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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Very conflicted about breaking off a 3 1/2 year relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for 3 1/2 years, and engaged for 2 1/2 of those, but with absolutely no wedding plans. We started dating when we were 20 and he was/is my very first relationship; I had had sex with other people before that but no dating. Recently I have felt ... (347 words)

Male partner texting/sexual interactions with other men!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age - My partner and I have been together for over 20 yrs and have 2 children. I have recently discovered he has been txting men and has on at least 3 occasions had a head job from another man and has returned the favour - this is what he has admitted to ( and I really dont know ... (175 words)

When it's good, it's GOOD... When it's bad, it's AWFUL.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! Well, I've been in my relationship for three years, and at times, it's been AWESOME. He does have some outside issues- unemployed, car was repo'd, and still lives with his parents. He's a musician, so he takes gigs as a source of income, and he also plays for my dad's ... (569 words)

He is asking my permission to cheat on me (special occasion)

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - We are dating for around a year now and we still haven't "done it". Well, that's all just because I can't, my mom is really strict (i mean it) and if she said no in that kind of thing, it means "don't do it or i'll kill you both". Well, he understands that I mustn't lose my ... (341 words)

He is hypnotized by pretty girls around him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - A few times when we have been out I have turned to talk to my boyfriend and caught him staring intently at an attractive woman. I find this really irritating and its now causing rows. He gets this hypnotic look on his face and then snaps out of it when I ask him what he's ... (117 words)

He's hurt me so many times, is it best to end things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I went out with this guy for almost a year but we've been talking for two years. At first everything was so perfect and he was so sweet... but as time went on he started lying to me and being a little too flirty with other girls we would get into arguement a lot... and ... (139 words)

How do you know if your boyfriend's ex is trying to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - how do you know if your boyfriends ex is trying to get him back?he always tells me when she has contacted him,and what they talked about.he said its never about them or love,just casual conversation.but-why is it important to have her in his life.she must know when to call ... (114 words)

Is it true that the one who cares the least has the most power in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - they say the one that cares the least has the most power- is this true? Boy, am i in trouble. I care the most.... (24 words)

Why would a musician want to be with a girl who is outspoken and not crazy over his band?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for about two weeks now who is the lead singer in a band and I don’t understand why he is still interested in me when I know I am blunt and direct at times, nor do I take much interest in his band. They’re really good, but I’d rather us talk about ... (212 words)

What should I do, husband doesn't want to give me any money

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married 2 months ago with this guy and we have a 2 month old baby. I was working for the last 5 years.He told me to stop working to take care of the baby. I spent my time cooped up in the house taking care of the baby, cooking, cleaning. He pays the bills and buys the ... (477 words)

Is it possible that professionals cannot diagnose ED?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age - Is it really possible not be able to diagnose, cause of sexual dysfunction by professionals? They say,they dont know... How common is that, that you go to the doctors and they say, well I don't know why do you have this problem. I have a longstanding ED. AND A COMPLETE LACK ... (148 words)

Is my mom being ridiculous or am I?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom hasn't cooked dinner in over three months. If she does, its one day out of the week and the leftovers are expected to tide us over until she next cooks. Since she doesn't grocery shop often enough, I end up buying all my food or just not eating. Lately, she ha... (196 words)

Married and still have feelings for my ex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - About 6 months ago an ex-girlfriend found me on facebook. It wasn't until 3 weeks ago that she finally sent me a message saying to let her know when I'm in her area, because she would like to see me. This message really got me thinking about her again. I replied 2 days later ... (353 words)

I don't want to waste any time if he's going to cheat on me again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I have been dating this guy for almost 3 years now. He has always been on the sorta jealous side and he has cheated on me in the past. I broke up with him for like 5 months and we ended up getting back together. He always blames me for cheating, and calls me before I get ... (214 words)

I kissed her goodnight and she said that Koreans don't act that way. I'm confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm going to try to keep this brief as possible. I asked out this Korean girl at a restaurant I frequent for lunch while working. We went out, she was pretty nervous because her english isn't that great. We walked around, talked, had dinner and went to an improv comedy s... (323 words)

