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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I right in being mad at him? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i just asked a recent question on this topic but its got worse, so this guy who has fancied me and my freind for ages, he sent both of us they same sweet texts and called us babe and put loads of kisses at the end of each text he always told us he loved us. I did have... (164 words)

How often do guys think about sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okaay, this is a bit of an odd question, but following this conversation I had with one of my guy friends about how often guys think about sex (7 seconds, or something??) I was wondering: Guys, how often do you think about having sex with girls you actually know, or girls th... (127 words)

Does he disrespect me or am I taking the touching and dirty jokes personally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been good friends with my boyfriend before we started dating. This are going fairly smoothly but I get annoyed with him when he touches me up when we just have a casual hug or kiss. He also makes personalized dirty jokes, and my opinion, it's a little much. I have 'told ... (102 words)

Touching at work and a jealous boyfriend.....what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The shop where I work is pretty cramped, with a lot of people, often during busy times we will accidentally bump into each other. My problem is this, sometimes some of the guys (and girls) will gently put a hand on the waist to pass, or a small tap on the back/waist to ... (156 words)

My girlfriend wont attend any occasions that my second ex will be at! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

22 June 2011 (M)

age - I have a girlfriend of 1.5 yrs now. I also have a couple of ex's and three kids. Two from my first and one from my second. The kids from my second wife are friends and are close. The kids have known her for a long time. I am friends with my second ex and we still talk from time ... (226 words)

I feel awful for dating and being dumped by such an young guy!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am with a guy 8 years younger to me for the past few months. Initially everything went well, but lately he started hanging out with his friends more and his freinds are not happy about us cause of the age diff. For the past two days he didnt call and didnt answer my calls ... (166 words)

My partner treats me more like a friend and not his GF. Can this relationship survive with no intimacy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Confusing Boyfriend! My partner and I have been together for a year, he used to be quite an afectionate guy, lots of hugging etc and our sex life used to quite good. Things have changed so much so fast, I have confronted him and asked why these things dont happen anymore b... (114 words)

I'm not usually one to break up families, but I can't help the way I feel about him.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a bit of a dilemma and would really like some advice. I've fallen in love with a man who is already in a relationship with another woman. He said he loves me too, but the only problem is, is that he lives in Wales, and I live in England. We've met quite a few tim... (292 words)

Is it too late or silly for me to try to make amends and be friends one last time?

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22 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hurt my friend by lying to her. It's been about a year and a half ago. It resulted in the end of our friendship and she told me she doesn't want to talk to me again. I apologized but she still seemed very angry and like she didn't want to hear from me. I decided to give her ... (135 words)

Listen to my head or my heart?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on whether it's best to follow head or heart when making a decision about an unplanned pregnancy, please :( I found out at the doctor's today I'm 2-3 weeks pregnant, unplanned, and a big surprise as I have been taking the contraceptive pill. I've be... (395 words)

I love my best friend but don't know if I should tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, i am dutch from the netherlands,i am new to this internet site and also please excuse my english.i was married 15 years ago but split up as my Ex wife did not love me as she fell for someone else .i have two kids both boys who are 12 and 13 me and my ex wife split up ... (431 words)

My boyfriend's bisexual roommate flirts with him in front of me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age - Ok here goes...what do you think of this. My boyfriend because of his credit was having a hard time getting an apartment for himself. Soooo he had an offer to be a roommate with a guy that was splitting from his wife (she just left). Well the next thing you know the dud... (210 words)

Should I try and resolve this, try and save our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Right, I'm asking this out of desperation. My relationship is falling apart. I'm sixteen and I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months, and suddenly things are crumbling and changing so fast. I don't know what to do. Things are really stressful at the moment anyway, ... (438 words)

Am I sick or evil for wishing bad things for my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - ok, I hate myself right now. my ex was manipulative and lied and was insensitive and we broke up and now i look at her facebook page and see she is having fun, traveling with some new guy in Florida. and i cannot help but wish her BAD. i am jealous because i am stuck here nu... (135 words)

