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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to call him but should I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid: After exchanging emails with a guy I met online for about a week, I gave hime my phone number. He waited approximately 3 days and called me on his lunch break at work. Our conversations were brief but pleasant. I told him that I enjoyed talking with him, and he... (125 words)

BF spending lots of time helping ex-wife during her cancer. Where should I draw the line?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone , well i ve been wit my boyfriend 5 yers now , things were going well up untill his ex wife caught cancer . now it feels like he s more interested in her an wants to help her out an is running up an down to hospitals , he also has two kids . she was a very abusive ... (169 words)

The fiance and pornographic material

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question and maybe someone could answer for me. I am engaged to a wonderful man. It took us awile to get where we're at right now. I moved in with my fiance back in January. He gave me his email password to show me that I could trust him. One day he left his email ... (499 words)

How do I handle it when my gf ignores and then hurts my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My gf and I are long distance a the moment and we are meeting in august. I'm stressed because I feel like when we aren't on the phone and just texting she acts completely different, almost like an asshole. If I text her long messages trying to get out my feelings she acts so ... (110 words)

What does a guy mean when he still wants to be close to you but refuses to have sex?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What does a guy mean when, after many years of chasing after you and making out that all he wants is sex with you or something of a sexual nature, he one day says 'I don't want to have sex with you,I know it may be hard to understand but I don't.' But still he insists on asking ... (74 words)

Does my boyfriend's friend have a crush on me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well basically I have a boyfriend who I've been with for a long time. I get on fine with his friends. One friend in particular who has liked me previously (although he didn't tell me this) seems to talk to me a hell of a lot. Mostly online. We talk about anything and ... (147 words)

My friend keeps teasing me with "I know something about you that you don't know." What is his problem??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm a 17 year old male and I've known this guy since like 6th grade but we've recently been great friends for like 2 years. We are great friends you could say. We smoke together we get drunk together. He invites me to go to walmart with him. To get his car washed with ... (334 words)

Why is my ex, who is married, is trying to get back in contact with me, when I am also married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I fell in love with a guy in school a couple of years back. He liked me but found it very hard to commit. We didn't actually date. Now I'm married, he's married, but he's always trying to hook up - I think. Three times he requested me on fb which of course I declined. I also ... (96 words)

Should I tell my best friend I am in love with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

20 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Please help me :( So i am 15 turning 16 next month. I am starting to fall in love for the second time now, butt this time, Its deeper, this girl is like no other. She is beautiful, kind, nice, etc etc. She has everything a good guy wants from a girl. Shes got it all. I am ... (488 words)

How do I break my trust habits from my previous relationship and try to be all I can for my BF now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok guys here is my problem. I have a new bf and we have been together for about 3 months now. I have built up some bad defensive habits from my previous relationship and idk how to break them. Like asking why he is going to friends house or holding everything in when he asks ... (155 words)

Almost ended up having sex with an 18 year old guy. Some of my friends tell me that I shouldn't go near him or talk to him again while others say I need to talk to him. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Last night I went to a party and there were quite a few people I knew there, and yes this was your typical teenage party with drink but I and the person in question weren't drinking. My friends brother was at the party (he just turned 18 a week ago and I'm 15) and I do have a ... (285 words)

BF's fatigue affecting his erections. He took Cialis and now there is a different issue. How can I bring this up without hurting him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a lathe operator at a mill and works extremely long hours. His job is demanding and drains a lot of his energy. Sometimes this affects his ability to get an erection. I don't really worry about this; it's not frequent and if it happens, it happens. He seems to ... (469 words)

My boyfriend says I'm like a comedy show

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age - My boyfriend says I am a comedy sitcom show and that I am funny....He says this especially during an argument or after an argument. Why does it make me feel bad? Should I? I'm feeling like I'm a joke to him. He is the emotionally verbally abusive type of guy. .I plan on... (78 words)

Embarrassed to tell girl I am a virgin - Should I be?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

20 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a 23 year old virgin and couple of weeks ago I meet this chick and for whatever reason she thinks I'm awesome :) anyway we've started to hop into bed and fool around but haven’t gone all the way yet. The thing is she doesn’t know I'm a virgin, she's never asked and ... (295 words)

