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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She says I was her first for everything except phone sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i feel bad for not trusting my girlfriend but every story iv heard about peoples first times and such dont match when we first had sex and she swears up and down she was a virgin weve been dating for 2 years and 4 months i found out about 6-8 months ago she had been lying ... (105 words)

Am I being too needy? Seems I initiate everything. He cancels dates. It unsettles me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 2 months and we have just became a couple. It wasn't discussed we just have such a connection. Which is what drew him to approach me in the first place. He has 3 kids and a ex and its recent. Hes writing a book and his job is pretty busy. We ... (193 words)

How do I start up a conversation to get to know her better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4615 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, so I've been single for about a month now, and I've met this girl, that, according to my friends is interested in me. Is it true that when a girl touches your arm she likes you? We've also danced rather, how should I put this... passionately? I'm kind of a shy guy, I ... (145 words)

Has anyone ever had the hots for a friend's mom or dad?

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Basic question. Has anyone ever had the hots for a friends mom or dad? My friends dad is so gorgeous and I just get all excited when I'm around him. I wouldn't do anything inappropriately, but damn!! Why does she have to be my friend? Ha jk.... (55 words)

My friends say leave him, but I can't! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 nearly 15 i have been with my bf for 1year and 5mounths when we first meet at school we became great freinds and we started to become more we kissed and flirted and then he asked me out. He moved away 2mounths back now and its really far away we have started to becom... (140 words)

Is a total reboot like this and a reframing of myself in her life a good plan?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - After she showed lots of clear interest in me over a month +, a girl friend zoned me because I was always available to her as a pushover online and never flirted physically in person or pushed a relationship. We had a disagreement over this, but I decided to be mature and told ... (364 words)

Trying to come to terms with being 3 months pregnant and getting hate texts from the father and his wife.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i started meetin a fellow which i taught to be very nice. was seeing him for about two months when he told my sister that he would like to get me pregnant but for as i have 3 kids myself i felt like i had my lot and was in no way interested in havin anymore at this time. he ... (417 words)

What is it about me that guys find so hard to trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

- hey all, this may sound like a bit of a random question but im trying to figure what it is about me that guys find so hard to trust. im 21, fairly short 5.1, im slender, ressonably attractive ( or so im told) and am really kind hearted and easy going. i have my boundries whe... (255 words)

How do you know when the time is right to have more children?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4699 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.. i've got a 6month old little girl and would like more children.. I'd like them close in age, however Im in two minds about whether im ready or not. How do you know when the time is right? ... (39 words)

Should I apologize to my religious friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well...I made an offensive joke to my friend who is trying to be religious now. Sometimes I'm a bit harsh and so I made a joke and I told her she cannot watch a movie with Witches and Wizards if she believes in God. (I said that because she told me to respect her religion and... (143 words)

Should I apologize to my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

I think my husband is homosexual!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married to my husband for seven years and have one child. in the past two years things between me and my husband have been very strained and the sex has been non-existent except for when he is drunk. i was on our shared laptop when i found in the history that he has ... (141 words)

What can I do in the attempt of changing my life around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I need help. I don't have anyone I can talk to or anyone I can trust with my heart/feelings so I came to you guys. I just need to get some things off my chest. Why me? Why does everything have to be wrong with me? It's like I'm cursed, like I don't deserve happines... (364 words)

Have I ruined things and does she want nothing to do with me or is she also playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) age 30-35 - Over the holidays I became closer to a girl at school who is in a couple of my classes but apart from that I have never really talked to her. I had suspicions that she liked me as I would often catch her glancing over at me then when I turned round she would quickly look away. ... (198 words)

Somebody please talk me out of cheating.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Somebody please talk me out of cheating. I am married with kids ( marriage has become a little boring , rutine and very predictable), but I'm craving that excitement of the affairs. I know for sure I WILL NOT get caught ever, and I am sure I WILL NOT feel guilty, but I feel lik... (117 words)

I really connected with my boyfriend's friend during our threesome, I need advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm new here trying this out in need of a lil advice. My boyfriend and I had a 3some this weekend with one of his friends. It was a long time coming. I think his friend is really hot. Anyways, during us doing it, I felt a different connection to his friend than I di... (179 words)

