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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:today i showed my bf a class picture from high school last year. and he was saying which girls he thought were good looking. he went though them all, but didnt even mention me (i was also on the picture) it hurt me a little bit. am i being silly? just it makes me think that me boyfriend doesnt find me attractive. im not like the other types of girls he finds attractive. i told him i was hurt and he said he didnt see me on the picture. but that hurt me more as i fort how can u not reconise your own gf which u have been with for a year and 2 months? please give me reasurance... Reply to this Question
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reader, vero05  +, writes (6 April 2007):
well, either ur ugly, he obiusly thinks ur pretty and he didnt say it, or he just really didnt notice u wee on the pic cause uve changed. Enyways, hes ur boyfriend not of the other girls on the pic, he loves u and thats all that matters.
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reader, markanthonyv0  +, writes (6 April 2007):
It's alright, it is really nothing to be hurt about. The bigger issue is that us men are very inconsiderate and not as sympathetic as women are. You naturally mature faster than us, and we just lag behind. So don't expect every man to be sensitive and understanding like women are, we just need some help. Think about it this way, take notice how your boyfriend makes his decisions. Does he really think them out and take time to consider how his actions affect others or does he make decisions based on his gut feeling. If he really thought things out, when he said he didn't notice you, that could have been a sign to you that you need to improve yourself and make your self more attractive. Or if he makes decisions based on gut, he might have said that he didn't see you without realizing that what you really needed was reassurance that he found you attractive. Despite the fact he didn't notice you he could have told you that he still finds you hot, and what transpired would not have bothered you, but remember he might make decisions based on gut.
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