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My ex and I are seeing one another in a casual relationship and I kissed another guy! I feel guilty and confused.

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Question - (26 June 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2007)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm sooo confused!!!

Me and This Lad went out for just over two years we broke up xmas 2005 but for the last 6 months have been casually seeing each other. I totally fell for him again and we do always tell each other we love each other, we do normal BF and GF things lyk pictures and goin out for meals and i see him 2 or 3 times a week, altho nothing is really becoming anything, I'm not sure of whether i want to be conclusive, i need to see a form of commitment from him but i'm not sure what i want.

Another problem is last year i started seeing a lad who lived in Austrailia but was visiting home, he was home for a few months and i really liked him wen he went back to Oz we talked loads on the phone and over the net but it eventually fizzled out however when i was at a party last week i bumped into him and we ended up kissing, although i dont want to carry on this realtionship with the guy from Austrailia as he is going back in six weeks time. but now i feel guilty for kissing the guy from australia when i'm seeing my ex!

I'm soo confused and just need a bit of help and guidance.

Sorry for this being so long and thank you for taking the time to read it. x

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A female reader, Kelly-Rebecca United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2007):

Be honest with your ex, if you do really like him still, then think how upset he'd feel if he heard about you and this other guy from someone else. At the same time let him know that you are serious about him, but that you need to know that he feels the same. If youre still feeling confused about how you feel thought, perhaps you should try not seeing each other for a couple of weeks. You may find you really miss him and realise he's what you want, or the opposite. If he really loves then, then he'll give you all the time and space you need.

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