She promised we would always work things out but then she broke up with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Now where do I start? Just under a year ago while attending one of my classes at university I met the girl of my dreams. I mean she was smart, pretty, nice, and caring, she was literally everything I could ever ask for in a partner. On the day I told her what I wanted to become ... (820 words)

Is this mom interested in me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey guys. I'm a married dad with two sons. One of the mom's at my son's school has asked me for a play date with our kids. What does this mean? Could she be interested in me? Don't the moms usually ask each other? Should I say yes? Just wondering what the deal is. Thanks.... (55 words)

Don't know which one to choose

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Hey, well I've just had a date with this girl and we like each other and have a fair bit in common and she lives in the same town as me, but I've also had a few dates with another girl and we like each other as well and have a few things in common and she lives a distance away ... (103 words)

I feel as though I'm not good enough for him, should I try changing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've not felt like this for a while but I'm starting to think I'm not good enough. My boyfriend reassures me that I am however there's something in the back of my mind that's screaming 'you're not his type'. Do people really have a type? and if so should I really be considering ... (89 words)

Married ex had my name tattooed on his body.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a serious pickle and I'm afraid I've got myself into it. I was seeing a married man for a few years and broke up a few weeks back. He's been asking me to take him back since but I'm adamant to move on and make something of myself. Hoever I wasn't prepared for my m... (195 words)

She flirted and showed interest, but pulled back when I tried to kiss her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - As a guy, what would you think when a girl suddenly pulled away when you tried to make out with her? What if you had been hitting on her the whole night and she was flirting back. And what if she'd been tempting you the whole night, letting you think she was going to kiss you ... (79 words)

I didn't realize we were having company? Where are you going?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Say your gf/bf was hanging out with you all day until you have to go to work. Then all of a sudden, their friends show up to get them. There was no talk of the friends coming by or that they were leaving with them. How would you feel? How should you feel?... (53 words)

I suspect he's being used for money and I'm really worried about him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't understand what I've done wrong. I'm close friends with a guy an the other day he asked me to send an email for him which i did. I saw another which I shouldn't have and I basically got the idea that hes being played by a girl from the Phillipines. I told him I saw it ... (147 words)

This time around, I want him to crawl back!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there still hope that my ex and I will get back together even though its been almost 3 weeks? He has broken up with me so many times like every month for the past year or more! We have been together for 2 years! The first week of the break up I didn't talk to him then I seen ... (242 words)

Does she like me and could she split from her current boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Right I started college in September and I became friends with this girl. I liked her from the start she is really pretty etc. but she had a boyfriend then she started tell me and my other friends in class about what he had done like they didn't see or speak for 5 days anyway ... (244 words)

Will first time sex still hurt if the woman has been fingered before?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my late twenties and have never gone all the way sexually with anyone. The furthest I've been was to let my ex-boyfriend finger me and since then I've masturbated doing the same. Now I'm currently in a relationship with a man who makes me feel so comfortable, and I'd ... (99 words)

Should I ask, or just let it be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months now, and two months ago he asked for a 'break' which lasted only a few days. I don't believe in breaks but didn't get the chance to tell him at the time, and didn't think I needed to, since it seemingly worked out. He didn't... (352 words)

I had sex with my cousin and now I'm really regretting it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Last night I had sex with my cousin. I don't know what I was thinking, it just happened. But I must admit I did come onto him first. When we were young we used to just "hump" and we didn't really care we were just kids being kids. But now that were way older we know right from ... (148 words)

I want his children, but after we are married and in a more stable relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am writing because im currently 6 weeks pregnant. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. Its the second time we are trying things. We met 3 years ago and dated for 7 months . I got pregnant with him then and we decided to have an abortion because at that ... (307 words)

Self-conscious about my size and sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont really know if this is something thats just me or if people actualy have the same worry. I'm 20 and have a baby of one year, me and the babies dad have broken up, i've met someone else but havent had sex with them. I've only ever been with babies dad so I dont kno... (149 words)

