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Is there a problem if I don't want to have sex with him??

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi Agony Aunts I just had a question about sex. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months and we were each others first time, however as much as I love and adore him, I can't seem to get excited about having sex, and I never have done. When we first started dating we ... (120 words

Need advice, with this boring, wants sex all the time guy??

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and i have been together 8 months we are having a baby next month. he has wonted us to live together and be a family but im not ready for us to live together. he has also talked about getting married, he has told me before that he is IN LOVE with me. but th... (273 words

Don't love him, we don't have sex, he's nice, but how do I get out of this marriage??

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7 June 2011 (F age - I lost my husband of 27 years about 4 years ago, it really was the love of my life. Here is the problem, I figured not everyone gets a once in a lifetime love so who needs another one. So I did a dumb thing, I got married to a "nice" guy, ask anyone they will tell you he is. ... (225 words

My boyfriend wants to get a mistress to do the sexual things that I can't do!

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7 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend wants me to squirt or give him a golden shower, but despite my best efforts I can't do either. He now wants to get a 'mistress' that can do these things. I know what ur all thinking 'get rid of him and find someone that loves me etc' but he really is the one for ... (92 words

How do I improve my self-confidence in having a relationship??

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7 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - Hi guys I have seen that I am good at talking to women and teasing them and doing all the push and pull thing. Some of my female friends actually think I am good at it. However in most cases its later on that after I have made the initial rapport that I find it hard to close... (99 words

How can I overcome my fear of doctors??

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been taking the contraceptive pill (mycogon30) for about 2 years with no problems, the last few times ive been to the doctors to get it, my blood pressure has been high, i think its because im nervous about going to the doctors and asking for it, and i always feel very ... (115 words

I have a lot of big problems, appreciate any suggestions where I could find help??

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7 June 2011 (F age - How can you find help, if your problems are very unique? I tried to get help for years, for my problems, from psychologists and counselors , but even them, they rated them to difficult to deal with. As many big problems in life gets tangled up, and becomes the " big picture"... (184 words

I need to move on after I misled this person with fake pictures, how do I do that??

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I posted the question about meeting a girl for the first time and coming out about using fake pictures. I finally came clean and turns out, it didnt end so well. She infact loved the pictures she saw not so much the person or my heart. I figured this out by telling her this and ... (112 words

I think I am a bit young to deal with this relationship, need advice??

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7 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I am 15 and this story if someone was to tell it to me 2 months ago I probably would of said 'how pathetic and ridiculose' but now I am in a silly situation and need some advice and guidance from someone older. Basically I was on holiday and I met this boy ther... (573 words

Husband with my friend he cheated with, our son doesn't want to go with his dad now and I'm a mess!

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7 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am such a mess, how am I going to get through this, I can't stop crying, I just want the pain to go away, how am I going to cope? Long story short, my husband cheated on me with my friend 3 months ago, he is in a relationship with her and living with her. We have an 11 month... (461 words

G/f used to love me so much but now she's just angry when we talk!

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7 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend used to love me so much, but we had a fight and now she just gets angry when she talks to me. I've been trying so hard ever since to get along, but now she gets mad at me if she does anything to hurt my feelings. She says she loves me, but she's not happy anymore. ... (159 words

Give up or hold on?! How can perfection. Just stop

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7 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - My question involves abit of a background so here goes, I have been with this girl for three year we met in high school and were extremely close we did everything, and were madly inlove we went to the same college, and always were staying over at each others house, but we d... (343 words

Boyfriend treats me like garbage but I still love him. He's not broken up at all about us splitting!

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Okay so i broke up with my bf last night. Lately, we've been breaking up more than anything. Last night, me and him was spending time with each other, so he starts packing up his game in his backpack. I asked him where is he going and he responded to his friend's house to play ... (301 words

I want to get back with him, just not yet!

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7 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - To cut a really long story short, my ex recently started talking to me again after 6 months saying he still loves me and wants us to try again? - (We split because of distance) I said no, because the distance is too far i would rather wait then get back with him, but what are... (107 words

Girlfriend getting ticklish from cunnilingus. What should I do to give her the best oral?

