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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't want to break up with him, but it hurts so bad to love someone and tell it constantly, and get NOTHING back

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have been dating this guy for over 9 months now. We work together, go to lunch together, leave together. And on our days off we spend time together. He is always there when I need him. But he hasn't said I love you. I do love him and I have expressed this to him, and got ... (148 words)

Why can't I orgasm during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

- Hello, I have been sexually active for four years now and have had a few sexual partners, of which non have been able to give me an orgasm during sex. I mean don't get me wrong, it feels amazing and I do get really turned on, I just don't orgasm... is there something wrong ... (103 words)

Why do people have an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I would just like to know why people have an affair and what exactly do you gain out of it (because to me you just make matters a whole lot worse) so why do it.... (35 words)

Did it too early?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. We had sex after only 2 months... but we're still together. Months and months ago we would always fight- but it's gotten better. We still have a few issues between us though. And I'm thinking that if he hadn't taken my ... (107 words)

Getting mad that he keeps mentioning his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - why is it when my boyfriend and me are having a wonderful conversation -he somehow uses his ex as an example or part of our conversation.she stays in contact with him once a month.he said he never contacts her.i feel strange and dont like it at all!!!!!getting madd!!!!!what do ... (51 words)

Is my partner secretly gay? Even his mother thinks so!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 30 years of age and my boyfriend is 34, we have been in a relationship for 2 years. I'm concerned that he maybe gay. The thing is my partner is a mans man someone you would never think is gay. He has a reputation as a ladies man and craves attention from women. Ive caught ... (376 words)

She had pictures of me on her nightstand! A little odd?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Awhile back I got to know a girl I met online who lived in an area that I was going to be moving to. We seemed to have a good repore and connection. Fast forward and when I moved we met and at about our 4th date she invited me to her house for a pizza and movie, she was ... (136 words)

Thoughts on eyelash extensions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry i know this is a relationship website but please ANY advice on this would be amazing!! It doesn't matter if you haven't had it done yourself, I just can't decide whether to get them done!!?? I'm going on holiday in a few days, and i was thinking about getting eyelash ... (166 words)

Should I one day try and have sex with a woman? To see if it will stop these feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 39 year old 'male ' and have never had sex, not even a kiss!I was very,very,very,very, shy when I was growing up. I could not dare go near a girl!!!! One day when I was off ill form school , age 14-15, I wondered what it was like to be female. So I put on some of my mum ... (183 words)

Why does the end of a relationship bother me so little?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi! I like to think that I am a very loving, caring person and I form close relationships with people, especially men. However, when a relationship ends, it seems I just get cold inside and just want to replace the person, like changing clothes. And these are people I have ... (146 words)

Everything I say can be taken the wrong way, can this be fixed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently run into problems with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. We have been arguing non-stop for the past few weeks about everything. Basically, I've narrowed the problem to this: we take each others comments too personally/the wrong way. He will say comments to joke... (242 words)

I did not get pregnant after my partner ejaculated within me. Does this mean I won't be able to have kids?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Helpppppppp!!!!!... I had unprotected sex with my partner and he ejaculated inside of me in June 5th, i got my period i believe on june 11th. may i not be able to have kids?... (34 words)

I lost my friend/lover over a year ago when I was caught in a lie. Is there still a way to get that person back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I made a mistake and hurt someone I love by lying to them. I'm not a bad person but I did make a bad choice and lied because of my insecurities. Because of the result of my actions I had to pay a huge cost-the end of a relationship with someone I grew to truly care about and ... (263 words)

15 yrs. sudden ED?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hello all, i am 15, 5'11", 170 lbs. and can't seem to get a boner recently... It started a few weeks ago I guess. I have a UTI where it hurts to pee, it's gotten A LOT better now but it still hurts when i just finish emptying my bladder. The other night I was at a par... (233 words)

Torn between two lovers, feeling like a fool

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, here's the whole thing. I have been with my boyfriend for about 1 year and 3 months now, I have had thoughts about dumping him and I don't know whether I love him or not. Lately I've been dreading his calls, texts and visits because he's just so clingy and I'm not used to ... (172 words)

When I asked my ex if he was over us breaking up, he replied, "Are you?" What does this mean??