How do I get over a 4 year love affair?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so glad I came across this site. I need some suggestions on how to get over my lover. I am a married woman with no children and I have been having an affair with a married man for 4 years. His wife has just found out due to some old emails and it has escalated from the... (782 words)

On our second date, I almost had an accident while driving her home. Did that scare her off or am I overreacting?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I started talking to this girl online and after a couple of weeks she gave me her number and wanted me to add her on facebook. For a little while after that we texted just about everyday and started talking about making plans to hang out. We finally hung out downtown and just ... (462 words)

When and how should you ask if you two are "exclusive"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, when is it appropriate to ask, or at least hint, that you would like to be exclusive with someone you are dating? I ask because I have been dating a guy I met online for about three and a half weeks. We've been on four awesome, awesome dates. We were in communication wi... (374 words)

Am I delusional and overreacting, or is my boyfriend treating me badly? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. We have an 8 year age gap and sometimes I feel like that makes me behave childishly. We met at work and clicked straight away. We have so much in common. We started dating and I had family problems, so he took me into his home wit... (1137 words)

How can I love him again like I used to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my partner for 13 years. We have 3 children under the age of 6. It took 6 years of trying for my first child, and the other 2 came very soon after. My partner is loving, caring, and a great dad, but I worry my love for him has become more like that of a ... (75 words)

Am I wrong or am I really a bad person?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well this isn't a relationship question really... It's about my dad. He's mentally unwell and uses it as an excuse not to do anything around the house. The bathrooms haven't been cleaned for 3 months and the floors haven't been vacuumed in about four or five months. There are ... (295 words)

Is she interested or just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl at work who I like and have a thing for and who i think may have a thing for me, and we both get along well with each other ( said by someone else) , for about a year now. I'd just like other poeple's opinion about the whole thing, given the following * Sh... (505 words)

I don't want to lose my boyfriend or my baby! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,well i have been in relationship with a guy for 9 months we get on well we are a 4 hour drive away .Usually we take turns in who goes to who's place and now ive messed up BIG TIME.im 24 he is 36 and a great guy i mean it he even comes to my place to babysit from time to time ... (447 words)

Is dating a younger guy difficult? Would this explain why he broke up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am dating a guy 6 years younger to me for the past 2 months. At first i was reluctant and he was the one keep on insisting and then we went for a date and it went well and we started seeing each other. Suddenly 2 days back he started saying like he wanted a break an... (130 words)

Can anyone translate this dream?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, before I tell you my dream, just know that recently my friends and I dropped two friends who kept causing drama and were really dorky. Don't judge. Also I am going into high school. So i was talking to my best friend (lets call her A) and out of nowhere one of the most ... (190 words)

How do I stop being so negative?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

22 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm so lost. I feel like I don't belong wherever I am mostly. I feel that whatever I do or whatever I say, people will tease me or laugh at me. I have trouble taking a joke/not taking things to heart and determining whether people think what I did was funny or whether they were ... (195 words)

Is he talking bad about me online to get revenge?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It kind of started as fun, nothing serious at all. I lied to this guy and deceived him and most of it was done online. I never meant to hurt him. Over time I got to know him and realized he is a really cool guy and I started developing feelings for him. I wanted to tell h... (164 words)

Confusing crush....is he interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys , I need some help understanding my crush . I haven't known him very long but I'm very keen on him and feel there is some sort of connection .. Thing is I didn't know he had a girlfriend because he never spoke about being taken so I fell for him not realizing he ... (227 words)

Past sexual abuse has destroyed my relationship.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello This may be a long one! To cut a long story short I was sexually abused as a teenager 10 years ago. For most of my adult life i had been in denial until last year when i was having counsedlling for an eating disorder. I finally admitted and tried to come to terms with wh... (291 words)

Worried about saying racial slurs accidentally

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a student and when I'm away from home, there aren't many people of african origin. When I came back to the city it became a sudden culture shock to be back, and now I have a job working and I've suddenly got this paranoia that I'm going to say something extremely racist to ... (239 words)