I moved in with my boyfriend but I feel homesick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello i am 21 years old and got a wonderful boyfriend called Rick who i love. recently i moved with him when he got a promation to Wales. i love it but the problem is that im feeling homesick. i recently told Rick he it it was normal as this the first time i had`nt had my ... (81 words)

Any advice on having a good time without having sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sleeping at my boyfriend's house on Friday. We are having a movie night and he asked me if I wanted to stop over. At first I was a bit apprehensive as we haven't been going out very long (just over 2 months), but it is a very fast paced, passionate relationship nothing ... (240 words)

I missed meeting this guy but didn't give my number. Should I pass it along through my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help! I am interested in this guy who I have met a couple of times. I rarely see him and do not have much opportuntity to bump into him. The last time I saw him he stopped by my place of employment to see me and we chatted for 30 mins. I told him I would be out at ... (198 words)

Guy insists on kissing me but then admits he loves my friend. Huh?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I am abit confused, this boy who has liked for about 2 years who always sends me flirty texts with lots of kisses, i do/did have feelings for him but im not quite sure now he makes me laugh and i liked him because he tret me right, but he has also been sending ... (162 words)

BF heading off to camp - should I be worried about him running into cute girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is getting sent to summer math camp....he gets to come back to his house everyday at 1 but has to get up around 8am. i'm afraid he is going to meet any other cute girls there or any other people he might like....PLUS there he is about the ONLY guy there except this ... (133 words)

He broke up with me to 'hibernate' but still cares about me... what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am very confused now..my bf of a year and a half broke up with me a month ago after having a series of arguments. Basically he was sort of depressed about his life and so he was aloof and cold to me sometimes, but I didn't really know what is going on inside him so I ... (290 words)

BF FB account getting hacked - he suspects me instead of his ex, though I think there is more to it. What is going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of over a year and I live together. His ex was kind of sneaky and would go through his phone and emails and use his passwords or hack into his accounts. But, she would admit to it all eventually he says. Well, early in our relationship there was some weird ... (434 words)

BF blames me for his temper. He blackmails me to stay with him. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - actually I have a serious matter my ex boyfriend used to abuse me mentally physically verbally and emotionally ,,I put restraint order on him and yet he violated it after few weeks then now he contacts me every time we break up after a huge trouble like him slapping or calling ... (521 words)

No money for food and bills - I think my husband may be gambling again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i cant remember if i've asked this question before but i need some advice. I've been married for 6 months and have a 18month old baby boy. Since around September last year we have had money issues, to the point where we cant afford food or electricity. we are having to ... (842 words)

I have a legit interest in Goth/Emo and am tired of the posers who do it just to fit in. Any opinions on Goth-emo?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Around the age of 14 I gradually became gothic (almost 17 now). My way of think, the way I view things, and my interests changed and eventually I began to change my appearance. I am in love with ancient gothic art and architecture. I enjoy reading gothic literature. I'm always ... (372 words)

Co-worker taking a lot of interest in me. He has a girlfriend - what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - soo...it's been 2 years that i've met my collegue and work together very closely on the same projects and also travel 2gether a lot. i started to like him however he has a girlfriend for about 3 years. latetly he's saying that his relationship is not at its best and thinks of ... (122 words)

Not in the mood for sex after childbirth. What am I going to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been with my husband for alittle over 3 years. we have a 19 month old boy and after he was born my sex drive has gone from waking him up to make love to pushing him off me when he wants to. what am i going to do?... (49 words)

I'm going crazy thinking that my boyfriend is cheating on me. Is he??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2.5 years and we live together. There has been no change in his behaviour or mood towards me which would make me suspect anything is wrong. Just a few weeks ago, he was showing me an email from a family member via facebook and you can see ... (546 words)

Is this normal or is something wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i need a quick help plz i had my period on the 8th june 2011 which lasted up to a week and then i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend but the next day i took the morning after pill and after 6 days of taking the pill i woke up with heavy blood and cramps. is this ... (77 words)

