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writes:I told a girl I like her and then we became close. But now if I say can we get together, she says she doesn't want it because she doesn't want to lose a good mate. How can I get her to see I'll always be there for her as a mate? And how can I get her to see that she should give it a try ? Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (26 June 2007):
 Don't push things with her, keep seeing her as a good friend and be there for her when she needs you. Tell her how much you value your friendship with her and don't want to lose her as a friend. Keep this going for some time and who knows, something beautiful may materialise out of it in the end.
Good luck
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reader, flower girl +, writes (26 June 2007):
 If she has made up her mind there might be no way of convinceing her to give it a try, plus how can you be sure yourself that you will always be there for her as a friend, if the relationship was to end badly you may never want to see each other again because that does happen.
Don't try to hard just carry on as you are and if it's meant to be it will happen.
Take care.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (26 June 2007):
 Explain that you want to take things slowly as to not spoil the friendship. And how you really don't want to spoil the friendship.
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