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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello there, i really need advice :(I have been completely devastated, and dont know what to do. there is a girl in my life, who i have known for over 2 years. she and i both had respectible relationhips, yet i finished mine before she did. about 2/3 months ago she also finished hers, although for a lot longer she had thought about it, although she felt guilty so she couldnt. When she did however, i got really close to her and 1 month ago we finally got together. she is the most brilliant person i have ever met, and we fell in love instantly. she would tell me how much she loved me and me the same. however she couldnt tell her ex about us, as she still cared for him and didnt want to hurt him. she did tell him 3 days ago, and he had a very adverse reaction and made her feel horrible. she is now very confused, and says she isnt completely over him, and doesnt know what to do. i am so broken, and really couldnt bare to lose her, what can i do?
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reader, DV1  +, writes (25 June 2007):
 I just got out of that same situation. You're better off single for the time being. The best thing that you can do is tell her that you two can't be together until she's sure where her heart is at. Tell her that you can't wait around, but to give you a call sometime, and you'll see where your lives are at.
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