Is this a good plan to help her get over my past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

13 June 2011 (?) age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 2 years. for her its her first relationship, for me its my second. both of us are in deep love and soon going to get married. in my past relationship ,i never had sex but did kiss my ex-gf and see her naked. my present gf is ... (194 words)

I feel like I'm trapped in a mess!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I'm trapped. I met a man(call him x) through mutual friends. He was head over heels for my other female friend(call her y). That night she kept giving him grief though and even started yelling about a hook-up that happened with another boy while he was trying to ... (268 words)

He won't meet me unless he has a friend with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does this guy want to bring a friend along when we meet ?. He wont meet me unless a friend goes with him. Do you think he wants them there as a bit of support, possibly because he is nervous, or do you think he just isn't interested in dating me ?. We've only met once, so ... (134 words)

Good friend and ex husband dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - It appears to me that my ex husband and my good friend are having a relationship together but hiding it. I had heard through others about it. I haven't approached them and I know that I can't stop them but how do you handle this situation?... (48 words)

My boyfriend lied about the money

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend did a broker business to sell a vehicle.. and we were supposed to share the profits equally.. I found the car and my boyfriend found a customer to sell it. So after the deal was done my boyfriend said that the customer cheated on us and went missing without ... (135 words)

Should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone, I am 22 years of age and my girlfriend is 19. We met in college and have been dating for almost 8 months now.I have done everything for her imaginably. Id do anything for her.Ive treated her like gold. I do admit that I am a little bit jealous at times. She has ... (392 words)

He moved on to other girls after he kissed me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend's a flirt. I like him and I hooked up with him. Sort of, anyway. We were just kissing and grinding; no making out. I pulled away when he tried and walked away. He was completely sober by the way and after I left the party, he kept hitting on my bestfriend. He als... (146 words)

Is it too early to be discussing engagement/ marriage after only two months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months now. We are in love with each other and he has already mentioned engagement and marriage. I believe that it is too early to discuss them, but on the other hand, it expresses how we feel for each other and avoids time wasting. ... (203 words)

Was I wrong to break off our engagement?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke off my engagement around 2 and a half months ago as I thought I was too young, being only 19 and him being the only long term relationship I've had for 3 years. I'm now seeing another guy n can't stop comparing him to my ex part of me likes him for being different but I ... (143 words)

What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd like to know, why I am single, and how important is body image? I'm a university educated, career-focused, independent, woman- who has nothing but horrific relationships with men. I think my problem is, firstly because men are not attracted to me, i definitely would... (155 words)

How can I be more accepting of his need to party and give him some time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are in our mid 20's and are very serious (I.e. We own a house together). I feel like in the past year he's been going out more and more without me. He recently told me that since he didn't do the whole college thing he feels like he missed out and wants to do ... (149 words)

I want a girlfriend, not a friend who just happens to be a girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly 2 years and love each other dearly. THe only thing is that I feel that I am uninteresting to her now. In the begining she was the reason we started dating, she asked me out and would initiate everything and tell me that I a... (482 words)

I don't know how to talk to girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My problem is that i do not know how to talk to girls at all. I recently came out of my first relationship that was 3 years. This relationship was pretty bad as my ex would not allow me to talk with other girls and being young and stupid i went along with this as i loved he... (168 words)

I am at the age where I should be independent by now but am still struggling to leave my parent's nest. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently looking for a new job and as my boyfriend lives in a busy city, he has suggested me to search for a job there. We are still in the early stages of our relationship so I didn't really know what to think when he mentioned it to me. The job opportunity sounds a ... (115 words)

What and how should I feel about all of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months now. We love each other but don't see very often as we live an hour's drive away, and we both work. When we see each other, however, he is always feeling me up and being affectionate through kissing and hugging. I find he ... (157 words)

I think my son had sex with his cousin, how do I talk to him about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a single mom of 2 and this subject is very sensitive to me and embarrassing but I need some advice on this matter. My son is 15 and my sister has a daughter that is 14. So they are cousins. My sister informed me this weekend that her daughter, went to her about an ... (216 words)