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7 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I've tried several times to give my girlfriend Cunnilingus, but everytime that I've tried, she would tell me that it tickled. I also tried to rub her vagina when she was wet enough, and she would tell me it tickles,also. Her body seems to be very sensitive, even when I try ... (142 words

I'm in tremendous pain over this past breakup-relationship situation!

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7 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - i am hurting so much over a past relationship breakup (last breakup was 2 months ago), i can't figure out what to do, i can't even figure out how i feel. i had pushed away my feelings because i couldn't deal with them, it's too painful. the last time we fought i couldn't even ... (531 words

How do I deal with my friends?

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7 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - hi! so im 16 years old and i feel like i have a problem. im tired of my friends they are constantly picking on me, and getting on my nerves because they are always saying jokes about me, i know that we need to laugh sometimes of ourselves because we're not perfects and at the ... (206 words

How do I stand up for myself and be strong?

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together 6months. We was together before for over a year. We have been very on and off and he doesnt love me but im still in love with him. He joined a dating site and i found out we had an argument but after that everything was fine with us, he ... (217 words

I'm 18, am I bisexual?

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7 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I'm 18, and find myself attracted to both boys and girls my own age. I have been in a serious relationship with a girl in my year at college, and now have my eyes set on another girl. But I check out guys as well. I masturbate over them and everything, imagining the things I'd ... (142 words

Do I have a right to be annoyed?

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7 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend never agrees to go anywhere or do anything fun with me, like a holiday or to see a gig or something. Now his friend has got him tickets to go away to see a band and he's going. I know his friend payed for the tickets, but I've offered to pay for tickets for things ... (82 words

Do I sound like I dress well? Would I be a guy girls are attracted to?

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7 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - hi everyone, ok so i need some girl advice. i haven't had a girlfriend and i'm 18 i don't have a problem with that i just want to know do i sound like an attractive guy? i know it sounds stupid but i could really do with some self confindence because i feel a bit embarresse... (192 words

Is my boyfriend cheating? I don't think it's normal for a man in his early 20s to never want sex!

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - i need some good, genuine advice. ive been with my boyfriend for almost two years and this last 6 months hes started going out with his friends more than usual and he never wants sex! i always try and initiate it but he just doesnt catch on. he only seems to want it once every ... (184 words

I was going to break up with her on Friday but she's been crying!

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7 June 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hey guys I was going to break up with my girlfriend on the friday coming but today she told me she doesn't want to loose me when I wasnt with her today, I didn't know she wanted to be with me that much I don't want to change my mind but I don't want to have to stand her crying ... (64 words

I'm trying to be his friend still even though it hurts me so much to see that one girl can send just ONE text and instantly take him away from me.

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - So it all started out 6 months ago as friends with benefits. Me and this guy were going at it, hanging out together, doing everything together whether it was sex, hanging out, school, everything. We're unseparatable. We define ourselves as best friends but deep down inside we ... (394 words

My ex wants to talk, does he want me back?

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7 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hello, really need help here.This is a long one. My ex and I broke up over a year and a half ago. We were having a little bit of issues while he was deployed in the navy and when he returned his ex had convinced him they needed to be a family and there son and her daughter ... (393 words

I want to have sex with my former ex-FWB's sister's boyfriend. But I'm afraid my ex will find out!

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I used to date "joe" for a month when he broke up with me. I really like Joe and we decided to stay friends with benefits. Joe cheats on his girlfriend and I have always felt like a horrible person. Then, Joe finally told me he had sex with his girl and I let Joe go (haven't ... (211 words

Why do I push my boyfriend away?

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7 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Recently, I've been really depressed. I end up withdrawing into myself when this happens, because I'm afraid to ask for help, or to confide in them deeply. My last really depressive episode, I broke up with my boyfriend because I desperately needed his support but he h... (195 words

I blush too much...how can I get rid of it?

