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writes:Not sure how to proceed. Two brothers, both my best friends. They didn't get along but for me, they would not fight so we could hang out together. We're all very laidback and flirty, always great times. About 9 months ago, the oldest brother and I were talking about if we should pursue a relationship but in the end decided not too because we didn't want to risk the friendship if things went wrong. We moved on. 3 months later, the younger brother and I just started spending more time together and there was no doubt there was a strong bond between us two. He asked for a serious relationship and so I agreed. When the oldest bro found out he flipped. . Started hacking into our email accts, fabricating stories to me about his bro cheating and such, stalking us both, put a tracer on his bro's cell so he always knew when we were texting each other and whatnot. My boyfriend and I tried to deal w/it as best as we could, talking and trying to reason w/him but nothing worked. I was stuck in a love triangle w/2 brothers, both of them my best friends. :( This past Friday, my boyfriend send me a text saying that his oldest brother had shown him a msn chat log w/timestamps and all "showing that I had cybered w/him" while still dating the youngest. He broke up w/me and refused to listen to anything I had to say. I'm heartbroken because his oldest brother had told both of us about 3 months ago that he was in love w/me, felt as though his brother had "stolen" me from him and that I could choose any man but just not his younger bro. The fact that the older bro was so obsessive always scared me, and the fact that I never cybered w/him but did chat and yet he has a so-called "cyber chat" w/time stamps worries me. Not because it's true but makes me wonder how far this man would go to destroy two people who supposedly mean the world to him. I've been searching and really can't find anything on making a fake msn chat log or doctoring the timestamps and comments. All I do know is that I never did anything of the sort w/the oldest bro. Is it possible to make a fake chat log or even alter it including the timestamp?And the biggest problem for me...how do I convince my ex I am innocent, this is one of his brother's games that worked, when it's just my word against a chat log? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2011): Yes, he has hacked into my accounts and his brothers a few times before. I kept changing it though but let's just say he knows me well. -_-
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (14 June 2011):
 Unfortunately, BLOOD is thicker than a chat log.
If you know there was no cybering, then you KNOW they are faked.
You really can not proove or convince anyone of anything. Their relationship will come before yours, even if the older brother twisted things.
When you get involved with siblings, you take the risk of someones feelings getting hurt.
Since the break up was recent, let the bf cool off and process his feelings. If YOU really are someone he cares about, he WILL call you again. Give it time, and do NOT wait by the phone.
Best Wishes.
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reader, Bjondo +, writes (14 June 2011):
Is there any way he could have gotten your password or had access to it while you werent there?
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