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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm tired of having no bust. Can implants save this situation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

18 June 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I really hate my small breasts! I don't know if I should get implants, because men hate implants (supposedly) and because they're risky. But I really can't stand my small breasts anymore. I've been with few guys, but all of them, including my current boyfriend, have "neglected" ... (459 words)

Do I come out and risk being bullied again? Or stay silent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so a year ago i came out to a friend who i thought i could trust, turns out i couldn't when i came into class the next morning and questions where being thrown at me saying "are you gay" i was so shocked i mean i thought i could trust her i told her because i was scared if i ... (210 words)

I do love him. I want him back. Am I getting back with him for the right reasons?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok- i was dating my ex for 2 years and i ended things about 9 months ago. Since then he's been contacting me and trying to get back with me. and we've actually hung out a few time and had a really fun time. And he is usually saying things like i can make you happy and i love ... (331 words)

Would you think it OK to kiss her if you were in the same situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I met this girl about 2 weeks ago and we've got on so well and I really liked her from the beginning. From what I've heard from my friends she likes me as well, but the problem is that since she's a work experience student and will be leaving tommorow I probably won't see her ... (130 words)

Lied about being pregnant now I have to fake an abortion

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont a very stupid thing My boyfriend and i broke up two weeks ago and i am absolutely heartbroken Wer were trying for a baby before we split Like a right idiot iv went and told him im pregnant and im getting an abortion even though i dont think i am pregnant My period i... (132 words)

How to get the spark back and keep it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4688 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a 26 yr old female thats invovled with 45 yr old man we have been together for 6yrs and have 2 children together. I want to keep the spark between us we just reconciled after 8 months so we are slowly easing back into it, and i want our relationship to rekindle the flame we ... (72 words)

Time to get over a broken heart

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

18 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend (who I loved alot) broke it off with me just under a week ago. With some soul searching and thinking about all the things she said for why it finished, I have accepted her reasons and am actually starting to..well anyway. My question is: how long did it take you ... (84 words)

I am pregnant and don't want to give the baby away but am unsure about keeping it either

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I found out I was pregnant about two weeks ago. I'm still not sure how far along I am but after two at-home tests and a blood test from the hospital I know for sure I am pregnant. I'm not on any birth control, because I thought for sure I couldn't get pregnant. I'm 21 ye... (362 words)

Depressed wife left me and went to her mother's. How do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - dear cupid hope u can help my wife has been suffering with depression for the last 18 months.since this first began i have tried everything i could to make her better sadly my lack of knowledge of the illness worked against me.i have felt that the more i was giving the less i w... (142 words)

Anyone familiar with astral projection or travel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F) age 51-59 - Hello there, I wonder,if anybody knows about astral projection, or astral travel. I have been reading a lot about this issue, as I meditate a lot, and tried to have this experience.But now ,I really wonder ,if it is a bunch of b.s, or I just don't know how to do it. Sure it ... (122 words)

Boyfriend and I are going on a break, and I feel very uncomfortable about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 10mths now. He cheated on me in the past and i forgave him for it and said that we could start over because i really love him with all of my heart. Although i forgave him, things haven't been the same and just recently he wanted to go ... (152 words)

I'm in love with my cousin and want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4695 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - DEar cupid, im going throught an emotional break throught because im inlove with my cousin who i once shared a relationship..hes my first cousin and he lives right upstairs..itz been three months now i cant get over him..i cant stand to see him with another girl..an... (83 words)

My boyfriend said I was like a porn director

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,this really sounds creapy to me but pls i need ua input. im n relationship for 7months, commited,we taked of moving together,,spent every weekend 2getha. my boyfriend lost his job and his sexual appetite went down which i do understand coz of the stress.few days ago we were ... (174 words)

How do I control my insecurity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have major insecurities and i feel like it will ruin my relationship, my boyfriend says it wont ruin our relationship and compliments me everyday, hes never cheated and the only thing we've had a serious arguement about is him watching porn and a certain women on porn who he ... (93 words)

I'm having a hard time dealing with breaking up. How can I stop it affecting me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i broked up a month ago and i was trying to get him out of my life and my head. He doesn't want to tell me his feelings nor his emotions toward me. Whenever i asked him what's wrong and he said he got mad to the world or anything ridiculous, but not me involved ... (261 words)

I don't believe what my boyfriend told me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - ther was a funeral today for a friend of my boyfriends and his ex.he said he wasnt gonna go.why do i feel he went?dont know how to handle this?i have uneasy feeling about some of his actions?may be that im just paranoid?dont know what to do?feel very lost.... (48 words)

