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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Daughter takes back abusive BF - Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age - I have twin 21 yr old children, Jordan and Jessica. Jordan has been friends with "Luke" since they were kids. I always liked "Luke", he seemed like a good kid. lasy year he started dating my daughter and I was fine with it, until I seen how this "good kid" wasnt such a good ... (310 words)

Found out my friends are a little two faced - what now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My bestfriend who i have known for around 4 years now had started turning a bit cold recently and its been bugging me. We still go out and have parties and talk about everything, but i was on her social network account tonight she left unattended at mine, i was just snooping ... (156 words)

Girl in to more guys every day - what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm currently "in love" with a girl I met a few weeks ago. she currently has a boyfriend but she is about to break up the relationship. but she is afraid of throwing away the time they spend together. now she says so also really likes me ("loves") me, but she also likes a... (99 words)

Analysis of personality?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, What would you make of someone with this past... as a child.. stole from other kids stole from parents at one stage stole from shops regularly disruptive at school sexually aware from a very young age, messing around with girls from around age 11 lit fires hurt ot... (685 words)

GF can't make up mind where to live. Now she is moving in with this flirt who won't keep his hands off of her. Should I be done here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Are we done here? For the past couple of months my gf's living arrangements have been changing. She needs a place to live and wants to move in with me. I am not ready for this kind of commitment and I feel pressured. She has friends that I looking for roommates and it... (285 words)

Looks or personality?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, would you say looks is more important than personality? I have had this boy who has been asking me out for the last week or so, i didnt no what to say because to me he is not very good looking at all, and looks realy matters to me! But his personalty is better than eve... (134 words)

Second-rate sex life, caused by my new found self esteem issues, or is it him? What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey Aunts, I'm currently with a guy who is almost perfect. Caring, respectful, extremely nice, cute... just one problem. We've been together almost two years and aren't very sexual. Some of it comes from me, because we were friends first and while he was getting over his ex, ... (371 words)

Why do more white women than white men date outside of their race?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

29 June 2011 (?) age 26-29 - This is just a simple question, not one with a lot details or anything. I was just wondering what people thought...um...why is it that there are more white women to date outside their race, then there are white men? I know this can be a controversial and tounchy, so i just ask ... (68 words)

Can I dedicate a song to my fiance that my ex once dedicated to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to use a song that my X boyfriend dedicated to me for our fist song my fiancee doesn't know and honestly when my X dedicated that song to me I didn't feel anything and it only makes me thing about my true love now who is my fiancee.... Would I be wrong for that ???? ... (57 words)

How do I stop from being so obvious when I am checking out girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am 17 and I'm gay. :) I love everything about girls. Their body, the way they move and laugh and smile. Literally everything. And that's..... becoming a slight problem to me. The problem is: I don't know why but sometimes, I find myself excessively checking out... (324 words)

She chose her husband over me and I can't deal with it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1753 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My married girlfriend just told me that this is the end of the affair. I don't understand why would she dump me if I was there for her in time of need and always very supportive. She says she still loves me but she can not take the pressure that I am putting her through. I t... (370 words)

Sex hurts so much! How do I make b/f understand?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend always wants sex. But recently im really sore that last time we did it I nearly cried. I don't know why im sore its not like I'm allergic to him. He's always going on at me about not having sex but I just can't go through with it. What can I do to make him ... (65 words)

Family chains are weighing me down. I want to break them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I am a delimma..and living like this just makes my life that much more miserable..I want to wake up everyday feeling good about what I am doing but I don't,its more like a burden something I am forced to do..I am currently in med school but I always wanted t... (205 words)

Why does my friend act like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this friend of mine that i really like,he's really confusing.He day he talks to me,the next day he ignores me.He texts me at midnight to wish me happy birthday,the next day not one "hello". For example one day we were talking online.And he stops responding and goes off... (121 words)

My most embarassing sexual moment

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If youre really honest ladies, you might relate to my experience. One day i was having sex with my boyfriend and i was on top. I was busy enjoying myself there when he distracted me, "honey, is this pee on my stomach?" and im like "no way!it cant be!" but alas! It was,and some ... (106 words)

