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Am I justified in resenting my friend because she's pushed me away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, this isn't a love question. It's about friendship between 2 girls. My best friend, who I've been best friends with for 8 years just doesn't care about our friendship anymore. I think I was naive in thinking that we would be friends 'forever'. The thing is, I'm very ... (509 words

Without trust, what's the point in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4612 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for coming up 18 months next sunday, now last weekend he got incredibly intoxicated and told me he tried to kiss one of his best friends, now the girl in question i do not like atall she makes me feel very uncomfortable and i was right to feel like ... (191 words

Any ideas on how to plan a perfect dinner and gift for my boyfriend?

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17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - i want to make the percfect dinner with a gift for my boyfriend but i dont know what? any ideas? ... (23 words

Why do relationships have to be so confusing???

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17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Why do relationships have to be so confusing??? Or is it just me looking into things too much? I have been in a relationship with my partner for just under a year. Things have been going pretty well untill just lately. To be honest we have sex maybe once or twice a fortnigh... (238 words

Do I ask? Or pretend I never saw it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

17 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - I recently (not serching for) found a list of my girlfriends of sexual partners and realize im number 48. I myself am not a saint and have had 29 partners and understand the past is the past but it is eating at me we have been together for allmost two years and live together. ... (72 words

Boyfriend wants to get tatoos but not of our names. Is he insecure of our future?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - My fiance wants to get matching couple tattoos but not each others names. It makes me feel like he is unsure about our future. Could that be the reason why?? I want to get his name on me and he get my name on him. I want this because i see a future with him. I see forever. ... (76 words

UK help for northerners?

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17 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi. Moved to London about a year ago and realising that Southerners don't get my northern communication skills. Was wondering whether there is some sort of networking site for northerners to meet each other in the city. This would really help me build up relationships do... (69 words

Tips for what to wear on a first date?

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17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Im off on a first date tomoro night and were going out for some drinks.. but i have the usual girl dilemma of what to wear. Im curvy with big boobs (makes it even harder to find things that theyl fit in to aha) and looking for some advice on what u guys t... (83 words

How can my gf get bigger breasts without surgery?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I just got a girlfriend and i love her. We were talking one day and she told me she wanted bigger boobs. I was shocked to hear this. She wears like a 40C and she is kinda cramped in it. I stayed over her house that weekend and tried to convince her she had big boobs and I loved ... (142 words

Why did you cheat on your wife?

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17 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - To all of you married men out there that have strayed - why did you do it? I had a brief sexual affair with a married coworker - a 2 night stand if you will - and am curious what it was that made him go there. I did not initiate it but I went along (I too am married and had ... (98 words

Could this man 33 years older than me be interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Do you think i should give this man a chance, if he wants to go out with me , despite the age difference ?. I am 27, and he is 60. He is a very kind person. I was seeing another man recently, and he didn't treat me very well sometimes. This man, who is 60, said that he would ... (260 words

Why are men not unattracted to me even though I am tall and cute?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am 5 10, size 12, short red hair, long legs, 21 and cutish face. Although I have these things I feel so unattractive and that men dont fancy me, what am i doing wrong?... (35 words

I am still sleeping with my ex's brother! Help!!!

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17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, well ive posted a question back in April about my ex's brother and me. I know it sounds bad but it all started in April with him texting me about having sex with each other.So we did have sex a few times.No one knows about it.Not his girlfriend nor my ex.I know i should ... (219 words

Single mom, am I being too picky?

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17 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have a real issue with myself. I'm a 25 year old single parent of 1 child. I've recently split from a married guy and finnaly feel ready to move on and meet somebody new. I want to settle down, marry and have more children but I'm finding that guys my age don't want women wi... (238 words

My married lover ended things but is jealous of me dating!

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17 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I had an affair for 18 months with a married man who has two small kids. Last month he ended it telling me that the lying to everyone was making him stressed. We both work together and he wanted to stay friends. I am the 3rd person (i know of) he has had something with whilst ... (257 words

How can we get the spark back in our relationship?