Why do people care so much about the colour of the skin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my friends is asian and has recently started to lighten his skin, only by a couple of shades and he is also treating acne scars at the same time. The abuse he's got from doing this is unbelieveable, he's lost friends, received threats etc. However my friends who are ... (155 words)

Does he want to get back together or just tell me how he feels?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So my Ex broke up with me 9 months ago Because we used to fight a lot mainly due to my constant jealousy and controlling such problems. After split we were in contact for 3-4 months Because I wanted to work on things and maybe try to get back Because that's what even he had ... (362 words)

How should I go about our "relationship" now, as clearly my flirting was misinterpreted...

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13 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So theres this girl at work that I really like. The signs were there, she smiled when I was around, laughed at my jokes and when I teased her, gave me random hugs sometimes, texts me a lot, even her friends said we were 'cute' together, everything was good. So, one day she ... (239 words)

I didn't see my colleague on her birthday, but I will, later in the week. Would it be wrong to give her a birthday card?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I work with a girl who's birthday was a few days ago. I didn't see her on her birthday, but will later in the week. Would it be wrong to give her a birthday card? She's around 7 years younger than me (I'm 27). Whilst I don't really have a crush, I do think she is attractiv... (137 words)

I'm the complete opposite of my new boyfriends ex and I feel like I'm always being compared to her...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive become very paranoid. Basically I'm the complete opposite of my new boyfriends ex. I'm only his second serious relationship so I feel like I'm always being compared to her. She's blonde and wears a lot of makeup whereas I have reddish brown hair, that I usually leave na... (125 words)

I don't know if I am doing something wrong, but I just can't seem to get a guy!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old girl, and I'm at a loss as to how I can meet guys. I don't know if I am doing something wrong, but I just can't seem to get a guy. I'm not one of those people who is totally against going out to pubs, clubs, etc. However, I'm from Ireland, and every my... (392 words)

We kissed and now my mouth is bruised and hurts. Is that normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'll be quick. I went to my BF's house yesterday, we Frenched kissed(I've nvr done it before) and now part of my lip is purple and my tongue hurts. Is that normal?... (33 words)

Is there really an issue with age difference if I am over 18?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

13 June 2011 (?) age 26-29 - is it wrong for me to like older men i am 18 and i am wondering what people think the right age of older men i being 18 should go for 18-20 21-23 24-26 27-29 30+ which do you think would be the oldest older man suitable if you where concerned about age gaps. thanks for ... (69 words)

I'm 17 and never been kissed. I need a confidence boost. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, okay, so... I'm really glad i found this site because this crap is eating me alive. Here is the whole story..short. I am 17 years old. I'm not that pretty and I'm big. Not massively huge but big. My appearance really makes me insecure so its hard with the se... (244 words)

How can I earn his respect again, even though we have already slept together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently passed a week end with a groupe of friends on holiday and in my groupe of friend there is one guy that I have dated in the past and now we are kind of friends with benefits when the ocasions gives. We have slep together in this week end and now I feel realy ... (238 words)

Questions about hook-ups and dating......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Girls, how often do you have a hook up? It's hard being single and not getting affection, I haven't been in a relationship for about 3 years now and within these 3 years ive hooked up about every 3-4 months, i feel really guilty afterward, feeling like i wasted energy on ... (312 words)

Feeling very guilty for cheating on my girlfriend....should I tell her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I cant stop this terrible feeling of guilt after cheating on my girlfriend recently. I want to tell her but im scared if i do i will lose her. She means the world to me and im gutted ive now ruined everything after a stupid one night stand. Ive lied to her and im so ashamed. Im ... (76 words)

I trust him but in the back of my mind I worry because she texts him a lot and they have kissed in the past....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, I've had a problem for the past few weeks with my boyfriend which i would really appreciate some advice on. We've been going out for 8 months and its been great but recently he's been really moody and argumentative. We see each other every weekend he stop round each ... (222 words)

She has left me for another guy! How do I get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4473 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hey friends, im in a really weird situation, i was in a relationship with a girl for about 4 years now, and a year back she cheated on me a lot, i forgave her once, but she kept relation with the other guy,,..... i used to be angry on her for a long time, but trust me i always ... (161 words)