I have information that I don't want to have and don't know how to handle this

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am in a pickle. My best guy friend is heads over heels for this girl. She is completly enamoured, and I have never seen her like this, so happy. She has even confessed to me that she has never loved someone so much before, and is scared of losing him. She is ... (218 words)

Do you believe in spanking your child?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Do you believe in spanking your child? I've heard people say they believe in it and others believe that its wrong. Personally, i believe in it if they are out of control and have been warned repeatedly. Don't judge, it was how i was raised and my parents before that. What's ... (57 words)

He is happy being having his cake and eating it but I am not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My 35 year old boyfriend seems happy with our relationship as it is. He has no plans for us to move in together or get engaged or married. He says we don't get on well enough to make a commitment. I think this is rubbish and his way of having his cake and eating it. We live ... (267 words)

Why does my sister stand me up and blame me for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going through a rough time lately. I really needed some friendship and support. So I make palns with my sister. But ever since she brokeup with her boyfriend, she's been forever in a bad mood. This is dispite her being the dumper. Anyway I make plans with her but she ... (91 words)

Best type of condoms for 1st time sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this might sound a bit of a weird quesiton, but what (if there are any) are the best type of condoms to use for your first time? My boyfriend (who is 2 years older than me) have planned to have sex together for the first time next week - he is not a virgin. I've just... (96 words)

Why do I feel really weird around my guy friend...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid Why do I feel really weird around my guy friend...? lets call him "Danny" I posted a question back in January about my friends trying to push me and "Danny" together, they did eventually stop as they saw how it was affecting us! Anyway, I like him and he... (383 words)

My husband had a threesome with his ex wife. How can I compare to that?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age - My partner had a 3some with his wife and her friend many years ago. After the 3some his wife's friend went home to her husband. My now partner and his then wife went to bed and slept in the same bed that the "hot steaming sex" happened in. What is having a harmful effect o... (172 words)

Someone Please tell me what to do to get my brother in-law to be his old self again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My brother in-law and i had a really fun relationship about a year ago. We would joke with one another and try to top each others smart remarks. But about 9 months ago i noticed his jokes becoming more sexual toward me. And i must admit i liked it and played along with it. The ... (788 words)

Why is my partner with me when there are so many beautiful women out there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is my partner with me when there are so many better looking women out there? I don't get it, its not just me and my partner. I see some men/women date and marry people who are rather unattractive, when they can be out there dating someone gorgeous. My partners ex ... (88 words)

Do you think my married lover misses me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Four weeks ago I was dumped by a man i was seeing. He was married and I understand that it was wrong and all that but I still love and care about him. We were together for nearly two years. When he dumped me he told me that he wanted to become friends straight away but i told ... (331 words)

Should I change doctors? I'm disappointed in the way my doctor treats me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I m diagnosed with hyperthyroidism. I have been a regular patient to my doctor who is always busy and have schedule which conflicts my working hours. One day he told me to get the ultrasound and blood tests done and see him after 5 days. But as i was busy in office, i couldn't ... (285 words)

How can she say she likes me when she doesn't want to talk to me outside of the site?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I started talking to this girl for fun on a lesbian chat/non dating site. She would flirt and talk with me and we'd set up times to 'meet' everyday. She told me she liked me. However, she said she wanted to take things slow. I believe from what I heard from some of her frie... (218 words)

Why does he have to maintain his individualism and separate me from his life or his family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is stationed at another state. Every weekend, he would drive 35 miles to meet me. He sometimes would come to visit her sister here who's in college now. Why would he rather spend his time alone in the shopping mall, instead of asking me along to have dinner with ... (210 words)

My husband shows no love towards me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, my husband have been treating me very bad he has hitted me a few times and called me names that is too awfull to mention. The thing is im not sure if i feel the same about him anymore, he treats me different towards other women. He will get a chair even a drink for ... (350 words)

I'm almost sure that I suffer from Social Anxiety Disorder.Does anyone else experience something like this? Or does anyone have any advice as to how I can calm myself down and prevent it from getting out of hand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear all, I haven't been officially diagnosed, but I'm 99% sure that I suffer from Social Anxiety Disorder. On top of this, I think I have a pretty obsessive personality and I really don't like change. As a result, I end up losing control of myself on some occasions and my e... (239 words)