Two guys got in touch out of the blue?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone put my mind at rest and figure this out! Guys preferably. These two guys who I used to like both got back in contact with me SO randomly!? I’m skeptical to why they have got back in contact and should I think anything into this? One of them said we should meet u... (250 words)

Best friend broke up and I want to comfort him but I am afraid of getting in too deep

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Some of my older questions about my best friend whom I have been In love with for going on 2 years now has recently split up with his girlfriend and is obviously a little hurt, now him knowing I like him he has been saying things that sound a little flirtatious or it could just ... (200 words)

Sick and tired of experiencing emotional neglect from boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, A couple weeks ago I decided to end a 1 yr realationship with my boyfriend who is 17 yrs older than me. He is a divorced father, he has a daughter that is eight years old. I ended the realtionship due to the fact that I felt lonely and neglected, I was... (385 words)

I am trying to forget him and he is making is difficult with his emails!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I am 15 and this slight issue is something which really I think shoudn't be part of my life at this age. I met a boy when I was on vacation and we continued to talk using the internet. We were talking for just over a month and at first I was flattered fr... (375 words)

I haven't dated anyone since boyfriend left me for an online girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted on here last month saying that my ex dumped me for a girl he spoke to online, who lives in America, who he has never met in person !. My ex and i live in England. I kept hounding him at first, as i was upset, but then i started to get over him, but now i have started ... (248 words)

In love with my third-cousin

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid My 3rd cousin n i were in love, but we never had anything. the family notice we had feelings for each other. He's was forbidden to be with me. We grow apart. we older now n and just got in contact. We still in love. Is it okay to be with him.... (57 words)

Is it bad for my guy to come to my place everyday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sound funny and stupid,but you need to help me out. Am in university and i stay in off campus,but my guy which i met stays in hostels,he don't know how to cook so he bought all the things for cooking and brought it to my lodge. So i do the cooking and he always come to ... (203 words)

His best friend is a girl and I'm incredibly jealous

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear all, I'm in my last year of school and iv been with my boyfriend about 5 months now and I adore him. He's been best friends with a girl for years, even before he even met me they were very close. I know they've never done anything remotely sexual and my boyfriend... (163 words)

I found out he was married after 3 years, he thinks I will take him back! How do I make him see its over?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I split from my ex a while back now because I suddenly had my eyes opened to what a nasty horrible dispicable selfish personn he is-found out after 3 years he is married amongst hundreds of other twisted lies. If I'm honest, I'm not sure if I'm over him yet, I feel angry an... (321 words)

I do not want my difficult Mother-in-Law to move in with us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please bare with me, as this might get long and thank you in advance for reading. My boyfriend and I have lived together for over a year, and have a great relationship.one pertinent piece of information is that I have lupus, which for those who don't know, is a rare, serious ... (632 words)

I left my wife for her and now she won't even respond to my calls!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently I have been the one having the affair and it lasted 2 and a half years. The person in question is 15 years younger than me. She asked me so many times to leave my partner and child. I was unhappy at home but found it very difficult to leave because of my child. Even... (240 words)

I want to work on being a better boyfriend and Father

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - HI My story is .. I have been going out with my gf for 3 years and we have a lovely daughter together, I have not really been the best bf or father that I could have been and recently we split up and I went away for a week to see some family. I came back and during my week a... (472 words)

I'm in love with my cousin but we're scared of getting into trouble.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid I have known my cousin for about three year..we use to chat and stuff but I never saw him because we were both living in a different countries. I had liked him for the first time I saw his pictures, it was like love at first site..anyways in 2011 I came to his coun... (157 words)

He's with a lot of woman in his Facebook photos, could this mean he's a player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - If a guy hangs around with lots of women, does that mean he is a player, or could they just be his friends? I know some could be relatives too. I recently met this guy in a bar . We haven't been on a date yet, but he is on my friends list on Facebook, and we have each others ... (122 words)