Keeping up appearances with my older fella.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd really like some advice about my fella - firstly, he is older than me; I am 23 and he is almost 30. This to me is not a problem until we do things like have 'dinner parties' or meet with his brothers etc - and whilst they can talk about all manner of things, I am still a ... (318 words)

I doubt whether he really loves me because of our age difference.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i dated a 50 year old man with a different religion, i am chrsitian and he is muslim..i will be 22 this july..he said that he loves me but i am doubtful about it because of the age difference and of the culture differences,,but i feel being special whem i am with him..and when ... (65 words)

How do I know if a girl is bi like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I sometimes think about being with another female, Like on a porno, or a nude magazine, I focus on the girls then i do the guys. I have had these feelings for several years now. I even had a chance to be with a few girls but was shy about it and didnt no how to respond. also ... (155 words)

Meeting face to face for the first time......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A person who I've been dating for a while, webcammed etc with is planning to finally come visit me for the first time. She's coming to Texas and we're trying to figure out how this will work. I am a lesbian and my mother doesn't approve but I refuse to let this stop me. She's ... (97 words)

Why didn't he want to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy earlier tonight, and we were having a nice time watching TV and we held hands, not sure if we were attracted to each other and then we moved to the bedroom and started foreplay which was okay, and then he stopped and said "sorry, I can't do this, I can't do... (65 words)

He prefers computer games over me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend (whom I live with) for about a year and a half now. He is seven years my senior. We used to have sex on a regular basis; at least once a day, sometimes more. We also did a lot of couple-y things like going for walks, sitting on the couch cuddli... (189 words)

I really want to use lube, but I can't get it. Alternatives? How to buy? Where to hide?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm 18 and I think spit just doesn't work enough. I guess I just want to try lube to know how it feels like because i'm quite sure it must feel a lot better (certainly since i have a tight foreskin) (i'm talking to use lube just for masturbation, not for sex). I just ha... (210 words)

Girlfriend claims she got an STD from a towel or mat from her yoga class!! Is that really possible or is it more likely that she cheated on me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

13 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend had a vaginal discharge for some time which worried her greatly. She was worried she had some sort of cancer. We had not been sexually active in quite some time (more than a year). She went to the doctor and she diagnosed her with trichomoniasis. She was prescrib... (189 words)

Thinking that my wife was cheating on me, I did it too. I regret it now...how can I get her back?

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13 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help! Ive been married for four years to my beautiful and amazing wife. But . we there was a time in our marriage that i didn't pay any attention to her, or make any effort for her, i completely took her for granted. ... i eventually pushed her into the arms of a... (351 words)

Do I still have feelings for my ex?

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 2 yrs broke up with me 2 months ago, and she started dating someone else about a month after we broke up. Which as many of you had guessed, hurt me really bad! So I decided to stop talking to her for awhile until i get over her....Of course I've been through ... (154 words)

What are the best sex positions for a downward curved penis?

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13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have a banana shaped penis that is curved downwards and I have been pretty embarrassed by it for awhile now. I soon realized that it is actually very common among individuals to have the same thing i do. So my question is, what are the best sex positions for a downward ... (55 words)

My GF wants me to please her, but when it comes to me, if its anything to do with my penis...she just acts like its gross!!

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13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, first off im not a pushy guy when it comes to sexual things so im not into "forcing"anything. My girlfriend loves for me to go down on her, however she never wants to return the favor...she'll tell me she will, but when the time comes, she'll make up some reason not ... (152 words)

Embarrassed to admit to my friends that I'm into online dating!

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question for those who have successfully used online dating and have found great matches and/or partners. I'm only 20, but finding boyfriends has always been difficult for me for a number of reasons, which I'll spare you from reading. Online date sites were a dre... (439 words)

My wife of 19 years is a really, really good friend and roommate... but I cannot stand that we do not have that romantic, sexual side to our relationship. Is it unfair to expect more? Will I make a big mistake in giving that up in exchange for more

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13 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 38 and I have been with my wife 19 years. I love her, but I feel like we are not "in love." We are best friends and we really enjoy each other's company. We do all kinds of things together and we make each other happy. However, when we do something that is supposed to b... (650 words)

What do you think turned her off? Is there any way I can make this right?