My mother in law has more say in my marriage than I do, and he hits me@

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some atwise. my mother inlaw has a say basicly about everything in my marriage. Well i wanted to do something for fathersday because my husband is a new daddy. I told her we are going to be at at home and im preparing a suprise for him from my daughter. Now she ... (660 words)

Sudden lack of interest...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been inlove with this guy for 5 years. He said he loved me and he said that he meant it. We have been keeping in touch through the chat (messenger), telephone and writing (for 5 years). I do not get to spend a lot of time with him because he only com... (277 words)

Her boyfriend doesn't treat her well, should I tell her I like her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - one of my friends thats a girl has a boyfriend. i don't know alot about their relationship but the things my friend has told me he doesn't treat her well enough mostly when shes around her friends. the other day she was with her friends and she saw him at college and he looked ... (248 words)

I hate feeling clingy and needy and I am struggling with confidence issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for 4.5 months. To begin with, he's 19, and I'm 28, but the age difference has never really been something that got in the way. For the first 3-4 months, things were amazing and we were texting 20-40 times a day, seeing each other at weekend... (606 words)

My husband touches other women's butts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age - is it normal for my husband to touch another girls bum... (11 words)

Are underwire bras bad for you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and a 34b and was wondering when it's ok to start wearing an underwire bra on a regular basis. I don't wear it that often like once every couple of months bit I have heard (especially from the ladies at m and s) that it's bad for developing breasts. I get contradicting ... (104 words)

He's lied to me before, but now he wants me back.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend want me back. I'm 15 years old and he is 26. We met online 2 years back. We started dating when I was 14. After some months he started ignoring me. When we talked last time he told me that his parents are looking girl for him. I was depressed, I needed him the ... (334 words)

I caught boyfriend masturbating and he left, hasn't spoken to me since!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hello everyone. I was wondering if you could shed some light on why my boyfriend acted like this? . . The other morning my boyfriend woke me up, the bed was shaking slightly and it was obvious he was masterbating. I dont have a problem with that and when he asked to remove hiS ... (228 words)

Why do women care so much about men having a job?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

18 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 39 and have never been able to get a job, so I have never been able to find love. And am still a virgin! Why do women care sooooooo much about this job thing? Why can't I be the one who does the housework and take the kids to school ect. ect. I thought women wanted t... (70 words)

I don't want her back, but I still miss her a lot.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend broke up with me a little over 2 months ago after dating for 2 yrs...At first, we decided to stay best friends but then a month later,she started dating someone else and I couldnt handle it, so I told her that we shouldnt talk to each other until i was ... (185 words)

Is this his polite way of breaking up or what else could he mean?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm confused right now. my bf told me he needed space like one week.. is this breaking up with me in a polite manner or he just need a little time without me?... (33 words)

If he doesn't want me after so many years, why doesn't he just let me go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 46,divorced with grown up kids. I have been single for 6 years and I live on my own. 4 years ago I met a man online who was 6 years younger than me. We talked almost every night and he told me he was leaving his wife. The years rolled by, we continued to talk online (abo... (679 words)

Does it sound like my ex is trying to patch things up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, my ex and I broke up about a few weeks ago for various reasons. In the end, us breaking up was kind of a combined effort so neither of us can blame the other saying 'You ended it' or 'This is your fault'. We've kept contact all throughout while staying very platonic... (355 words)

Does this Shy Girl like me? She already knows I like her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I like a shy girl but dont know if she feels the same. I have found that the girl is only very shy, nervous and uncomfortable around me while she is ok with other boys and also talks to them but not with me ( Maybe because of Shyness ). She also get very formal when she see me. ... (159 words)

I want to do it but he never does

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age - I have been married to my husband forever it seems, and while we get along for the most part, it's not always been great... but we Have always enjoyed having sex. Gradually, over the course of the last couple of years, our sex life has slowed down to the point where sex is ... (269 words)

My bisexual friend likes me but I only like her as a friend, and now she's acting weird when I'm around her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend that I've know forever and we are best friends.Shes bisexual. She has told me that she likes me and I nicely told her I only like her as a friend cause shes always been like a sister. Now shes acting weird when Im around her. She acts like she doesnt want to ... (85 words)

I have done the right thing and ended my affair, but how do I now cope with the emptiness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am not proud of my affair. I am not that kind of a person. She and I met at work and became close. Her marriage was on the rocks, she has 1 kid and I was living away from my wife and daughter for various reasons. It just happened, first emotionally, and then it was ... (321 words)