Can wife's medication cause her sex drive to increase?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (M)

age - hi my wife has been on anti depresent medication since christmas. they have made here feel good however during the time she was on them her sexual behavour changed and she just loved it. not that i an complaining as it was me who cuased her to be on the medication but s... (88 words)

Is it normal for guys to put their friend before their girlfriend sometimes?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Hi. My question is quite a general one. I have noticed sometimes that my bf puts his friends/friend before me. Is this normal or is this a sign of immaturity? There is one friend in particular, typically I dont get on with him, there is no love lost between us and my bf sees ... (201 words)

She wants to be friends but I like her; what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

20 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I need to move on and fast because I love my neighbor but she loves me as a brother and since we live a minute away from each other I want to stay friends but its hard because I have feelings for her. Yesterday was terrible I was staying with her at the beach and she invited ... (444 words)

I'm the middle child and my parents play favourites

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My parents play favorites. I am the middle child with an older sister whose going into college and a younger brother whose going into 4th grade. My brother and sister always get treated better than me, when im probably the easiest child they have. I'm smart and I always do what ... (437 words)

My partner broke up with me after his mum passed away, and because of his daughter's unreasonable demands. Will he come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my partner finished with me (well said he needed space three weeks ago to apparently find his identity- there is a big age gap but that's not the issue). I couldn't accept that so he changed his locks and email passwords etc. I went round 8 days ago to get some clothes ... (492 words)

Will I be able to choose what contraceptive pill I go on when I visit the doctors?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, just a small question here, I am going the doctors tomorrow to ask to go on the contraceptive pill, and I was wondering how it works.. Do I get a choice of which contraceptive pill I get to take? Or will they just prescribe me a certain kind? Sorry if this seems like ... (70 words)

Are there people who don't want relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Are there people out there, or do you know of any, that don't want relationships? I know of people who don't want children, but even they want a relationship. But are there someone who don't even seek companionship beyond friendship? I'm not thinking about those with a men... (172 words)

How do I tell my sister in law that her husband is cheating on her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (M)

age - My sister in law's husband (My wifes sister) is cheating on her. He is 50 and he is didling their once babysitter who is in her early 20's. They have 4 kids (3 through 18). He told me he was going to stop but I have confirmed again it is still going on. For 18 months now. My ... (102 words)

Where can I actually meet someone for potential dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been single now for well over a year and while I am not miserable and moping about it (I am enjoying life as it is) I do really want to be dating and ideally meeting someone for another relationship (my previous lasted 8 years). Trouble is I just don't meet anyone and I'd ... (245 words)

Do you think he cares? Or is it over for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So i put a question on end of last week and just want an update and opinion, Here is what i wrote last week I am 23 years old and have a 23 months old daughter with a lad i was with for nearly 4 years. Sadly my grandad died of cancer 11 weeks ago and i have been grieving... (571 words)

Great relationship but 2 big problems.....what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months and its gohng great we have so much in common we both have a child from a previous relationship and they get on great too, he spends most of his wk with me because he works nearby and on a wk end he has his boy and hes got his own place ... (317 words)

Should I talk to her again? Would this upset her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - It is really hard to follow my heart because I am torn between two big emotions in my head. I have no idea what to do with her. I want to talk to her but I don't know how to face to her anymore after everthing happened between me and her. We don't see each other very often now ... (135 words)

He went from speaking to me every day to nothing! What is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts and uncles.... Really need advice about a man. Where shall I begin...will give you the short version. Met guy I'm 31, his 27. Liked him. Usual stuff doesn't do relationships! Find out was in a 5 year one long time back which he wasn't happy in and other issues about ... (148 words)

How do I deal with the fact my ex has moved on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - About 3 months ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. We had a long distance relationship for about 8 months of it, and I finally broke it off because of drug issues/long distance insecurities/continuous fighting and a need for space. At the time it felt like the right ... (296 words)

I know I should wait to have sex, but I think I'm ready.....is this the right choice?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and like other teen girls i think about sex A LOT and i think im ready to have sex with my boyfriend but im scared of the pain or what could happen if we (Im) not carefull......you might think "oh all he wants is sex" not really i told him i wanted to wait until i was 18 ... (158 words)