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7 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - Can any 1 please help me. i cant stop blushing when any cute guy looks at me or talks to me!!! Its a real problem how can i get rid of it..?... (32 words

Which is worse, her cheating or my looking at her email?

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7 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Long story short, girl I was seeing I found out was having sexy liaisons on the Internet with a couple of guys she knows. They didn't have sex or were intimate (I don't think, anyway) but exchanged a bunch of messages like "I miss you" or computer kisses and stuff. A couple ... (345 words

I like this guy at school but he's flirting with another girl! Help!

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7 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - Recently i moved from a small girls school in ireland to a big coed school in england and they got a guy and a girl to show me around. The guy was really nice and sweet and kind of geeky (let's call him A)but I asked my new friends and they all told me he has this gorgeous ... (133 words

She says she is over this crush...but how do I know that she's telling the truth?

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7 June 2011 (M age 51-59 - My girlfriend had a major crush on a client of hers. I found out about it and confronted her. She says that she does think he is attractive, but she is over it now - especially after seeing how it hurt me so much. He is very important to her business. Therefore, I can... (167 words

He hasn't texted me since Sunday night and this bugs me! What should I do?

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Im not sure what to do here The guy, im kinda seeing has stopped talking to me hasnt texted me since sunday night, and its been bugging me Ive texted him 3 times and rang him twice and no reply to both I now i havent done anything wrong here. but know i real... (118 words

What does it mean when women rub their breasts on men, when talking?

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7 June 2011 (M age 51-59 - Why do some women press and rub their breasts into you when they talk to you? This seems to happen frequently, especially when going to bars and parties with friends. These are happily married women. Actually, the single women I know do not do this. There are many married ... (197 words

Do you think she's into me or that we're becoming good friends?

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7 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - Theres this girl at work that I really like. So, over the past few months, I've been flirting with her and recently we've started hanging out outside of work. However, we don't conventionally hang out. Like we go for runs and do that kind of stuff together. That makes it se... (288 words

My lying and flirtatious girlfriend wants me back. What shall I do?

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7 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - hi everyone. i was with a very beautiful girl. shes i guess one of the most beautiful girl in the city. but shes no good other than looks. im not the most good looking guy around, but i have a fantastic personality. id loved her selflessly, i considered her my life. but not... (571 words

As an American woman, is it possible for me to find a Mexican man to marry?

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7 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I`m feeling blue and I don't see how I can ever be happy. I don't want to date or marry someone just to be dating or marrying someone, I want to share my life with someone I really love. Being lonely is horrible but I won't settle for someone I don't care about either. ... (819 words

Is this a sign that my best friend (female) really likes me as more than a friend?

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7 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - Weird one, would just like your take on it. Best friend is female, few years younger. We spend a lot of time together, like a lot of time. People often think we're a couple but we're not. Mutual friends used to think she liked me but she denied it. All our friends know... (247 words

Can I believe him when he says he didn't cheat after he already cheated twice before?

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7 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for two years. We have broken up twice. The first time we broke up it was because he cheated on me. I had a feeling he did and after asking a him a couple of times if he did he finally told me he had cheated, but he didn't know the girl and it ... (354 words

Can a man really be too sore for some "morning loving" after an evening of sex?

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7 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - So last night me and my boyfriend (together a few months) had a date, came back to mine ended up in bed and had some really great sex. Super! This morning when we woke up I was still feeling horny and started nuzzling in, stroking him and being affectionate. He certainly had... (271 words

My boyfriend's daughter is hysterical about wanting her mom whenever we have her. What should we do??

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7 June 2011 (? age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years now. Of that 2 years we have lived together a year and a half. I have a 3 1/2-year-old son and he is divorced and has a 5-year-old daughter; she splits her time every other week with us and then her mom. Up until 2 months ago ... (465 words

I feel like I have failed as a parent, please help!

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7 June 2011 (F age - I am a mother of a 14 year old daughter that persists on having sex with older boys/men. She's already admitted to having sex with a 27 year old and now she's aiming at 17 year old's. At the beginning of April 2011 she went off with someone from facebook but i don't know if ... (203 words

Where do I go from here?