He is in a serious relationship, how can I get over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys there is this guy we had sth as in it was really special then we separated because he has a girl who he has a serious relationship with and she just came to town. Now they are always together, though I have avoided ever seeing them together but I always hear about how ... (83 words)

I can't figure out my own feelings!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So... how do I make this simple..... ok, thing is, I really don't know what I'm thinking about her! I'll just start of with how it started: I'm in second year of college and we've been classmates since first semester and then around the second we got to be friends. at then e... (256 words)

Do I follow the advice of others or listen to my heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy that I like a lot and certain people around me keep trying to convince me that he is not the guy for me, for instance they brought up an issue about his personality being different than mine because he parties frequently and I don't party that much, and I'm ... (179 words)

I can't fully get over an ex before I get involved with someone new. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've had 3 serious relationships in my young life. Each time these relationships have ended I have been devastated. I put a lot of effort and energy in to making relationships work and when they don't work out I feel like I've failed. But I don't want to ask a question about ... (239 words)

I don't know if I should get back with him, but I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my ex boyfriend are friend because I break up with him 2 days ago because he been making me cry and making me sad even being a jerk to me. We have been txting since we break up like we did, when we was dating but I find it hard because I begin to miss him and the times ... (355 words)

Do you think that my teacher had deep feelings for me? Or some form of emotional connection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, Good God do I know you have all been asked this question millions of times. I know I should take my own advice and read the answers you have all written to similar questions to mine, but I guess it feels more personal when you reply to someones singularily. ... (1494 words)

Does anyone have any advice for me until my doctor clears me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was raped two years ago, and the guy gave me HPV. I have been cleared of the virus, but I still have cancer cells that my doctor is trying to remove. He just performed a procedure where the cells were frozen. He has instructed me not to have sex until he has confirmed I am ... (138 words)

Was he just saying that to guilt me back with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help i was with my ex for almsot 2 years. I end it last night because hes always emotionaly and verbly abuse me. And i really did love him but i was tired of him hurting me he'll be good for awhile and try and change but it always goes back. we were on a ... (132 words)

How can sex with a bigger guy be improved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a bigger guy (6', 280lbs) and I'm 5'7" 135 pounds. It's hard to have sex because his penis seems smaller with all of the fat surrounding it. When we have sex it's hard for him to get any penetration because we can't seem to find a position that works. Sex with ... (92 words)

How do I get with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago i met this guy, and we became friends straight away, i knew straight away that i liked him as more than a friend but he was going out with someone at the time. But a few weeks after meeting him he split up with his girfriend. It has been a few months since... (206 words)

Will I have to pay maintenance for my fiance’s children from his previous marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone know if I will have to pay maintenance for my fiance’s children from his previous marriage (my future stepchildren) if we divorce and I have to pay him maintenance for whatever reason? The children live with their mother. My fiancé pays maintenance to her. I ... (153 words)

How do I boost my self confidence? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Am female, 21, about 4 ft 11 and am not physicaly developed and because of this, i really lack self confidence. How do i boost my self confidence and how can i dress in a way that will flatter me. Also i have stomach fat, folds and love handles, how do i get these covered? ... (73 words)

He is cheating on his new girlfriend with me, I just want him to hurry up and dump her so we can be back together again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Boyfriend and I just broke up about 2 months ago due to some just plain unfortunate stuff. Were living together over a year, dating quite a long time. Had to move out and to my mum's far away. Ended up leaving on good terms, and with mutual wants to get back together once ... (459 words)

I have noticed some changes in her, what could be the reason?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I met her in the internet since 10 months ago , we live so far away from each others , we clicked so fast , and we felt we should meet up , prior to that we felt love but we wanted to see if that's real or not , we met after 3 months of chatting in the internet , we stayed ... (173 words)

How can a guy be so selfish and hurt me so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would guy be so selfish and hurt me so much:(? Am fuming!! I loved my ex boyfriend so much. I thoight we were in love and had a deep meaningful relationship, but he was faking it all the while! He dumped me saying he doesn't want a relationship and he I found out t... (224 words)