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I have been split up almost 4 months now, we were together for 2 years but things just seemed to get worse. The other day I spoke to him over facebook and asked him if he was completely over everything and the only thing he replied with was 'are you?'. I didnt answer ... (98 words)

Why would my male best friend get sexual with me when he already has a gf whom he says he loves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so me and my male best friend were foolin around a little and we ended up having dry sex and him fingering me. He has a girlfriend whom he's been dating for 7 months and he told me a few days back that he loved her. If he loves her why would he do this to me? I'm not ... (115 words)

My wife and I don't have sex anymore. What can I do???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So to sum up my problem it's lack of sex. Here's some background. My wife and I have been married for a little less than two years. I'm 34 and she's 29. This is a first marriage for both of us and there are no kids in the picture. When we first got together the sex... (528 words)

How can I (a married woman) get out of an affair with my neighbor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm having an affair with my neighbour. It's not something I'm accustomed or comfortable doing and I feel totally out of control. I've pushed my limits well to far and feel horrible. At the same time, I find I'm falling head over heels at an alarming, intense rate. He will ... (167 words)

How can I tell my Mum that I want to remain friends with an ex-bf--whom she hates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have quite a delicate matter that i need to tell my mum about and just want some advice on how to go about it. Well, as those who have read my posts before, my ex and i have massive history together. Mum doesn't like him at all (mainly because of what he did to me) I'... (462 words)

What will my family say about my marrying a non-Muslim guy??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now and we are both in love and cannot live without each other. I have met my boyfriend's family twice. They live abroad, but he hasn't met mine yet. However i am planning to introduce him to my family. The only thing that ... (154 words)

Multiple orgasms must be amazing - WHY don't women want to have sex all day?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Ever since I was with my first "serious" girlfriend, I've envied womens' ability to have multiple orgasms. When she got going, she'd have one after another with only a few seconds (if that) in between for a couple minutes, I'd have my one "little" orgasm, and she'd keep going ... (190 words)

I'm impatient. Is it usually this difficult to get a guy's attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I've decided to ask for advice here because I'm sure there's someone who has gone through this. I like a boy from my school. I'm not trying to make him notice me because we already know each other but I've never thought it would be that hard to get to the next level with... (186 words)

Why did he lie to me about breaking up with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this guy for like eight months. He has had a girlfriend for the whole time at first we weer just friends but then we started hanging out and flirting.he kept telling me that hé was going to break up with her. A little whilee ago he kissed me and now he told ... (69 words)

Will lube help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hey there. So I've had sex before--several times. With a handful of different partners. My current partner and I have been struggling though. I often have to stop early and am sore afterward. He is very well endowed and it's getting hard. I also have a tough time staying ade... (101 words)

I've been without my ex for almost as long as I was with her. Why do I still think about her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I went through a break up just under four months ago with a girl at university. I was in my final year, she in her first. As much as we were in love and our relationship was intense, it only lasted four months. Our break up was circumstantial in that she didn't want me to make ... (346 words)

How do I know if I still love him, after all we've been through?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I know if I still love him? I've been with my current boyfriend for just over two years. It's been rough, with him moving out of state for school, coming home breaking up with me, going back to school, and comeing home and getting back together with me, through all that ... (319 words)

Getting seriously mixed signals. What is up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright guys. I have a boyfriendish thing. We're currently on it's complicated. But this isn't about him. It's about one of my guy friends.. So we met at work. We hung out once and he ended up getting me to smoke weed for the first time with him. But that's besides the point. S... (580 words)

I need some advice about love vs life....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i am writing this looking for some advice on a life and relationship issue. i have been with my current girlfriend for about 2 1/2 years. we lived together for about six months. but in december of this past year, i decided to move out of the country and take a teaching position ... (494 words)

Does she like me or is she ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So there is this girl whom i love very much but i dont know if she feels the same. I know that the girl knows i like her ( That's a long story that how she came to know this though i have never talked to her about this ) Let me tell about the girl, she is very shy, nice, ... (194 words)

Something has changed with him and he wont answer my questions, how do I get answers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I know you get this a lot but I really need help please, I have been with this guy for a long time about five years and this last periode I felt that he is not the same I tried calling him asking what's wrong I don't get an answer from him he said that nothing is wrong and ... (143 words)