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17 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - My girlfriend and i have been together for a couple of years now. The problem is that we have both kind of settled into this routine, boring way of life. It makes her question us, as well as makes me question us. I know that i love her to death. I want to be with her. But i ... (288 words

I'm tired of feeling unappreciated and frustrated. Any advice is welcome.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I ended up getting involved with a close friend of 3 years (he's in my close circle of friends) 2 months ago. His father recently passed away and now it seems like he's spiraling out of control. He's always out partying and drinking something he never did before. The worst is I ... (141 words

Any advice on where to get started on fixing our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my bf of 2 years, well he broke up with me a few days ago so i should say ex bf. Anyways he regrets breaking up with me and wants to get back together, i do too but with all the problems we have and all the fighting the past few months I don't know where to start fi... (172 words

I know what I should do, but I can't. I feel like a free prostitute. Help!

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17 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - I am seeing my x boyfriend from 15yrs ago. He is married now with 2kids. We talk every day and he knows I'm totally in love with him. So we meet a couple of times a week and we mess around only but he refuses to kiss me or spend more than an hour with me. I'm very confused ... (107 words

What can I do now to slowly start things up again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - hey, well, almost 2 years ago i was going out with this guy. he was really sweet and i liked him a lot but i stopped things because i didnt think i was ready to go further. anyway, since then we have talked occasionally, but i dont think i'v ever stopped liking him and i think ... (76 words

My family is causing trouble and stressing me out. Please help.

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17 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - i really need some friendly advice on what to do about my family. it all started when my younger brother went away with the forces. i dont live with my parents, i live on my own with my daughter, but while my brother was away i went round every day to see them, thinking i... (1139 words

I seem to have stopped loving my husband entirely. Where have my feelings gone? Why can't I rekindle them?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - It's been 10 years since I met my husband, and I've been faithful to him all this time. We've had a difficult relationship. We used to fight constantly. We've both caused each other a lot of suffering and heartbreak. We've lived through poverty and homelessness together. ... (506 words

Can open relationships ever work?

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17 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - right, so I am a bloke with a massive attraction to this girl. she gorgeous and smart and funny and lovely and SINGLE and SHE LIKES ME...well, you know that with those combination then she's gotta have a problem if shes still single, right? right. so her problem is....she does ... (213 words

I told him that 'friends' wasn't enough, but I don't understand his response?

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17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi I had a crush on this guy. Since he didn't asked me out even i figured he didn't liked me back. At one point i man-ed up and told him that i liked him, that being friends wasn't enough and so we couldn't be friends anymore. It's a bit cut throat but, i thought it'll ... (142 words

How does a marriage survive if affection and sex have faded away?

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17 June 2011 (F age - Is it very common ,that sex and affection dies down,after 25year of marriage? Does it matter,if you had a good marriage, with no big troubles with kids,or it is the same risk, 25 years is long for everyone? What happens,if people don't feel attracted to each-other at 50? How ... (172 words

Is it normal not to bleed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi I would like to seek some advice. My bf and I had intercourse for the first time. We're both virgins. But I did not bleed. I thought virgins are supposed to bleed on their first time. Is it normal?... (40 words

My pregnant partner seems to have broken up with me over a lost phone! Surely this cant be the real reason?

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17 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - im 34 and my x partner now for 3 weeks, has after 4 years of a rocky relationship, though very loving when its just us. We have a 2 and half year old daughter together who we love deeply, and a boy each from our previous relationships, her boy 6 mine 12 which we dont ... (365 words

Affair with married man....things are getting harder... I need advice!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Ok- i need some advice. I have been dating a married man for about 9 months now. everything has been so much fun, we talk every day and have a great time together- and yes, we fight... more so lately. Let me start off by saying that his wife cheated on him first (which i ... (880 words

How can he get a DNA test done?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend has had some trouble over the paternity of a child he was supposed to have concieved in a previous fling last year before he met me. He has doubts because the baby came 2months early and weighed nearly 7lbs on birth. The mother insists that the child is his but ... (165 words