Do I contact him or just leave him to sweat it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

- I have been going out with this guy for 10 months and we are living together in my house. I absolutley adore him and he adores me. We had a row on tuesday morning. the problem is he has had this cough/cold for the last 2 week. I have got him tablets and medicine which hasnt ... (345 words)

How can I get my mum to stop opening my mail?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's my problem, I'm 21 years old and have lived away from home for about 4 years, working full time. This year I decided to go back into education so moved back home during term time. I come from a good family, however my mum is kind of "crazy" and sometimes does and... (293 words)

I had hoped for so long to be in a relationship with him, but now we are together he is the one that expresses his feelings more than I do. Why is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with a guy two years my junior. We have been friends for almost a year before we started dating. Whilst we were friends, I always wished we'd be in a relationship so it made my day when he finally agreed to it two months ago. At first, we were all over ... (166 words)

He expects me to wait until he is back from the pub to cook his dinner!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has recently started to go to the pub every Friday after work with his new work colleagues. I wait until he gets home from work all week before I start cooking dinner. He can get home after 6pm and he likes to chill out for a bit before he starts eating. But I will ... (251 words)

Should I move to my ex's city?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so here's the situation my ex and I have been broken up for over 9 months now. We were in a LDR and there were plans for me to move to her city. But since we're broken up obviously those plans fell apart. The problem is that I love the city that she lives in and I can ... (209 words)

I split up with my boyfriend but he wont stop being clingy! Why is he behaving like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with this guy for over a year now and at first everything was fine, it was a casual, fun relationship. However down the line, about 7 months, he turned into a different person. He started questionning me about my every move, questionning me about every guy friend... (409 words)

What should I do about my ex? I cant stop wishing we were back together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm miserable. I have this ex boyfriend, things ended about a month ago. During our relationship I lost all contact with my friends outside of him, not because he told me to but because I had no time for anyone else outside of trying to talk to him. He lives somewhat far ... (402 words)

My girlfriend's nail polish turns me on, is it normal thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have this beautiful girlfriend for the last four years and everything seems to be going perfect for us. But I have a this strange behavior that whenever she puts on sort of a dark-red color nail polish , it turns me on big time and I feel like having sex with her immediat... (116 words)

I don't know if I should side with faith or reason. What is everyone's opinion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this woman when we were both in high school, somewhere around 15 years ago. She had the biggest crush on me. Throughout the years we've dated off and on, but never anything official or remotely serious. She was always madly in love with me, but there were to reasons why I ... (514 words)

Is this fading love? Stress of school and work? Or could there be another cause for the problems between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for just shy of 2 years, we were highschool sweethearts and have been going steady. The past year we went to college and we started bickering over small things...our assumption is that it is because our frustrations with the 4 hour distance... (196 words)

We live 700 miles apart, could this ever work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Um I don't know how to start this. I met this girl on an online chat website.. I'm sure everyone has heard of this online chat website. Anyhow we really like each other now. I tell her I love her all the time and we never run out of things to talk about we're really close now ... (136 words)

We cant see each other for another 10 months, can you even call this a relationship anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a ldr as well as committed relation since two years. Recently my bf came to visit me and he said that this is the last visit of this year!He just met me once in this year. He stays 1800 miles away and does not have that much finance to visit me anymore. Moreover he ... (128 words)

She asked if I've dated anyone since we broke up. What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I had just recently started talking to my ex again(As friends) after a month of not talking. She wanted to talk about how my life had been since the last time we've talked and one of the very first thing she asked me was if i was dating anyone or if i've dated anyone since ... (73 words)

Does anyone have a story with a happy ending where you and your ex broke up, but got back together even when it seemed impossible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I see alot of heartbroken people on here who lost there ex....so, does anyone have a happy ending story where you and your ex broke up, but got back together even when it seemed impossible?... (36 words)

