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writes:hi, I know you get this a lot but I really need help please, I have been with this guy for a long time about five years and this last periode I felt that he is not the same I tried calling him asking what's wrong I don't get an answer from him he said that nothing is wrong and just leave me with my questions, I need him so much but he doesn't seem to care no more, yesterday I sent him a message, I told him that we need to talk and if I didn't get anything from him by today I will change my number and disappear from his life, I still didn't get anything from him, I don't know what to do, I'm tired of calling him I don't wanna force him to do anything I just need answers..
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 June 2011):
 you told him if you didn't hear from him you were gone.
You didn't hear from him because he's taking the chicken way out to end the relationship... he's TELLING you with his ACTIONS what he wants... you need to listen to his actions.
You need to be gone.
It sucks to have no closure... I'm sorry.
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (14 June 2011):
 I think maybe its time to let go. He might be scared to face you because he is not feeling the same about you but he doesn't want to hurt you. He doesn't realize that he already has hurt you. If you keep pushing him to get answers it will only push him further. Let him be for a little while.
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