He dumped me 2 months ago, but I love him more now than I did before! How do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - 2 month ago I got dumped. This guy is the love of my life, my soul mate and my best friend and now its gone. Over time you're suppost to heal right and gradually forget well I love this guy more right now than I did 2 month ago and losing him has made me realise how much... (454 words)

He said he thinks of me as a little sister? Does he fancy me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - what does it mean he thinks of you as a little sister or does it mean he likes you? btw we are both 16 going on 17. ive known him for about a 3 years he is always flirting and sometimes he acts friendly but idk if hes just a playing or what. any advice? ... (58 words)

Why is he spreading rumours about me and harassing me again? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Please help me! i have a bit of a problem theres a long story to go with it, i'll explain some of the details, but really my ex who has been harrassing me after we split up is now spreading rumours around but when i confront him he says he hasnt said anything, why?? S... (529 words)

How can I rebuild my trust with her after I know she's cheated on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I confronted my girlfriend about everything she's been doing and all her lies. She told me everything. She spilled her guts and now I know everything. I have a new issue that I would like help with..How can I rebuild my trust with her after I know she's cheated on me? I ... (72 words)

Obsessed with husbands ex.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel i am obsessed with my husbands ex. we have been together 8yrs and recently got married but literaly since day one she has been in our relationship trying to destroy it. we were on again off again with our relationship for a while and in those times he tried or was ... (510 words)

Should I get married?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

- This is going to sound ridiculous, some of you will probably ask why I am even thinking about doing it if I have doubts. I used to think exactly the same. The thing is, I feel like I have so much to loose if I don't; I get on great with his family, I love him (like a best fri... (194 words)

Even if a guy dumps you, does he still get jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I would like to know opinions on the following. I have been told that even if a guy dumps you he will still get jealous or have a bruised ego when he sees you have moved on to someone else. Is this true? To me it makes no sense! I was dating someone for 3 months, he ... (118 words)

He said he would leave his wife for me......almost 3 years ago! What should I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont even know whether to call him husband or not,well i met this married guy 2yrs back.his wife cannot conceive and they have tried medical help in vain.At first i was reluctant giving into him for the obvious reason he is married.He managed to convince me beyond doubt that ... (142 words)

He dumped me, so why is it all my fault?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Like when my ex dumped me by text after dating a year. He blamed the WHOLE failure of our relationship on me. Yet he bottled everything up and never communicated. Then let the resentment grow until he couldn't take it anymore and dumped me. Why do dumpers do this? Its not my ... (64 words)

Falling for a married man but I don't want to be a homewrecker! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, well, im falling for a married guy! so a few months ago i moved from england to holland on my own to start a fresh. I started a new job a month ago and met "jack", i wasn't really interested at first, i wasn't attracted to him. but i work quite closely with him and we ... (193 words)

Will watching porn with my wife damage our relationship? Or is it a good thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age - is it a good thing for a husband and wife to watch porn together? are there any good benefits from watching it together or will it cause harm in our marriage.my wife and i have been doing this every now and then. thanks for any replies .... (53 words)

Teenager in sex distress.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i'm 14 goin on 15 and i'm dating a soon to be senior in high school, we've been dating on and off for the last almost year and a half . i have recently been getting really horny around him and he's been getting boners whenever i'm around . first question is it norma... (99 words)

My boyfriend doesn't last more than 5 minutes when we have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend can't last more than 5 minutes when we have sex.. It is so uncomfortable.. I love him dearly but I'm not satisfied. We've talked about it but all he can say is he can't help it.. He blames it on the size of his penis.. What should I do?? ... (53 words)

I just can't help being jealous and worrying that he was lusting over those girls....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a really great relationship with a guy who I'd been friends with for years. We've been together two years, we're both 19 and live together. About a month ago, I asked if I could use his laptop to go on the internet, he said yes. Completely innocently, I went to save a p... (736 words)

I cant help but feel tempted, whenever I am with her my imagination runs wild! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am 19 years old and I need some help and good advice about love, temptation and sex. I am so confused now about my feelings and desires. My parents are religious, however I am not but I really respect and abide the values and morals a lot. I am afraid to tell them abo... (447 words)