I don't love him the way I did before because of his cross dressing, and now I don't feel like being faithful anymore! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age - My Husband of 25 years decided to go on a business trip 6 years ago and decided to dress up as a woman and had friends that did the same. He said he did not cheat on me and after that I changed my looks and lost weight I felt I was not woman enough! He said he would never do ... (95 words

Is what I said that wrong? What do I do to get her to forgive me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have asked advice on here before and I usually end up following it. I am a 20yr old bisexual female. I fell for a girl in one of my classes and we became great friends, she is gay. That was four months ago and I am still working hard to try and date her. I literally bend over ... (313 words

My boyfriend has broken his leg, I've been invited to a party and I'm wondering if I should go.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

17 June 2011 (? age 41-50 - Hi. My bf has just broken his leg. He is coming to stay with me this weekend. I have never been through anything like this before and although my bf is the least needy person I have ever met, I am struggling to cope with him being so unwell. He has to walk with crutches and is ... (247 words

How do I make him realise how serious this is for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - My husband doesn't satisfy me in bed. He is very quick at intercourse, he rarely if ever performs oral sex, and when he has done so only manages to last at it for less than a minute at best, just long enough to get me hot and horny. He does use his fingers on me, but its not ... (381 words

What should I do about my family? They hate my guts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I can't stop crying. I feel so helpless. I don't know what I'm supposed to do. Tonight, while my sister was once again running me down to my parents, I came in and for the first time in a long while, and said that I had pulled my weight around the house today and I wasn't p... (840 words

Should I go back to being her friend or should I embrace the opportunity of no strings sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I have been close friends with a girl from University since I began there last September. She isn't sexy, but she's not unattractive either. She has always been a very quiet girl who seemed very normal and average in her personality. I have never been that attracted to her but ... (204 words

Advice on moving from the UK to America?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I dont know if this is relevent but I want to move from the Uk to America, i'm just curious what I would need to do so? I would be living with a friend there please help!... (37 words

Why do women keep walking all over me? And what should I do about my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - [Mod Note: 2 posts have been combined into 1] my gf has been blowing hot and cold never letting go of her past. (i was her rebound) which over the time we were together i came to realize. She has lied to me about contact with her ex several times i have lived with her for nine... (310 words

How can I leave without any money and with no-where to go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hi, I have been married for nearly 17 yrs most of this has been unhappy. I have two children from previous marrige who are grown up and don't live with me. Two children from this marrige. My parents are both dead and as I was an only child I have no one else. Hubby has turned ... (188 words

Could he be bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

17 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I'm 18, male and bisexual and really into a guy at school. I don't see it as being judgmental but I just get the impression he's bi too. He's really metro, into fashion and everything, dresses quite smartly and coolly, with the fringe swept to one side. He just winks and pats ... (78 words

Why does my dad do this?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I hate asking him for help with anything. So do my siblings. If you do ask, he turns everything around on you. He says things like "Why do I have to do EVERYTHING?" or "You'll have to wait, I'm doing everything else". "WHY am I the only person who does everything around here?". ... (107 words

Why, after all this time, do I still feel this way about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I hurt this girl I honestly do love and care about almost a year ago. It resulted in the end of our friendship and possible romantic relationship. I was an idiot and apologized and I get she has a right to be mad at me. It happended in an amount of time and I don't think we h... (177 words

What to do when you have hurt the one you love.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

17 June 2011 (M age - hi there i was a builder until my wife found out about an affair i had about 7 years ago. She found out last november . This as totaly destroyed my lovely wife that i used to have and ruined every thing we had. If i could go back in time and get my wife back the way she was i ... (175 words

Please help me save my marriage...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

17 June 2011 (M age 51-59 - My wife and I have been together for 16 years, married for 13 years. During this time we got along well in a day-to-day sense, but 5 years into the marriage she moved out of our apartment and into an apartment of her own. The ostensible reason was that her commute was too ... (1233 words

Why doesn't my girlfriend get angry, is she normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

17 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for the last two years. She is very nice and has sparkling sense humor. In those last two years, I haven't come across a single moment when she was angry at me for anything stupid I do once in a bloom like me coming late on ... (155 words

Please tell me does this shy girl like me? Why is she uncomfortable around me?

