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I broke up with my BF 3 weeks ago... I think I now also need to end the friendship! Help!

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Question - (25 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of three years because I just didn't know if he was the one for me. I just wanted some time for myself to think things through. And of course, to have some fun while I am single. We have been broken up for only three weeks. We said we'd remain friends, and we have hung out once so far, and everything went fine. My problem is that I think I now need to end our friendship as well. I didn't plan on meeting anyone so soon, but I hooked up with a guy the other night and now I can't stop thinking about him and we want to see each other again. Is there a right time as to how long you should wait to begin dating after a relationship? Am I moving too fast? I know I am not ready for another relationship, but I like this new guy. Am I right to end this friendship with my ex for the time being? Please help.

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A male reader, nologo Ukraine +, writes (25 June 2007):

nologo agony auntI think you are moving too fast now.

Do you know who is the one for you?

Maybe you like this new guy, but do not rush things with him.

Probably you will not call it a relationship if you date him.

Anyway, this is not a reason to terminate friendship with ex.

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A male reader, wheater United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2007):

wheater agony auntWould u ditch your girl mates for a guy ?

Think about this.

If u are set on this new guy tell him ur situation with ur ex, if he doesnt understand all he wants is to get in ur knickers. But if he seriously likes u then he will understand.

But whatever u do dont ditch u mates

I did it once and when u split up with the boy who have u got to confide in... no-one

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