I am so confused, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi folk, I dated a guy for two and half years. We were very close that I thought it will end up in marriage. He neither buy me a gift nor gives me enough money which i don’t care. After a year in relationship, one day I took his phone then I notice that he was flirting with ... (176 words)

What to wear at a foam party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I am going to a foam party soon with a mixed group. I'm 18 and bisexual. What do I wear? Can guys go shirtless? What do the girls normally wear?... (31 words)

Trying to reach the big "O"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey cupid, I've been having a problem reaching orgasm during sex for quite a while now. I've only ever reached orgasm twice during sex and with my current boyfriend I'm finding it pretty stressful because I want to make sure he knows that I'm enjoying it (and also, I'd quite ... (95 words)

Is he not interested in me anymore? Does he really want to leave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - He's liked me for 6 months already. He once asked me to be his girlfriend. But I was not ready and I need to think carefully, I asked him to wait for me in 1 month. Actually I fell for him already, I'm just not ready for a relationship, to be called bf-gf. Maybe I think to... (699 words)

Can I have a lasting relationship with this girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to have a lasting relationship with a lady who is one year younger than you. My situation is, I met this girl about 5-6 months ago we get along well and have healthy relationship upto now. I made it clear that I really love her and I would like to be with her ... (114 words)

Anybody ever cured a sexual fetish/obsession?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Has somebody ever cured an obsession? I'm talking about a sexual obsession here. Before I could understand what sex really meant, I was obsessed about this one body part. Now I'm not gonna say which part because I want the answers to be independant of that information. ... (124 words)

How can I get my younger boyfriends mum to trust me?How can I get my younger boyfriends mum to trust me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 and have been seeing my 19 year old boyfriend for nearly 6 months, we kept it quiet for a while just to get to know each other but about a month ago we I met his parents. His dad was lovely and welcoming but his mum acted strange towards me intact the first thing she ... (140 words)

Still living with my ex, and have met someone new. Should I have sex with him? Will I regret it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 6 years have split up but we are currently still living together as I dont want to chuck him out as we have a son, he is moving out in the next month. I love him with all my heart but, It wasnt working as he has anger issues and yells at me constantly, ... (217 words)

Does she likes me? If yes then why does she talks to other boys and not me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a very shy guy and really love a girl. The girl is very shy and i have noticed many times that she is looking at me but as look at her, she quickly moves away ( When we both are quite, otherwise if with friends, she keeps looking at me even if i notice her ). She talks to ... (209 words)

Will my stretchmarks put him off me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My long-term boyfriend and I are so in love. We are truly made for each other and we're planning to sleep together for the first time. There's just one problem, I've lost a lot of weight as I was extremely overweight a few years ago, and now I have stretchmarks pretty much ... (112 words)

In love with my best friend, should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 25 and I have been in love with my best friend for the past 3 years. The problem is we're both female. and in my family that is an absolute no go zone. I know im not gay, but i have very strong feelings for her. very. im still very attracted to guys and other women don't ... (138 words)

Why is it so hard to talk to guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Why is it so difficult for me to talk to guys? I can usually talk to guys I'm comfortable with with no difficulty whatsoever, but if i try to talk to a guy i don't really know, i get so shy. I've never had a boyfriend before, and i feel like I'm going to mess up when talking to ... (71 words)

I don't know why my ex just won't do us a favour and stay out of all our lives!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone! I'm not sure what to do about this, or indeed whether not to do anything about it, which is why I'm asking for advice. My ex and I split up 3 and a half years ago after one year together. It was a very messy breakup which took a long time to get over. He was ... (338 words)

Is this real love I have with my other man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi... I'm married for 20 yrs, devoted to my family, having full care for my husband and others at home. A fellow whose acts helped me come out of my several severe problems (no family problems, but others), underwent his marital family life ruined (disbelief and disrespe... (454 words)

Am I being a pest to my married friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age - I am reasonably friendly with a female work colleague and we do tend to get on well and have good conversations, saying hello and smiling at each other at work, and occasionally having the odd short discussion. She always smiles when we do run into each other and sometimes I ... (262 words)

How can I find out if my cousin loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i need help. i´m in love in my cousin. we have be togehter when we where younger about when i was 10 or 12 years old we was togheter but someday it was a party and she said to evryone that we was going to get married when we was older and i said something after she came in ... (122 words)

I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out

This question has 79 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and then when we left, called ... (167 words)

Torn between love and security (money).

