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I need a good role model to confide in!

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Question - (14 June 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *0vexl0ckdOwnnx0 writes:

the last day of schools tomorrow, and then im back to being lonely.. no more confiding in my teacher for months.. whats even worse is that my brothers ex girlfriend, im not allowed to talk to her anymore. when she was the only one who tried to be involved in my life.. but she called me last night and my dad got mad and told me to never answer her, and to shut my phone off.. so now im forced to confide in this lady i met at a restaurant who was my waitress, and shes the worst role model there is.. she cheats on her boyfriend, and has had sex so many times, and then tells me im just like her.. when i dont wanna be, im trying to be like my teacher. i just dont even know what to do anymore.. and lately ive been having urges to hook up with guys.. is this bad?

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A male reader, galdegir Australia +, writes (14 June 2011):

Young lady a interest in males isnt bad as long as your just seeking a little bit of affection from a boy your age without sexual thoughts. Why is it hard to confide in your father or mother your fears? I find it rather odd your father has a problem with you talking to your brother's ex girlfriend. Have you tried talking with your mother?

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A female reader, babygirllovej Canada +, writes (14 June 2011):

babygirllovej agony auntHi sweetie,

Don't just run to anyone for a role model. Choose someone wisely. Do you have any friends you can talk to?

You can send me a message about anything that is bothering you and I will do my best to advise you through it. I think you need to rely more on your experience through life. You are stronger then you think.

You don't need a role model. Cheer up hon, try to socialize and do group activities and concentrate on getting your life where you want it.

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A female reader, Lovemeright11 United States +, writes (14 June 2011):

Lovemeright11 agony auntWhat is the real problem hear? Why are you running to random people for role models? Do you not really have any friend or people to talk to?

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