediums. The first prediction came true, the 2nd reading said the same as the first. Should I believe in the second reading? ...

Are these sorts of things normal after going through losing someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 518 days ago

21 June 2007 (M) - Hi i wrote up about 4 days ago about my wife because she had lost someone close and i didn't know what to say to her or anything. Well thank you for your replys and shes starting the feel better now the funeral is over and up until yeterday when she ...

I'm falling for him, but Im his first, what if he wants to date around a bit!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

21 June 2007 (F) - Hello again. My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 months, and his friends say I'm his first grlfriend. The problem is, I've been in quite a few relationships, and he's still new to the whole thing, but my feelings for him just get...

What is this discharge? I'm only 13 and really worried!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

21 June 2007 (F) - Okay. I'm 13 years old, and I started my period when I was 12. A few months ago, I noticed a strange, clumpy, whit substance in my panties. I wasn't aware of it until I saw it, and it is sometimes accompanied by a thick, whitish liquid. I'm ...

Is it all about looks when you become accepted?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 515 days ago

21 June 2007 (M) - My society and culture sets high standards in terms of way a person looks in order to be considered acceptable to relate with some kind of people, especially those who belong to high society or have good social reputation. As if, it were all about ...

Shall all the dear cupid advisors meet?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

21 June 2007 (F) - I know you have aunts from all over the world, but I wondered whether it may be a nice idea for us to meet at a convention of some sort...somehow? Perhaps several....

I need help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 520 days ago

20 June 2007 (M) - hey, i really hope this question gets posted, i feel like I'm sufferneg from depression and am no longer happy with my life...because of the number of issues i was hoping there would be an agony aunt with messenger who i could talk to on there ...

After three weeks, he said he wanted time apart b/c he loves my close friend! Should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

20 June 2007 (F) - Hello. This is long, I'm afraid. I'm 14. I finished with a guy today, who's 15. We'd been going out for 3 weeks. I finished with him because he said he loved someone else, yesterday. And that he wanted "time apart". At first, I accepted thi...