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writes:Hey..Needn some advice.. am in relationship for 6 years and engaged to the most committed man, well sort of. I know he loves me very much and i love him as much, he would also drive to the moon for me but since we have got engaged certain things about him are beginning to annoy me... he lives a bit away from me and always calls to mine to spend time together. but at this stage its like he calls in to just watch tv. he's happy to call in watch tv for an hour or four! and then i get a peck on the cheek before he goes home. it has always been this way but its only now its become more obvious. im still living at home and i know its awkward at times to spend quality time together but my family are very good to us and give us plenty of space. i have tried plenty of times to drop a hint that i would like some attention but it doesnt work. even if we have house to ourselves, it would never cross his mind to take his eyes from the box.. apart from this, being with him for 6 years means his my first serious relationship, in other words he's the first n only man ive slept with and yet to experience an orgasm. we have bought sex toys including vibrators and ligerie to make things more interesting but nothing seems to work... when we speak bout these things he gets very defensive and i feel at times im wasting my time... can anyone help me out... please, i do appreciate it...
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reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (8 April 2007):
 The most you can do is speak your mind. Tell him your concerns. If he really does love you and would "drive to the moon for you" then taking the time to listen to you and do something about it is little to ask. Make the time you have together more intimate, turn the tv off as has been said and have a quite dinner, you know the drill.It's easy for relationships to get in a routine and forget about each other's desires, don't blame him for that. But if he won't acknowledge the fact that things need changing, you need to think seriously about the whole thing. If you're planning to get married then he his going to have to show 0 alot more commitment to you than this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007): Next time he's coming round turn off the TV. you could go as far as to say its broken! Tell him you will be his entertainment for the night, get him a drink, offer him a massage, seduce him. Make him have only eyes for you and make him forget what a TV is.
They say the remote is an extension of a mans penis!
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