He gets his mom to do things for me because he thinks I'm too young to handle it! How can I make him stop this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there I want to ask a question me and my man have been together for 1 year and he still asks his mom to do things for me, he thinks that I dont know how to do stuff like call to pay a bill. he thinks im too young to do that, I mean come on im 18 years old and I want to learn ... (94 words)

I don't want her back in a romantic way, but I don't know how to get over her either!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex gf and I have been broken up for 2 months and our break up was a painful one for the both of us, but we decided to still be friends and after being broken up for a month, she started dating someone else..so I told her that I needed time to myself to get my head straight. ... (151 words)

I wanted to tell her I liked her, but it came out wrong and now she thinks I hate her! How do I sort this out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4686 days ago

22 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I put myself in a little troubled situation, and I'm looking for advices of any kind: I told a classmate of mine i liked her exploiting the fact that I gave her a ride home. A couple of things to know: it was a while i wanted to tell her that, but I'm humongously shy ... (270 words)

Confronted my girlfriend about her sexual past and found out she was raped, and now she wont speak to me! How can I get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so i finally convinced this beautiful girl to go out with me that took forever,Shs shy and awkward but very smart an ambitious works and goes to school. I really think im falling in love with her well I think it was really love at first site when I saw her. one day we where... (270 words)

I have found out my step-daughter is a lesbian, what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ijust found out my stepdaughter is a lesbian shes 16 and has a GF and apparently has had sexual relations with her. I have been married to my wife her mother for five years and im the legal father we all agreed to that her biological father is not a good man. I have e... (333 words)

Do men or women have more one night stands?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

22 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Has anyone done research about whether men or women are more likely to have one-night stands, flings, or other meaningless relationships? I am a man and I have never had a one night stand. None of the men I know well enough to ask about this have either. However, almos... (314 words)

Why did he just stop contacting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for 2months, its going well, last week we spent friday,sunday at my place and monday, tuesday at his. We had a plan goin out places on fri and saturday that same week. On fri he called and canceled our plan but said maybe well do it on a saturday ... (185 words)

What is with this guy? One day he's perfectly delighted to be with me, the next day he says we cant have a relationship and that we should never meet/talk again!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I don't understand men. Seriously. I've been dating a guy, reaaaally sweet and cute for 1-2 month. It was amazing and fun. Last friday, he kept telling me how happy he is that he met me and how he wished days could be longer so we could have more time together ! The ... (208 words)

I gave up work but now my partner is growing resentful despite saying he wanted to be the breadwinner!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age - I have been with my partner for 3.1/2 years. Previously I was married for 20 years. I am 47 and have had my own business for 8 of the years I was married the rest of the time I had children and a home. Never was I made to feel like my job as a mother and a homemaker was not ... (210 words)

I am scared of what he feels, if it may turn out to be different than what I am feeling!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in college and I have fallen in love with my best friend. I met him when I first started college. I really liked him and we casually dated for a month or so. All of a sudden he freaked out, so I immediately stopped contact with him, although it was rather hard since he was ... (356 words)

How can I build a happy marriage when its so one sided? I feel so hurt and alone.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having problems with my husband. He makes very little effort at all. His whole life revolves around going to work, coming home and being with our kids, working on his car, the yard and renovating the house and in the evening its a toss up between ebay and tv, then he's into ... (803 words)

He never tried talking to me before, but after I had my first kiss with him he is putting in effort....why would he do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - We hooked up when I was drunk. It was my first kiss and my friends gave him crap for it. We're not very close and he never tried talking to me before unless it's in person. But now he actually puts in effort in keeping in touch with me online and even asked for my email. Why ... (81 words)

The guy I was seeing never actually told me that he didn't want to see me any more, he just stopped contacting me! What should I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

22 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do about this guy i was seeing. He never actually told me that he didn't want to see me any more. He has just stopped contacting me. He did tell a couple of his friends that he thinks the world of me (if he feels that way, why won't he talk to me?) , b... (456 words)