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writes:Hello. This is long, I'm afraid.I'm 14. I finished with a guy today, who's 15. We'd been going out for 3 weeks. I finished with him because he said he loved someone else, yesterday. And that he wanted "time apart". At first, I accepted this, but then I thought, "Why should I be second best to this other girl?" and "Why is he with me then?" I didn't think I should put up with that.The other girl is one of my very close friends, she has a boyfriend, and has been going out with him for about 8 months, their relationship is strong. She's really upset now, because she thinks she's screwed it up. I told her she didn't, it was him, but now I'm worried about her.Now, although I'm only 14, I think I love this guy. Well, I definitely like him a lot.He's messed me around before, about 2 months before we were going out, he told me he did like me, but then suddenly changed his mind.He was my first "proper" kiss, and although I didn't sleep with him, I would have been willing too at some point in the future, even though I am a Christian, and not legal....I miss him, even though it's been... 6 hours, and I now feel dead inside.I know I'm young. I just want someone to love me. I'm a terrible romantic too. Do I really just have to move on? if so, how?Please help me, I feel so alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007): TO TELL THE TRUTH YOU ARE TOO YOUNG AND HE IS TOO YOUNG.ALTHOUGH YOU SAID YOU NEED SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU MOVE ON BECAUSE THIS BOY DONT KNOW WHAT HE WANTS, JUST TAKE IT EASY AND STAY IN SCHOOL.ALSO OYU SHOULDNT LET ANY GUY DOWNGRADE YOU LIKE THAT JUS LEAVE HIM .YOU R TOO GOOD FOR HIM ANYWAYS. BEST TO YOU
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reader, flower girl +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Hey yummymummy is right all us oldies have been through it before i know it hurts now but you are better off without him and you will move on to bigger and better.
Take care.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (20 June 2007):
 It's not your friend's fault and she didn't screw the relationship up.
I think you should walk away. It'll be hard hunni but it does get easier and you will meet someone else.
We all want to feel loved and find it hard when someone turns their back on us, but the pain will go away and you will forget this lad and move on :)
xxxxxxxxx
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