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7 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - Ok. I'm 33 years old. I've spent the last couple years either working at my job, working on rebuilding a foreclosed home I purchased, or trying to find a GF. I wasn't spending a large amount of time on actually making friends. One thing I learned with the women I have dated is ... (283 words

I don't want to be depressed on holiday when I see my friend's figures in bikinis!

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm going on holiday in two weeks with my best friends, but it's just hit me how amazing they're bodies are compared to mine. One of them is 6ft and she has a great figure that many guys love and girls are jealous of. In fact it's intimidating. The other one is my height, bu... (278 words

How do I get over him when I loved him so much?

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I was recently seeing this guy and I really liked him, we finished it about five weeks ago due to circumstances. I was fine for a while but recently I just can't stop thinking about him, I dream about him all the time! I just don't know how to get over him when I loved him... (60 words

We spend a lot of time with another married couple and I'm falling for the other husband.....what should I do now?

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7 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am married with 2 kids. The past year we met another married couple and have really hit it off with them and been partying most every weekend together. Well the other husband was very flirty with me in the beginning, sometimes hugging me a bit too much or giving me a quick ... (539 words

Is it a crazy idea to have a baby at 15? Or a good idea?

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7 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - im 15 and i really want a baby. i know this is not really the best idea ever but i feel like i was born to be a mother. i have wanted a baby since i was 11 and like the idea of being a teenage mum. i currently dont have a boyfriend so it wouldnt be straight forwards. but i ... (93 words

Why is he still flirting when he has a girlfriend?

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7 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - There's this guy I used to work with who recently got transfered and I've fallen pretty hard for him , we both like to flirt and muck around and talk about sex with each other .. Hes one of the nicest guys I know and someone who I can talk to .. He always seems to put ... (269 words

I like him, what should I do?

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7 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have been friends with this guy for almost a year, recently he made it quite clearly that he wants to be with me, but when I asked him to hang out, he said no and told me there is not a chance for us to be together although he is physically attracted to me. Two weeks later, ... (87 words

Does my boyfriend's friend not like me?

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7 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - Does my guy's bestfriend not like me? I've started seeing this guy and on our first date after we went to a movie and stuff then went to his bestfriends house. I talked to him a little but we were um, smoking some stuff so I was kind of out of it as was everyone else. Well l... (216 words

My mum was caught cheating on my dad! How do we get over this?

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7 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - My sister just rang and told me she found another man in bed with my mother. We speculated mum was cheating on dad for a while, she swore on our lives and our childrens lives that she has and never would cheat on my dad...and now this has happend...my dad is going to be heart ... (99 words

Why is she trying to break us up? We don't even know her. Help!

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7 June 2011 (? age 26-29 - I've just started dating a girl and a complete stranger to both of us has just started emailing my girlfriend telling her I'm a fake and that I'm not genuine, I'm really confused because I've never spoken to this person before and neither has my girlfriend. This girl then ... (136 words

He doesn't talk and I've told him I need him to open up about his feelings! Help!

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7 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - We're going to celebrate our 6 months anniversary (dating) - no I love you's have been said and I'm wondering is it worth staying. Just not sure he'll ever say it and I need to hear it. I know ultimatums don't work with guys but I'm thinking I'm starting to burn time here. ... (118 words

Should I let him move in with the hope that we will get married in a year or so?

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7 June 2011 (? age 41-50 - Hey Cupids! So, my bf and I have been together for 5 years now and he's thinking of moving in with me. I'd love to get married cos I love the guy and I think living together is just not enough of a commitment. He says he doesn't believe in marriage but he's willing to marry me ... (201 words

Why have I never had a boyfriend?

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have never had a boyfriend. I'm not really the type of person to give a shit ordinarily, but in the last few months it has really been bothering me. I'm a bit chubby (size 16) but other than that I don't think I'm overly hideous. I'm a little bit shy around new people, and ... (116 words

Boyfriend has no interest in playing video games together?