I like my male friend's brother, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in dire need of advice. This is my first time on one of these advice sites, so here goes. I'm in love with my good friend's brother. Everything about him makes me smile, and all his quirks I find rather adorable. He can play gorgeous piano, which is one thing I love... (636 words)

I'm 14, he's 21. Can we take this relationship any further?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so i met this guy on the spot (a dating site on the ipod touch) and we've been talking,video chatting, and texting for 2 months now. well, 2 weeks after we started talking, he told me that he was 21 and in the airforce. the problem is, im 14. he told me when he saw my profile ... (129 words)

Should I accept these gig tickets from her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for about 1.5 years, we live close and spend about 5 days a week together. For the first 6 to 8 months of the relationship it was very difficult mainly because I found she used to bring up her ex everyday, obviously lots of unresolved feeli... (340 words)

My girlfriend is becoming more and more distant, does she still love me? Does she not want to be with me because of my illness?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone Thank you for takeing the time to read this. A lot has happend these last few months, i got diognosed with skitophenia (sorry still cant spell it) lost my viginity with my girlfreind. Been hospitalised three times for episodes and been sexualy assalt... (190 words)

Unwaranted feelings of infidelity....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a committed relationship and I've always been in faithful. I've always been a person who is against infidelity and never understood why anyone would do that. But lately I've been wanted to cheat, and i cant understand why. Help please!... (42 words)

He thought he had found proof that I was bi

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My fiance asked if he could play with my ipod at work (he likes this bird game and scrabble lol) I told him it was fine with me,he took it to work and then 5 hrs later He is saying "we need to talk" I texted him "why?" and he told me he found a half naked women in my pictures ... (261 words)

I don't want to like big women anymore!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay people, I have a serious problem, I like bigger girls, like huge girls, and even making them gain weight for my pleasure, for some reason I find them highly attractive, but I don't like this attraction, I am also afraid my family would ridicule me if they ever found out, ... (128 words)

I split with my husband 3 months ago due to him cheating on me but I cant seem to move on and it still hurts so bad...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why can't I move on, why is the pain still so raw? I split with my husband 3 months ago due to him cheating on me. I want to be able to move on, I want to smile again so why can't I. I still love him and wish I didn't because he as changed so much since he got with her and ... (408 words)

I cant get girls to like me! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hear I am, 21 years old guy, still a virgin, never had a girlfriend, don't even know if I know how to kiss.. the reason is that I have that mentality that girls don't dig me, u see I get that idea of approaching girls and stuff (pick on her try to make a conversation in aim of ... (204 words)

Should I persue this guy, or stick with my long-time boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was drunk and met a guy that I felt very strong feelings for, but I have a boyfriend of 2 years. Should I hang out with this guy again just to see if I really do have feelings for him and it wasn't the the booze talking, or should I not let it get in the way? (I know this ... (68 words)

I always said I wouldn't and then I did, and I would do it again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I apologise in advance for the long response but please bear with me. So here's the situation, me and my friend recently met this guy. In our town he is very well know as being quite the eligible bachelor. He is everything a girl could ask for (he comes from a good family, he ... (533 words)

I still remain a virgin but a part of me wishes that I could fool around with my ex again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't been in many relationships - only two. Neither of them were that serious. I only fooled around a bit with my second boyfriend who I dated two years ago for three months while I was a senior in high school. We never went further than having oral sex. It was fun but I ... (183 words)

So confused if I still love him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a full 7 months now and we will be going on out 8th, its not crazy long but I knew when we first got involved in about 3 months time that I loved or love him but I am realizing that now I am feeling not so sure about it. When we first started ... (464 words)

I used to think he loved me, flaws and all

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - MODERATOR'S NOTE: 2 Questions from same asker combined. Question for men. If you are watching a movie and a nude woman is in the scene, does it turn you on? what does it make you feel or think? Truthfully, I never thought too much about this before until one day my boyf... (406 words)

He likes her but says he loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year now and we talked about getting engaged and married and stuff like that. Well we also had this mutal friend that was single so i decided to hooked him up with a girl i knew since i was in 8th grade. they dated ... (261 words)