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17 June 2011 (M age 26-29 - I like a shy girl and want to ask something about shy girls. Please read the following and tell me what this girl thinks about me. So there is this shy girl whom i love and she knows this though i never talked to her about this. I have found her relax and comfortable aro... (222 words

Is it worth trying to confess to him?

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17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I expected this guy to tell me he liked me but he didn't and now high school is officially over for us both. This is the silly part. We have NEVER had a conversation with each other. We are also possibly complete opposites. He's very popular and confident and if you ever saw ... (583 words

Need some advice about what I should expect and how I should act

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17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - So a guy I've known for several years recently contacted me and we started talking a lot. He's from a different state. He asked me out and told me he thought i was cute for the longest time and every time we talk, he would say that randomly. I think it's cute but I feel like ... (305 words

Why doesn't my boyfriend feel comfortable with me wantimg a threesome knowing I'm bisexual?

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17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend who i love and he loves me to and i wouldnt try to change him in anyway..! i like guys and girls and i have dealt with females my whole life but slowed down at 19... (im 23) but a few months ago i told my bf i like girls and he seemef okay with it..i have ... (177 words

Are we related?

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17 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - if you are dating your cousins cousin on a different side of the family are we cousins? ... (19 words

Did I mess up by not kissing him?

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17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I'm a 20 year old girl with little dating experience and I'm in a bit of a pickle. I went on a date yesterday and it was quite wonderful. It was our second. He took me out to dinner and paid and everything (I offered to pay for half, but he insisted). We are getting a... (395 words

Will he break up with me over this?

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17 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - So my boyfriend of 3 months and i, were hanging out this evening. Everything was going good, until he went through my phone. (yea UH OH) I wasn't really paying attention though, but then he saw a picture......and asked me who it was. Of course i was honest, and told him the ... (202 words

Why is he ignoring me one week, but nice to me another?

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17 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Ok, to make this story short……I dated a guy long distance (Dallas-Houston) for about 7 months. We went on trips to Vegas and other places together and really enjoy each other’s company…….. Well last month, he told me, everyone was referring to me as his girlfriend. He said he ... (543 words

Is wanting to cuddle a sign of neediness?

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17 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - Well, I'm dating again after a long sabbatical, and I've found a girl I really like. However, I'm finding it hard to be affectionate. I'm worried that it may be too much to soon. After our fourth date she came over the next night to hang out. We sat and talked for a while then ... (112 words

Crush on Facebook

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17 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - How do you tell a person you like them through Facebook? Especially since you don't really know them and its been years since you last seen them (more like acquintances)?... (30 words

How much more of his bs do I have to take?

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17 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - What do i do? My husband likes to hang out with the guys from time to time, but he don't know when to come home, i don't feel that emotional connection we had at first, he does not take me places, even the little things he don't do those either i have to either ask or initiate ... (191 words

Since we've been back in contact I feel I love him more than when we were together, but at the same time can't deal with his cheating and friendship with another girl!

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17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I'm so confused. Me and my boyfriend split about a month ago due to him cheating, I cut all contact with him and didn't hear or see him for this month. Although I did still always think about, I kept telling myself he cheated I deserve better. But about a week ago I fou... (360 words

I think he has become addicted to swinging and I want out, but I don't want to leave him. What should I do?

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17 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - I dont know what to do. My partner and I, both professionals in our late 40's, decided to try swinging three years ago. I dont want to say I was forced into it, or that it was all his idea. I probably didnt object that much either. But then at the beginning we just watched ... (470 words

Was I wrong to use another guy's pictures when chatting to her? Or is she over-reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

17 June 2011 (M age 26-29 - I had been talking to this girl for a few weeks just for fun and chatting with her. Initially I posted this other guys pictures. She got really upset and yelled at me and also removed me as her contact. From my understanding we flirted but there was nothing serious about it... (161 words

Is it likely she will ever return to her family?