Am I just another guy in the list?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend recently put up on a social networking site (FB) that we are in a relationship... and some guy commented on it.... whats your count?.. I know her complete past.. she has told me about all the guys she has been with..in relationships or casual sex.. but still ... (323 words)

Do you think I should continue to maintain military silence, maybe respond for him to leave me alone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear aunts and uncles, I kicked out my abusive ex about 4/5 months ago. The first three weeks of the break-up he called and begged non-stop and I maintained military silence. It seemed to work as he left me alone. Recently he has come out of the blue, texting and calling... (175 words)

Have I hooked up with too many guys?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've hooked up with 12 guys, but have only had sex with 2 of them. hooking up might be nakedness, oral, or hand jobs....is that a lot? im 25 :(... (31 words)

Why do I only get a boner half of the time we want to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - People I have a biiig problem. Me and my gf have been together for 3 months now and we were both eachtother first time. The sex couldnt be any better ... but lately half of the time when we want to have sex I either don't get a boner from the start, or it gets hard, but doesnt... (80 words)

How to tell a woman she has hurt me, without hurting her feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I need some advice people! Some may have followed my questions here for a few months, there is a woman I like, we started off great, then she became very very quiet for the last 4 months. I did try to contact her a lot, phone-email-text-letter you name it, no response that ... (209 words)

What should my role be in his life? Part 2.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4698 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid aunt on my question dated 9th may 2011,(What should my role be in his life) suggested me to leave the saint after getting the required lesson from him. But i am still much confused. He is not a saint.And his family life is ruiined on the way of treating me.As a very ... (380 words)

Should I tell my gay friend how I feel about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm in love with my best friend. he's gay. i've tried everything but i just can't get over the feelings i have for him. i want to be with him so badly. my friend thinks he has feelings for me too. he says things that make me think he does. should i tell him? do you think it ... (79 words)

Is it wrong if I do his laundry?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I currently live with my boyfriend and this has been going on for close to a year now. So far everything is harmonious with ofcourse some petty fights every now and then. I was surfing this morning on the net about relationships and I have come to read twice of an advise tha... (174 words)

Did he like me for who I am, or only for my pictures?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I joined a social site and it's not for dating or anything. I thought it would just be for fun and to see what it's like. I eventually met this guy I like. I realize now I should have told him right away. The girl I used is Beautiful like 10 or 11 out of 10. When he found ... (219 words)

I don't feel like I fit in the college dating crowd because I'm petite

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year, I was graduating highschool and was under the impression that guys may be slightly more open minded when it came to girls who were not big breasted and tall. But I got even more intimidated because I feel like a college girl in a jr high/highschool girl's body. I ... (144 words)

My worry is that love isn't real, or doesn't last... Am I right? Does anyone have a loving relationship that has lasted???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm wondering if it is unrealistic to think that love can last? I've been with my bf 8 months, things are great, and he's talked about us moving in together in the next year and said that he'd like us to marry and have children some day, which surprised me but makes me ... (185 words)

Love triangle with two brothers.......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Not sure how to proceed. Two brothers, both my best friends. They didn't get along but for me, they would not fight so we could hang out together. We're all very laidback and flirty, always great times. About 9 months ago, the oldest brother and I were talking about if we ... (468 words)

Should I text him in a week and ask for a meet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The guy I dated all of a sudden told me he got scared and needed time. He said he is very very attracted to me, loves hanging out with me. Honestly i don't get it. We had very good chemistry. We only dated for a month and didn't have sex.. He said he was'nt interested in more ... (191 words)

How do I stop overthinking everything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - at the moment my ex boyfriend and i are working things out to give it another shot. we were together for about two years and then decided to go on a break and that just turned into a break up. we have been seperated for about 9 months now. i can honestly say that the first 6 ... (318 words)

She thinks of me as a brother, not a lover

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Am in love with a friend of mine, we grew up together and have known each other from childhood. I told he how i feel abaut her and dat am in love with her,but she said to me that am like a brother to her and she dont know how she will date or go into a relationship with me, ... (90 words)

How do I get the images of his ex out of my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get the images of his ex out of my head? When I'm awake I'm constantly thinking out it. I'm not even sure why or what's bothering me about it. It never normally has. People have pasts and that's how life is so why is this getting to me so much? I cant stop thinking... (191 words)

