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writes:Me and my boyfriend had been together for 4yrs.One day he made a confession to me and told me he had cheated on me with this other girl,and now they live together.But here is the twist,he still has his clothes at my house with his important papers,he still tells me he's in love with me,he stills comes to house.He tells me his not happy with her.Since his been with her he lost his job,lost the respect of his family and friends.When i go see him he looks stressed out,she has no job.To be honest i want him back,I could feel his emotions when gets near me,he tries to hide them but i could feel them.Can you tell me whats wrong why doesn't he want to lose me?
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reader, Brandi +, writes (27 June 2007):
 well i think that yu should tell him that he looks unhappy and that you still have feelings for him. If he wantst he other girl then forget him and move on he is a waste of your time.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 If you want him back you need to tell him. If he decides to stay with this other girl then give him his stuff back and move on. He needs to choose who he wants to be with- all you can do is show him what he's missing with you.
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reader, Unique1 +, writes (27 June 2007):
If you got over the fact that he cheated, left to live with another girl than talk to him and let him know how he feels. Four year is a long time and sure, he still has feelings for you. However, be sure that he wouldnt do what he once did because you dont want to be hurt again!! Good luck, wish you the best!
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reader, flower girl +, writes (27 June 2007):
 If you want him back then you need to fight for him and don't let anyone stand in your way.It sounds like with everything he has been through he may well be suffering with depression at the moment and if he is that can seriously cloud his judgement.
If you want him back tell him this but also tell him that you think he is ill at the moment and you think that he needs to go to his doctors about it, but that you will be there to support him 100% alos he needs to be told that if he is not happy where he is then he really needs to leave as things will not improve untill he is on his own.
Good luck and take care.xx.
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