According to the rules of dating, should I text my bf to tell him whenever I am going out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want to know what are the rules of dating? Am i supposed to let the person know when I'm going out or not?...simple as that..I'm dating a guy but I'm not sure if he's serious cuz I always am the one who texts him no matter what and he texts or calls me first once in a ... (68 words)

Should I go to my middle school reunion in order to see a guy I like and risk being disappointed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F) - there is a reunion for my middleschool coming up..one guy who is going i kind of have a crush on..i see him in the neighborhood at times but tend to avoid him if i don't look that great. I ran into him about a year ago where he was working..so we realized who we were and he ... (303 words)

How do I prove to my insecure bf that I would never cheat on him and that I love him with all my heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has major trust issues, as well as being insecure. I love this man with all my heart and would never cheat on him or anything of that nature, but he's not sure if that's how i really feel. He said trust needs to be proven to him because he's been hurt too many ... (88 words)

The guy I like told my friend he likes her. How do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a guy at my school that I like and my friend likes him too, and she didn't know that I like him as well. So today I heard my best friend say my friend that likes him go up to the person I like and say that she likes him and he says that he feels the SAME way as her and ... (128 words)

I am 13 and in love with my bf, is it too soon to plan a future together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 22-25 - My bf *ethan* and I have been together for 7 months. We're both 13 and I have been thru so much pain torture and scariness that I learn not to trust many people. Him and I are completley in love....I have never felt like i do about him. i''ve never felt as close 2 a guy either. ... (215 words)

Is guy I am dating for 2 months moving too fast when he says he wants a wife, not a gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - 2 months old bf said he's looking for a wife ..not just a gf. Should I be worried?? We're both in our early 30's. Do you think he's moving too fast or he just knows what he wants in our relationship ? Please advice.... (53 words)

Should I send my teacher (who I have a crush on) my facebook friend request again in order to keep in touch with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm a 15 year old girl with a crush on my teacher. Luckily, I am one of his favorite students and he loves me very much (in a teacher-student way, I hope). He is leaving this year to another country and when we said goodbye, he told me to "Keep in contact" with him... at ... (131 words)

Was my ex trying to make me jealous by calling me by another girl's name on the phone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my bf 3 weeks ago. It was a friendly break. It's happened before that we'd break up and get back together in no time, but this time, i don't know. our relationship was getting soo hard! Anyway, we never stopped talking since the break. Actually, we've been ... (232 words)

Any tips for a first date???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey ummm im going out with this guy and hes my first.i really need help im scared i wont know wat to do like do i ask him to go to the movies with me, do i go for a kiss first and how to kiss,how do i act around him please help ... (53 words)

My friends say I'm just too much of a nice guy to be in a relationship. Is it true? Is that why I'm single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyy I'm sorry if this is too short but I need advice, I'm an 18 year old male and never been in a relationship and my friends say this could be a direct result of me being "too kind". Which I don't get, I don't see what's wrong with being kind all the time. If there is ... (66 words)

Found photos of my bf having sex with another woman while we were dating, but he says they are not photos of him. Not sure what to believe!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I really need advice just now. I was going out with my boyfriend for over a year but we broke up last night. It's because last night I was on the computer typing up something for work and I ended up coming across some photos of him and another woman having sex! They ... (229 words)

For 4 years, I've been seeing a guy who has a gf, and I want more commitment. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm sort of seeing/sleeping w/ a guy that i think i'm in love w/ but the problem is he has a girlfriend for six years and we have been cheating on her for 4 years already. it has come to a point that that i almost broke it off w/ him but i really couldn't do it, just the ... (253 words)

Questions regarding college and the gay community...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

18 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm about to start college really soon and I am very excited! Anyways, I'm a guy in the closet and I really want to come out because I want to start dating and meeting other gay people. The reason I can't at the moment is because I come from a very traditional Italian/Greek, ... (573 words)

Ex is coming back around and I've fallen in love with him again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello everyone, Well my problem is my ex husband has come back into mine and my childrens life after being gone for 5 yrs abroad with another women. He is engaged to her and they have a son. But for the past month he has come to see me and the kids once a week... (210 words)

When and how will I find a guy to take my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

18 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, virginity question for you all. I'm 17 and freakin out because I haven't lost it yet. I've had 2 proper but relationships but I wasn't with them long enough to go any further than kissing/feeling, one relationship when I was 15 and one when I was 16 so before you say I'm ... (157 words)