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17 June 2011 (M age 51-59 - If my wife left me after 18 years of marriage for another man, and she left the kids with me. She is no longer with this man, but has another boyfriend now in a long distance relationship. My kids will not accept this new man, and refuse to be around him. Is it likely she will ... (62 words

What does it mean when a guy tells you I care about you in a very sympathetic way?

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17 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - What does it mean when a guy tells you I care about you in a very sympathetic way? Mind you we've been through some serious shit, and after that he tells me he cares about me in a very sympathetic way?! I care about him in a way that I can't even describe and I hate to use the ... (84 words

Why do I put up with it?

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17 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I lost confused. Ive been with this man four years we have a two year old so. He lives 49 miles away as he cant afford to move here as he wont leave his job. He keeps leaving every time there is a problem, he causes a rows with me he used to call me all the names under the sun ... (239 words

My ex changed his number without telling me. Will I ever hear from him again?

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17 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - We had been dating almost a year before we suddenly broke up one day. It had been months since we talked again, but eventually we became friends again and even started to act more and more like a couple everyday, when suddenly, out of the blue, he just started to ignore me ... (500 words

I don't want to end things but I'm beginning to wonder if I've wasted a year of my life and if I should move on..

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17 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - hi, i'm really struggling with my bf of nearly a year. or maybe its me? I feel so insecure in this relationship. He told he loved me for the first time last xmas and i think the honeymoon period has been over for a few months now. He still hasn't told his parents abo... (429 words

Is he telling the truth about these text messages?

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17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Please help me! Okay, so I check my bfs phone every now and then ... i never find/see anything innappropriate so, im always happy with what i see, checking his phone kindda reassures me that - well i dont really know cause i know that he wouldnt do anything really. But, i wa... (437 words

What do guys prefer?

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17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Do guys who normally prefer the "bimbo" look on girls (meaning bleached or dyed long hair, tanned skin, skinny, revealing clothing,) also like "average" girls or not so much? ... (29 words

Until I can leave home, what can I do to make this situation with my family more bearable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My parents don't pay any attention to me. When they're talking to someone else about me, they talk like I'm such a great child, always talk about how well I do in school, etc. But when I'm with them it's completely different. They hardly ever talk to me, and when they do, it... (500 words

Why wont my wife talk about her sexual past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

17 June 2011 (M age - what could the reason be for my wife not want to talk about her sexual past before we got married ? she shuts the subject down cold, the thing that bothers me is the one thing she said- i don,t remember how many there was, there was not that many. this troubles me.... (53 words

If I were to lose weight, would my calves get smaller?

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17 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - This doesn't have to do with relationships but I would still really be grateful if you could help me! I feel VERY insecure about what I feel is a serious physical defect and wonder if there's anything I can do? My calves are WAY too big!! Most people wouldn't describe ... (117 words

Too scared to date the girl I like because I am sexually confused! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

17 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - There is this girl at school that I like and I wanna make a move and try to talk to her but the thing is I'm scared and sexually confused. I'm still a virgin because I'm sexually confused. Somedays I want guys and then girls. Most on the time I want guys they are who I ... (275 words

What should I do now to make it up to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My best guy friend is now mad at me because we were suppose to meet up today and I was kinda busy and now, he won't talk back to me, text me back, or anything! I been saying sorry and asking for forgiveness. And I'm leaving for England this weekend and this will probably the ... (80 words

Should we be making out? And how do we control our urges?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - hi. Im a 15 year old girl. My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 7 months im just wondering if we should be making out by now? We talk about it and we both want to but we dont know if its to early or not. So should we be making out? We turn on each other so much. A... (98 words

Broke up with my boyfriend for another guy, but if I ever want him back should I come clean about having phone sex whilst we were still together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

17 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi...so, about a week ago I had phone sex with one of my good friends. I had wanted to break up with my boyfriend that day but ended up not having the guts, and then this happened. This isn't the first time I've "guy jumped," I tend to jump on another train while the one I'm on ... (201 words

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