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend lives a few hours away, so our communication is entirely online. He loves playing video games, and they take up a large part of his time. I've never thought much about it until the last six months or so, when I realized it was a big part of his life that I didn... (244 words

My boyfriend does not know how to comfort me?

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I love spending time with my boyfriend, and when I'm in a good mood (which I usually am) I am very happy with him. Lately however, I've been really stressed, sick, and having a lot of depressed/feeling down issues. I've told him I find it hard to tell him about my problem... (268 words

Boyfriend signing up for the Army? Little comfort?

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7 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi , A few weeks ago i found out my boyfriend had a passion for joining Infrantry with the Army. At first i didn't believe he'd make a go for it but yesterday we went shopping and he walked into BA centre + collected some forms. They took his weight and height + other details. ... (407 words

Why do I feel bad about their past?

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7 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - I have this gf with whom I always liked but she rejected me back than (she didn't want to get into a relationship, when she just ended a messy one). Still, we knew each other (this was years ago, way before I even tried to make a move on her) when she slept with this douchebag ... (388 words

My daughter's boyfriend keeps her a secret and I don't know why.....should I tell his mother about their relationship?

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7 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - My daughter has being going with a guy for the last 8 month. I have met him briefly when he has being to my house a couple of times. I cant say I know him only what she tells me about him. Some of the things she says to me about him and what he says to her I find worrying... (270 words

I don't need Viagra but I want to try it, would anything bad happen?

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7 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - hey everyone..im just thinking about taking a viagra once..just for fun and see how it feels lol. i never had problems with my sex life but i just want to take a pill and see how it feels..but im worried about what could happen to me after i take the pill..do you think there ... (86 words

I love my boyfriend dearly, but the sex and chemistry with my other man is amazing! What should I do?

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7 June 2011 (? age 41-50 - I don't want you to judge me here. Please, only reply if you have something to say which could help me out of this mess. I've had a bf for over 5 years, started an affair with a sexy man who's in a relationship too 5 months ago. We made it pretty clear that none of us was ... (166 words

Should I block my ex on Facebook, again?

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Yes, it's a question involving the dreaded Facebook. My ex-bf and I don't really have mutual friends in real life, but on Facebook we do. I initially blocked him so I wouldn't have to see him keep popping up on other people's Facebook pages. But there's one friend of mine w... (208 words

Does all of this sound reasonable? I no longer know what's right or not....

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7 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have a few questions: Whenever we argue, my boyfriend refuses to make up. When I offer affection, he refuses it. He says that offering affection doesn't change anything and in fact makes him angry because it's a sham - i.e., affection doesn't FIX anything. I thought other ... (384 words

What does it mean.......?

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7 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend was talking to me on the phone the other night and he told me something.....I have no idea what it means and I dont wanna ask my parents, and then have them all mad and asked where I heard it from. My boyfriend told me he wants to eat my cottage cheese! What doe... (60 words

Is he sincere?

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7 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my 42yesr old boyfriend for 4 months, and we are living together, I'm 39. We are in love and plan to have a family and marry at some point (hopefully) Recently I have been having some doubts about his sincerity, and caught him lying a few times- nothing b... (205 words

Why is he so modest about his abilities?

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Well i have this problem is my boyfriend. it seems like everything he does he always under sales himself, he told me he cant draw, yet he could draw me and my family perfectly. he said he cant fight but hes a 1st degree black belt. and he said that he cant play the guitar yet i ... (320 words

I'm in a relationship with a married man, but I want to end it. Please help?

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ive been involved with a married man for 6months. at first it was all about the fun. he is a very attractive man, but i was not inlove with him. As the months past, i grew to like him more. I knew since the beginning what i was letting myself into, but i justified it wit... (612 words

How do we fix our problems in the bedroom? Our relationship is great apart from the sex!

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - hii.. i m 21.from india... i into this dilema..if it is... i have a bf whom i love very much...he is 24.he has a very adoring and caring nature.. im very happy when im with him... but the prob is that he is not very good in bed... i mean he does not last very long and also he ... (128 words

My girlfriend has said she wants to go her own way, but since then is being more loving than ever! What is going on?