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been keeping contact and sleeping with my ex for more 18months since we broke off. we love each other very much. however i have to broke off with him due to his unstable financial situation and his too controlling behaviour. i still sleep with him but maybe once a month ... (153 words)

Is there a reason behind me only wanting to date bigger guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - All my life (and I mean, all my life), I've been attracted to bigger (and taller) men weight wise. I'm a rather petite girl myself (my peak weight is right now at 120 lbs). And I'm rather average height for being a 21 year old woman (I'm 5'3"). I've only ever dated bigger guys; ... (120 words)

I don't trust guys because of my past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since i was sexually assaulted at 15, ive found it hard to trust guys. sometimes i still trust the ones that i shouldn't and don't trust the ones that i should. im really confused, ever since that day i've hated myself. i've hated what i look like, my voice everythi... (131 words)

I want her to stop holding back and be interested!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I met this girl on a free dating website and we hit it off pretty well, we emailed everyday and after about a week she gave me her number and wanted to be friends on facebook. We both know what we are looking for in partners and she seems to think we are pretty compatible ... (206 words)

How to tell if a girl likes you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi just a long story short. And question is How can you tell if a girl is interested in you? or likes you? Not to sound conceited, but I think I'm really cute and my female friends says the same thing. I been told by many people at times that they seen a girl checking me... (149 words)

Is my boyfriend being unreasonable and too controlling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really at my wits end trying to not break up with my bf of two years. This week is my grandmother's memorial service and after that I am heading on a trip with my family to put her ashes where she wanted them. I will be gone a week and a half in total. My bf who I asked to ... (571 words)

She asks for cuddles, does that mean she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I like a girl in my collage called "Laura". We started talking on the 16th of May and she cuddled me for some reason, I felt a warm feeling after that (I had not cuddled anyone before her for 5 months), we then started to talk in which I found out that we have a lot in common, ... (311 words)

I'm hesitant about dating because of my weight and my penis size

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old and I weigh about 350 pounds. My penis is only about 5 inches long and 1.75 inches wide. I am very hesitant on dating because I am afraid that girls are shallow about my weight, or the fact that my penis is too small. This in turn kills my confidence. Can ... (59 words)

How do I stop doubting myself so I can move ahead in life???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - This is gonna sound strange, but it is true: I doubt myself 24/7! I can't make decisions. About work, about life, and most importantly about relationships. I feel certain things, but then I turn around and doubt myself, thinking my feelings are unfounded or I am judging ... (124 words)

Should I tell this guy that I like him? How should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My explanation is going to be excessively long, is going to make me seem extremely stupid and silly but I really cannot deny how I feel so please, please give me any thoughtful advice. I expected this guy to tell me he liked me but he didn't and now high school is offici... (939 words)

Extremely shy around girls...how do I overcome this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've heard from a couple friends at work that when we first met they kind of thought that I gave off the impression of aloofness. After getting to know me though , they realized that I'm just a quieter more reserved kind of guy. I really do have a good sense of humor, am ... (257 words)

How do I get past the breakup if there is no hope of us getting together again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So I have been broken up with my ex girlfriend for about 2 weeks now. We are both 15 btw. She called me 2 weeks ago (right before summer break) saying that she didn't feel ready for a relationship. This was a complete shock and broke my heart. Everything was going perfectly ... (526 words)

He says I've lost my spark and am no longer interesting!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So... the guy I'm interested in who knows me better than anyone (we talk all the time and he reads me like a book) says I've lost my 'spark' and I'm no longer interesting... that I never try to start conversations and I'm always boring. Admittedly, I don't get out much. I... (102 words)

Boyfriend wants to have sex but I'm afraid of someone walking in on us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I hav a bf and he wants to hav sex,but im scared.What if i get pregnet? or What if someone(anyone)walks in on us?What do i do?I'm tottaly scared of sex!... (30 words)