Ex treats me like I'm someone he doesn't like, so how can we get together again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My "ex"-boyfriend and I are trying to work things out to get back together. We have been together for two years and a half but throughout our relationship we have had problems that have affected our relationship now... Everything was perfect and good ... (782 words)

How long does it take for a person's true colors to come out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I don't know whether my question is appropriate or not, but I am so lost. I met a guy june 2010, but we didn't get close till january 2011. he was sweet n kind, i got interested n he finally confessed his feelings in april and soon after that we couple up. my q... (256 words)

She says she needs time to forgive me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4701 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I fell in love with this girl in 6th grade....we're seniors in high school now. i broke her heart in 6th grade and she broke mine last year when we dated for a year.... it took a while to hit me but everytime we talk i miss her more and more, she tells me that im the only guy ... (227 words)

Should I tell my girlfriend that I use viagra?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

14 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been in a loving relationship for the past year. We have a great sex life, the thing is, I use viagra because it helps me to perform (I am 39 now and well enough said). I have never told my girlfriend that I use viagra and I am wanting to tell her. I am really w... (117 words)

I think I'm getting to the point where I'm bored with my relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm getting to the point where I'm bored with my relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and maybe the relationship has run its course. I've tried to suggest new things to do and places to go, but he seems to be focused on his own stuff- work, gym, ... (142 words)

"talk to you soon" after a break up? does he mean it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I made contact with my ex boyfriend today. We broke up a month ago (dated for 5 months) and I know that we aren't going to get back together because his reasons were pretty firm. I still think about him a lot and in the back of my mind I think I'll always want to be with him. ... (456 words)

Why is it so difficult to meet the right person?

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - After my ex royally screwed me over and I went through a bad breakup. I've tried datinf other people wihtout success. Guy #1 I was crazy about. But he was immature and didn't know what he wanted. He was off and on with me. I got pissed off and didn't want to be the fallback... (173 words)

Boyfriend claims that porn vidoes aren't pornography!

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend always said he didn't get into porn, although I did. He said he subscribed to playboy for several years in his 20's, most of them stayed in the wrapper because of their worth and "he liked the articles". But whatever, I tried introducing porn into our relationship ... (332 words)

Where to go from here? There's nothing left

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - where to go from here is what i ask,there's nothing left my husband treats me as if i'm a child what time he isn't he's treating me as if i'm his mother.i really don't know why i stay.there's no affection between us anymore,there's nothing but work and spending hour's upon ... (431 words)

A blast from the past

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14 June 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I have been married to a girl i was with for 25 years ,in the 11th year she gave birth to my son,so I married her and gave my son all the love that a father could,meanwhile not in love with his mother ,I never cheated on her in entire time we were married until i ran in to the ... (294 words)

After everything I've been through with him, should I just leave him?

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all i really need advice. I have been here before and gotten the answers i have expected. but i cant seem to take them into action. I am just going to be breif about what all i think has played a part in our relationship. My husband and i have been together since the a... (1649 words)

Trouble with my lack of a love life

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14 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I thought that I'd hit the net in search of some advice. I'm really having trouble with my love life, or should I say lack thereof. I've been single all my life and have never had anything even close to resembling a girlfriend or relationship. I can't say that I have any ... (426 words)

He wants "vivid" photos of me!

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - He's sweet and always really nice, but ever since we got deeper into getting to know each other, he been asking me to give him pictures of me, like "vivid" pictures. I know I would never do it, but I want him to like me still and I know he likes me for me, but he keeps texting ... (109 words)

Would it be a fools hope to think the relationship could be salvaged after 8 years of not being together?

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14 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Well I never thought i'd be lowering my standard to ask complete strangers outside of my own circle for an outsiders opinion but current circumstances contact with my own family is irregular and well majority of my closest peers aren't sound for advice either best I could given ... (682 words)

Love letters?

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Are love letters effective when it comes to letting a guy know that you are interested in him, or is it a childish or high school act? Just wondering. Thanks ... (30 words)

I was giving my husband a blow job and my son walked in on us!!