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13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been out of high school for a year and I had a huge crush on this girl. I never asked her out because she had a boyfriend for the first two years, she also flirts with everyone (how could I trust her) and I had low self confidence. The funny thing is I think she knew. I ... (298 words)

I think I'm in love with my FWB but I know he doesn't feel the same about me!

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i've known this guy for 10 years and we've developed this friends with benefits kind of relationship for the past 3 years and now every time i see him post something sexual on another girls facebook wall or make like a sexual comment to another girl i get super jealous! I ... (72 words)

Why do some gay guys don't seem to be gay at all?

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend who I've known many years. He always dated women and didn't seem gay. Then he came out a couple of years ago. I was surprised. His boyfriend is hot and doesn't really seem gay either. Such a shame! Is it just me or do I have a bad gaydar?... (53 words)

Could a married man be my soulmate?

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bit of a strange question to ask. Basically my best friend is married, we are extremely close and so relaxed around one another. Sometimes its like we are the same person, it gets scary at times. We competly understand one another, whilst the rest of the world seems ... (169 words)

Its difficult for me to "get out there." Anyone have any similar experiences?

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13 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. I guess I'm not really sure what I hope to accomplish with this. Partially just wanting to get it off my chest and partially hoping to find some good advice that I haven't seen elsewhere. I've searched the net a bit and haven't seen what I've been looking for. ... (886 words)

I stay with baby's father because I want to prove something to my folks. Anything wrong in this?

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm 16 and I have a baby. His father is about 4 years older and were still together. Lately I've been feeling like I'm on lockdown which I know I may not to do as much with a child but me and him dont live together so I have most of the responsibility of making sure he's ... (190 words)

Burning sensation when I pee. Any Idea what this is all about?

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. Since yesterday morning I've been feeling this weird burning orgasmic feeling when I'm finished peeing. Its like a huge burning orgasm that dies out. I don't what the fck it is but it hurts and I don't like it. and now every 2 hours or something I literally have to pee. ... (328 words)

Husband cheated. We seperated. I took him back. Now he cheated again. Now what???

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I just found out my husband cheated on me for the second time. We had been married for 13 yrs and had our ups and downs, then I found out about a affair he was having and we split up, but never got divorced. It was like that for about 6 yrs, in agony because I still loved him ... (255 words)

Is there a reason why I am bothered by my boyfriend masterbating when we are a part?

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know if this is odd for me to ask but why do I feel so awkward when my boyfriend tells me he pleasures himself when we don't see each other for almost a week, its very understandable but I am questioning myself in why it bothers me at all when it should not? I pleasure ... (163 words)

BF won't do what I want him to do without me begging him. This resulted in me cheating, should I tell him?

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with this guy for 6 months now, it's been good but I'm tired of having to beg him to do something before he actually does it. This resulted in me cheating on him with guys that are ready to do anything and be adventurous. I told him that I don't like ... (105 words)

Does a LDR have to be this difficult? Arranging a date is too much stress.

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I are dating long distance and it's extremely hard right now for me to get away to see him, even just for a few hours, because my parent's are really strict and I'm working with them every day. I mentioned two weeks ago that I was TRYING to see him just so that he had ... (811 words)

I have a crush on her. Don't think I'm a Lesbian, yet should I ask her out?

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a crush on one of my friends. She is really nice and very very pretty. She has only been in a couple short relationship's as long as i've known her. She has made cute commments about being "lesbian" for me although I never took her serious. Don't get me wrong im not a ... (115 words)

I think I love him. Should I tell him face to face?

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so i'm friends with this guy, and i really really like him. He also likes me back. Sort of. He says that he does, then says that he doesn't. Then he will act like he does. I like him a lot, to a point where i think i love him, and i don't want him to keep playing games. ... (80 words)

Does he just want to play around? Does he like me less than I like him?