I regret breaking up with my ex....what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So 2 days ago i had a really vivid dream that i loved .....about my ex, every time i woke up i would keep going back to sleep hoping it would never end and i was really sad when it did. In the dream I was like 22 or something and I was really pregnant and married very happily ... (577 words)

Who should I believe? Is he still with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating about a month now, The first week of our relationship, i hear rumors About him still together with his ex. My cousin shes friend with his ex, so i asked my cousin to ask the girl if she was still together with my boyfriend, my cousin asked ... (305 words)

Will he try and break it off again if we get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - we got together. The week later he cheated. I didnt know. I was neglecting him cuz i missed my ex. So i believe thats why he cheated. I didnt know he cheated until i broke up with him for different reasons. Now....he wants me back....and he says hes sorry and wants to prove he ... (162 words)

Why cant she give me my space for more than a month?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my ex girlfriend broke up with me a little over 2 months ago and a month after the break up, she started dating someone...So that was when I decided to not talk to her until i was over her...A week after i told her that, she tried to contact me and asked me when i would talk ... (184 words)

What am I to him? Why did he lie about having a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am super confused and i need relationship advice now so here is my scenario: I recently started going to a new high-school and i met a new guy. I have never been the dating type so i was a little skeptical at first. We kept our distance from each other for the first six ... (999 words)

How fast should we be moving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I have just started dating a guy who is awesome to me so far. I am 21, and he is 24. We met through mutal friends, and I made the "first move" (a simple goodnight kiss) on our second date. Just wondering how fast people around our ages usually go, when they're ... (126 words)

Living in a foreign country and about to return home, my ex has asked if I can buy her some jewellery which she will pay for - shall I buy it? Should I tell my wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I have been living in a foreign country for two years with my wife and plan to return to our home country soon. Yesterday, my ex surprised me with a call asking me to buy her some jewellery but made it very clear she would pay for it. I felt very un-comfortable and ... (121 words)

He had a secret Facebook account and was talking to a girl on there, but now I have opened my own account he says he cant trust me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I respond to an unfair comment about trust from my bf? The story goes like this: A couple of years ago I found out my bf had a secret facebook account. Not only it was secret, but he was talking to a girl in a very intimate and friendly way. She for some reason, ... (307 words)

Lies, lies. Should I cut him of my life for lying? Or can he change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently dumped my beloved boyfriend and eventually friend, because he has a bad habit of lying. He doesn't just lie when he needs to in pressure, but he just randomly lies about the most craziest things. Things that aren't important whats soo ever. He usually does this to ... (204 words)

He's been very obviously staring at my body for four years. People have made comment. What is his problem?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There's an older (married) guy who has been attracted to me for four years and has made it obvious. Unlike most guys, he is actually interested in me (not just my body) in getting to know the person I am. He never came up to me to talk or anything. People are aware of his feel... (342 words)

I need opinions on the way I approached her. Was my way too aggressive? Did I scare her away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

20 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl who works out the same gym I do, and we were flirting visually (or at least I believe we were flirting as we often had eye contact), never mind it, one day as I was leaving the gym and she was arriving ,we usually work out at the same time, well, When I arrive ... (518 words)

Is a vibrator useful to women. Is the orgasm better with a vibrator?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do women who enjoy having sex and have a vibrator enjoy using it??? If you do, Do you get a quicker 'Orgasm than with your partner?... (27 words)

Is it OK to send a sympathy card to ex because their relative died?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi cupids, just a quick question. Is it okay to send a sympathy card to an ex (short term relationship) if you never met the deceased? I texted them regarding something else and they told me about a grandparent's very recent passing. I guess they didn't have to tell me that ... (132 words)

Does he sound like he is genuinely interested and respects me or is just leading me on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

20 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having an issue with this guy I really like. I have a feeling that he is Just leading me on and isn't genuinely interested or cares about me. He will ask me to hang out with him and wants to flirt. He has even asked me to kiss him and sit in his lap and told me he likes me ... (170 words)