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Is the perfect man out there for me?

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Question - (30 June 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm 21 and got the perfect job and soon to be getting a lovely little cottage, hopefully.. only thing I'm missing is the man of my dreams. I'm not hunting for one but when I look around all i find is Unsuccessfuls.

Is he out there? I'm beginning to lose hope that the perfect man is out there for me...am I aiming too high or what? Any advice would be good thank you xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007):

Chill out love when you get to 35 and have still not find the right man the maybe it is time to worry. 21 is to young to settle down go and live your life and have some fun!!!!!

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A female reader, Butterflyfly United Kingdom +, writes (18 July 2007):

Butterflyfly agony auntI think not actively looking for a man will help learn about you, what /whom you like and why, and it will also help 'bumping into' someone special. I wouls say get some exposure - like going out, take classes, meet loads of people, and you get more possibilities in everything.

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A female reader, m0h8787878 United Kingdom +, writes (2 July 2007):

when time passes gradually, eventually your perfect man will be out there. just give it some time, you are young. are you planning to go to a college/university and if you already are, good!! what about grad school, you might find your perfect man there. for my opinion, medical school/dental school is where you will find successful people because sooner or later they will be making big bucks and as well being successful!!! good luck!

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (2 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntI'm with the ladies.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007):

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its not a case a man whose rich or has good finaces, just want someone who is similar to me in the way of charastics i just seem to find juvinile men or ones that are complete opossite like i live in the bermuda triangle :S xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007):

There isn't such a thing as the perfect man, but you will be lucky if you find my 80% of what you are looking for....you need to make a list of the traits and characteristics of the man you like and what makes you happy to be around, and start rejecting the guys who don't measure up, and I am not talking about money and success here, but the character of him.....try this site on....

http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/513

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007):

There is someone out there for everyone. However no one is perfect man or woman. Everyone has some sort of quirk. This is not to say you should settle for the nearest warm body. Why you think the men around you are "Unsuccessfuls". Is it based on appearance or finances? Or is it based upon their actions? If it's the former than reevaluate your aim. Remember "all that glitters is not gold". That is especially true for people. If it's the latter than try expanding your field of vision. Go out hunting for the man you want in places your ideal of a man would frequent. But the most important thing of all is to never lose hope.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (30 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntHey the right man is out there for all of us, and he will jump in front of you when you are not expecting it, you are still young so don't worry about it just enjoy your life.

Take care.xx.

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