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my guy friend been talking and texting for a long time and he never says that he wants to be more than friends. Does he likes me or does he just wanna play around? I like him back and he says that he does too. What is going on? Does he like me? Or not?... (57 words)

He is confusing me and being secretive. Do you think he truly cares for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently I have had cause to examine my relationship with my boyfriend, and I am left wondering if he truly cares about me. We are both in our mid twenties and have been together for almost two years. Though he is fairly secretive and the type to play his cards close to his ... (538 words)

How can I be considered 'important' to her if we've been broken up 1.5 years?

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13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright my ex and I have been broken up for 1.5 years she broke up with me, We remained contact throughout and two weeks ago, I couldn't stand her anymore. I told her "i don't want to talk to you ever again" and a bunch of stuff. And right before my graduation I received a text ... (163 words)

Is it possible to escape the friend zone with her and rekindle her interest in dating me?

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13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been friend zoned by a girl who really liked me at first (as in, flirting, she initiated a date) and I blew it by waiting far too long to make my feelings known and make a move by telling her so. I understand exactly why I went wrong, and it's all underlying problems with ... (334 words)

Can you share post breakup mood uplifting stories please? But NO 'got back together' stories required thx

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend broke up with me almost a month ago. I am devastated now. I didn't have a very difficult time in the first couple of weeks but this last week has been just awful. I'm hoping this sudden drop in my mood is partly associated with my period coming on (sorry guys ... (302 words)

He has trust issues. Do relationships work out better on the second try?

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf broke up with me after 2 yrs because he had trust issues and would alwys have in his mind the 2 guys I had sex with yrs before him.. he always asked me how was the sex with the 2 other guys.. and also asking me did I like it better with them or was he better than them... (163 words)

Should I try to do this, because I really do want to confront him over how hurt I am?

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13 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I will ask you to read some of my other post to understand this issue http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-text-him-first-if-he-doesnt.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-falling-head-over-heels-for-him-but.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-... (123 words)

Do guys kiss like this in a first kiss?

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so everything went real great with the guy who liked me n who i liked cuz now were bf n gf, but what i thought was weird was the first kiss... So..., that day we had gone to this mega Coldplay concert with this other friend of mine n had sooo much fun and my friend was tell... (187 words)

I'm beginning to resent my boyfriend because I'm unhappy with where we live!

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for over 4 years and we live together. He is from the city we live in and I am from about 5 hours away. The past couple of years I've made it very clear that I want to move back there to be closer to friends and family. My BF has made it ... (126 words)

Hopeless romantic...

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13 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok. So here's whats going on with me. Sorry if this ends up getting too long. A bit of background as to why I even ask this question. Typically I am the one helping my friends with this sort of thing. I mean, I'm going into couples counseling, but I also know that it is hard to ... (487 words)

Teacher/student relationships...

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - What does he think of me?? my "teacher", he isnt a classoom teacher, have feelings for me...more than a student relationship. Or is it Friendship or more than that relationship? Also if you have ever had a student teacher relationship could you explain everything and how it h... (161 words)

Weightloss - does it affect your breasts first???

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13 June 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Is it true when a female loses weight the first place she loses it is her breasts!?! Because that's what my mum said her trainer told her... And i've lost weight and been measured and my breasts have reduced by an inch already? It's annoying me, i don't want to be skinny have ... (85 words)

Does my fiance fancy my daughter???

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if I am crazy or not. Sometimes I just think I am paranoid due to my own past issues. Sometimes I think I should listen to my gut. I've been with my fiance for 5 years. We've lived together for 2 years. I sometimes feel that he has been or will be inappropriate ... (846 words)

Why would she behave this way???

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13 June 2011 (M)

age - I have always had trouble finding a lady friend but finally met someone through a friend at work. On our first date we went for a meal and it went realy well, so I asked if she would like to meet again and she said she would. On our second date we went to the zoo, the first ha... (168 words)

Why is my boyfriend starting to compete with me ?

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13 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I would just like to know. Why is my boyfriend starting to compete with me ? What is it, that men have to feel like they need to start competing with their girlfriends? ... (33 words)