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So.. I was having a rather pleasant time pleasuring my man... yes BJ ... we have been together 20 years - married for 14 and have 2 young children.. 2 and 5 yrs. We had not closed our door as we tend not too because we can generally hear our little ones coming down the ... (255 words)

Teacher added everyone but me on Facebook

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, my name is Rach and I'm 14 years old... thing is, I have a really huge crush on this teacher and yes, signs are there that he likes me back. Every time I'm near him I catch him looking at me, and there was once my two friends confronted him and asked if he felt the same way ... (309 words)

My bf of 3 years doesn't want to tell the mother of his children that I exist.

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 3 years will not tell the mother of his children that I exist. I find it very disrespectful. I'm on the verge of leaving, we only argue about this, the rest of the relationship is good, how can I explain how hurtful this is without sounding blaming. I just want ... (101 words)

Is it wrong to be sexually involved with your best friend?

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it wrong to be sexually involved with your best friend? Okay so my friend came over(he's a guy) and we were just watching t.v then we started fighting over the remote because I didn't want to watch a show. Somehow from that it led to him fingering me and dry humping me. And ... (198 words)

I want an adventure but don't want to be " just another girl"

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there... after 4 years in a LDR, i decided to break up with my bf... he was my first bf and i love him very much... i felt we were difting apart, he was too focused in college and his job, and so was i. we never had time for each other and fought constantly when we were ... (286 words)

Why did he text me wanting to meet up, after not hearing from him for weeks?

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There was this guy that i met one evening and he was such a gentlemen and one of the most decent guys i've met on a night out! He didn't grope me, put his hands on me or invade my personal space.. He was respectful and really funny! Anyways i did like him and we used to text, ... (244 words)

I love my best friend.

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Lately ive been atracted to my best friend. She is a gorgeous girl. I curently have a boyfriend of 6 months but I feel like it aint going anywhere. My best friend (the girl i have a crush on)knows everything about me, exept that I love her. Her mother don't like me much ... (188 words)

My ex left abruptly, then completely shut me out. How do I get over him without any explanation or closure?

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you get over your ex and stop thinking about him? It is especially hard since he completely shut me out of his life and left abruptly with no contact. When I do try to contact him he doesn't pick up or respond to me. I'm not sure how to get over this and how he can be so ... (61 words)

Sexy photos of me in a frame or on a t-shirt as a gift? Any low budget date ideas?

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - would it be okay as a gift for my boyfriend of 9months to get some sexy photos done of me and either give him one really nice one in a frame or maybe get it printed on a tshirt or something? Does this sound like a good idea? If not what else might be an okay idea to give a guy ... (134 words)

I need a good role model to confide in!

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - the last day of schools tomorrow, and then im back to being lonely.. no more confiding in my teacher for months.. whats even worse is that my brothers ex girlfriend, im not allowed to talk to her anymore. when she was the only one who tried to be involved in my life.. but she ... (157 words)

Why do I fall in love with every woman who shows me the least bit of attention?

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14 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im a 19y.o male. I have a question that may seem odd, but this has been on my mind for a while. to quote "eternal sunshine of the spotless mind" why do i fall in love with every woman who shows me the LEAST bit attention? I find this happening quite a lot. Is this normal? I ... (88 words)

Dating nearly 8 months and still no kiss?!?

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months, and we still have yet to kiss. We cuddle and stuff, but he just won't kiss me. When I ask him about it, he trys to change the subject and such. I know this wouldn't be his first kiss, but why is he so nervous about ... (59 words)

My girlfriend's daughter despises the fact that I moved in without consultation by her mother!

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14 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 34 years old and my girlfriend is 48. She has 15 year old daughter that despises the fact that I moved in before my girlfriend consulted her daughter. Any advice to lighten the load?... (36 words)

How do you feel about yourself? How does this opinion affect your relationships?

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14 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Sort of a big question here, I just want opinions. How do you feel about yourself? How does this opinion affect your relationships? The reason I ask is because I have very low self-esteem, which I am working on but it always comes back to bite me in relationships. I deny any... (181 words)

Why doesn't she reply to a text or a facebook message? She talks to me in person!

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14 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So, there's this girl I like. When she sees me at a party she'll come talk to me and give me a hug without me even attempting to talk to her, but if I text her or send her a message on Facebook she hardly ever replies. I can't figure out why she'd come talk to me in person but ... (73 words)