I thought she might have the same feelings, but now she says her boyfriend is back in town?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4695 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this gal a about a month ago we we used to talk almost everyday but now due to my work i got transferred but she in the same area as i work in..we dont talk about anything serious stuff just basic stuff she has a boyfriend in another country i kinda have develop feelings ... (208 words)

We love our teacher but he is so unpredictable!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4695 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so, I'm a 16 year old girl. I've had many crushes before, most of them were my brother's friends but never really been into a relationship. I was many time asked out but I really wasn't interested. Anyway, when I was in 5th grade, a new teacher came in our school. ... (610 words)

Are third cousins blood related?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, i have this third cousin. Hes my grandpas, brothers, daughters, son. He just told me hes in love with me. We met last summer, and we didnt know we were realted. And we both gained feelings for eachother. I love him, he loves me. But we're family. Are third cousins blood ... (70 words)

What does "cute but intimidating" mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

15 June 2011 (F) age 26-29 - I posted some pics and asked ppl their opinion. One of the comments was by a girl. She said I look cute but intimidating. What do you think she meant by this?... (32 words)

I'm open to love, but I'm cynical about highschool relationships.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys and gals, haven't needed advice for a while. I'm fifteen. A guy in my gym class is a junior, eighteen, but shoudl've been a senior this year. There is a mentally challenged kid that isn't so bad that he is separate from other kids. He gets teased alot. One day the guy,... (443 words)

Should I do something to fix the awkward moment of our second date goodbye?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4697 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy and I are both grad students in the same school. We met online. Last Sunday we met for the second time for dinner. It was fun. At the end of the date, he walked to my car. Because I'll go to my office afterwards, I grabbed my school bag from the car and then... (205 words)

Ex and I had sex, he did not try to avoid pregnancy, what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up a year and a half ago. He contacted me and wanted to explain why things happened the way they did back then. long story short, He chose to try to make things work with his son mother and it backfired. They have been apart for 2 months now, and he ... (160 words)

He broke off our date and then decided to meet. What's he thinking now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I was seeing someone about 4/5 years ago. Only went out for 4 months. Hardly saw him due to shifts and because he just wasn't bothered. We remained friends and I would be happy for him if he met someone else. So there's no feelings on my part. During the 4 months,... (390 words)

My first date happens to be at a graduation ball. Any advice on what to wear etc?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I recently met this girl and our 1st date is on the 21st. I've been on several first dates before but this is no ordinary first date. Actually its the oddest first date I or anyone I know has experienced. Its her debs graduation ball. I never went to mine 3 years ago... (98 words)

My wife lost her virginity to another man while dating me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

15 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife just told me that she lied to my when we were married. We only dated each other and never had sex until our wedding day because we talked about it and we both wanted to arrive virgin to marriage. However, when we went to our honeymoon and became intimate, I noticed she ... (628 words)

What is my boyfriends problem? Is it a control issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My mobile phone contract recently expired and my old provider, who my boyfriend is also with weren't offering any good deals at all. I found a really good deal with another provider and ordered it. My boyfriend then flipped out and said I have to either cancel it or leave our ... (154 words)

How can I tell if he wants to kiss me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - What are some signs a guy wants to kiss you? A guy that I've been dating recently invited me over to his house and during that time, we cuddled and watched a movie on his bed (nothing sexual AT ALL) and he'd lean really close to my face to where our noses touched and he k... (90 words)

I'm thinking about telling his wife about us

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married and had a four year affair with a married man. I ended up by my third child turning out to be my lovers. my husband found out the baby wasnt his and I begged him not to tell my lovers wife to protect our children. Somehow I am still in my marriage and my now ex ... (124 words)

Was he concerned for me or hitting on me?

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15 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - sooo this is my question .. the other day my boyfriend ,his brother and myself were all having a good time drinking... when my boyfriend starting acting like a jerk being really rude and dumb... i stood there ignoring him but started tearing up... instead of my boyfriend saying ... (127 words)