Why did he have to push me away while filling out his personal details in the form?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Today I went shopping with the guy that I have been seeing. We were at a department store where if you apply for their credit card, you get 15% discount on your purchases. So he applied for the card. But 2 things stood out to me. First, he's a teacher, so when asked for I... (310 words)

Do women give men too much leeway in relationships? And too readily take him back after break-ups?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Simple question for ladies and gentlemen....Do women tend to give men too much leeway in relationships? Do women take men back too often, too soon, too much after they have been done wrong?... (34 words)

In the midst of my feelings for this girl, I ended up getting married to my ex fiancee. Now my marriage is crappy and the girl I love(d) is pregnant with her abusive BF's child..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, this is kind of a long story. I'll do my best to keep it brief, but many of the details are significant, so I guess we'll see.. About 3 years ago I started a new job, and consequently met a girl there. We became close, and began dating. She was a few years younger ... (727 words)

My affair ended abruptly and the lady just disappeared without saying a word.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi! I am 32 years old and I am married with 2 kids. I have been married for almost 6 1/2 years now and had been having problems with my marriage. I have been working so hard in communicating with my wife what the problems are but she just doesn't seem to get it. I have alway... (418 words)

This girl is confusing me, but the sexual tension is still there

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - We really liked each other, a LOT. Then she saw her ex of 2 years and had to get over him so I gave her space and we didn't talk as much. She has been initiating Facebook chat with me ever since. So she likes me, but realized she had to get her head straight first. We've done ... (296 words)

Is it safe? Or am I getting paranoid about accidently getting pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so two of the guys I've slept with can't figure out why I have to jump up and stop them before they put their fingers inside me after they just came and, long story short, got a little bit or even a lot of come on their hands. And if I was blowing him or licking up the extr... (129 words)

Does it sound like my BF cheated on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This girl told me my boyfriend had cheated on me with her in her car. He denied every bit of it (there has been several rumors of him cheating) so I told him to call the girl in front of me so I know he wasn't lying, well he refused to do that. Everyone has told me it was true, ... (126 words)

I feel I should also sleep with someone else while I'm single to get this out of my system.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Im a in a real bad moral situation that i cannot seem to make a decision on. I had a 5 year relationship with a girl who i love dearly. We started growing distant and she broke up with me on the day my dog died. It was a real heartache and i asked to try and work it out. She... (229 words)

My husband is critical, threatens to leave our extended family and I don't work and now feel trapped. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been together for 22 years. He is very critical of just about everything I do. He tells me he loves me and wants to do everything with me. He is constantly accusing me of having affairs. We are a blended family with 5 children, 2 his 1 mine and 2 ours this ... (129 words)

Empty nester thought she found the one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a nice guy almost 2 1/2 years ago. We are both 46. I have been divorced about 16 years. He was just getting a divorce when I met him on yahoo personals. This was his second divorce. I asked him at the time if he needed time to sew his wild oats before dating steady almost ... (381 words)

I felt ditched and now I'm angry

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - so this will be a simple and basic question. I was at the beach with my friend, she said she was on her period I guess as a way to justify being mean to me? is that fair? I was saying I want to leave this club because it wasn't fun anymore but she was having fun. The problem ... (487 words)

When does a guy know that he wants to marry a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Background: He and I have been together for a little over a year. I now believe that he is the one I want to marry and spend the rest of our lives together. I have enough reasons to believe this. The thing is, we have not seriously discussed it. I am serious abo... (314 words)

Is he really in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

29 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ummm, well, there is this guy and we've been friends for more than a yr n we're so open with each other. Recently he asked me out n said he's in love with me. But he doesn't call often or txt n he says he loves me but i don't know what to believe because he's a really handsome ... (73 words)

My GF is spending time with her ex, how should I handle it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

29 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend met up with her ex at Glastonbury! I am having a really hard time getting my head round this and am wondering if this is the beginning of the end. My girlfriend of nearly 5 months has an ex who she finished with in Sep 10 who has been constantly contacting h... (218 words)