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7 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - yesterday my girlfriend said she cant stand living with me any longer she is wanting to move out and have a year to be "crazy" and think about what she wants (whatever that means) So basically it sounds to me like its going to be over.... However since she has said that to... (117 words

Why have my friends become two faced, I've known them for years?

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7 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I got a message from my friend who moved interstate some time ago [I'll call her friend#1]. There was the usual chit chat, but then she mentioned that our other friend was flying up to see her [I'll call her friend #2]. Then she said "wish you were here too, miss you". I wa... (221 words

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7 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - I recently proposed to my girlfriend of seven years. After we got engaged she started acting weird and then finally about a week ago, she confessed something to me. She admitted on to having an affair four years ago that lasted for more than a year. They met online and seen ... (496 words

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey How can i walk away from a relationship thats broke down and is unfixable or isnt getting any better even though it kills me to think i wont be with him anymore coz i am absolutley madly inlove with him? Any help will be very appretiated Thank you ... (52 words

Girlfriend troubles.........

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7 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - So I'm with my girlfriend for the second time after a break. But it turns out the first time at a party we went to , together, she kissed and tossed someone else off. I left earlier then her as I was up early the next morning. But months after she admitted doing this and ... (87 words

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7 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts I wonder if you could help me please, I’m so confused and upset over what’s going on. Before I go into detail I hope the following background to me/situation may help. I have two very stressful roles that are high profile and very demanding/intense, but ... (522 words

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. When we got together his ex fiancé was pregnant with his child, she kicked him out not long after she found out. Recently they have been getting on better, for their daughters sake. I don’t know why, but when he was roun... (307 words

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Ex and I are wanting to get back together. Then I catch her and my best friend making out. Now what?

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7 June 2011 (M age 26-29 - Me and my ex-girlfriend have been talking about getting back together for the past week or so. I was over at my best friends house and we were swimming with him and all of his family. Me and my ex or soon to be girlfriend were having a wonderful time. We were swimming and wres... (198 words

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Am I reading too much into his behaviour or is something going on with someone on his team?

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7 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - I live in the States and my husband is part of the national fire team. Every summer he goes out with the "team" to manage and fight forest fires. Has anyone else had any experience with this; meaning if there are romances that go on within team members, do they sometimes have ... (287 words

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7 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I'm curious....; What is the big deal with anal sex? Guys: Does it feel better than the natural way? If yes or no please explain! Can you tell by the way a woman looks in that area if she has or has not been active in that way? I heard some men like it only because the... (281 words

My family feels I'm too young to be in this long-term relationship

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7 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - So here's my problem..... I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and I love him to death. He's my best friend and I don't know what i would ever do without him. But the thing is my family doesn't really like me to have a steady boyfriend so early, and I get that, ... (173 words

Did he lose interest or is he playing games?

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He's controlling and has anger issues. So why do I want him back?

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7 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I dumped my ex twice within a three month period. He was controlling and acted more as my father than my boyfriend. He would ask me what I was doing when I was too busy to text him back quick enough, or when I occasionally didn't initiate contact. On Monday, which was the day I ... (334 words

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My ex has moved on with a new guy, who's very different from her ideal guy. What do I do now?

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7 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hello, I'd just like to say thank you very much in advance for taking your time to read this and reply.. About a month ago my ex girlfriend broke up with me after 2.5 years. I met her when we were both 16, yet I was one year older than her school-wise. I'm now 19 and she's... (877 words

If I use a vibrator does it mean I'm no longer a virgin?

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I thought we had a connection, what went wrong?

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7 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - i met this guy online a couple months ago. we messaged back and forth a few times, and talked on the phone a few times. ive done the majority of the initiating, and it takes him awhile to return a message, but he always sounds happy to hear my voice on the phone, we ALWAYS ... (513 words

I just get the feeling that I give give give, and get nothing in return.

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I feel like the relationship door is closed

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