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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi. yesterday my fiancee sent me an sms of a baby and when i called him back he said that the baby was his. he was having a relationship with another girl for the past year while he was with me. he said even though the girl (20) wanted to abort the child, he asked her to have it, unlike my situ where i didn't have the kid. he claims to have had gone 4 hiv tests etc with this girl before he actually had the baby. he says he still loves me. he's parents are traditional and want him to marry the girl. he says they can't be anything more than the parents of his kid. what do i do. i feel betrayed and lost
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reader, cd206  +, writes (5 April 2007):
 I think he could have found a more sensitive way of telling you about the baby but I guess that ship has sailed now. Be glad he at least told you. He could have continued to keep the news from you. His life has completely changed now and there is someone more important than you in it but that doesn't have to mean the end of your relatinship. You just need to decide if you're okay about continuing to have a relationship with someone you feel betrayed you.
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