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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm getting other people together...but what about me?? Will I never find the right person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what is wrong with me!? Three of my best friends are seeing a guy and i recently just set up my other best friend with one of my friends and things are turning out great with them! And then i set up another of my two friends and again, it's great. And I'm really... (334 words)

We haven't had sex yet -- what's with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, sorry if this is abit long, but i could really use peoples ideas on this issue, because its starting to affect me... i met my current boyfriend, in January this year, we went on a date together and i realised, we got on really well had quite a bit in common and i rea... (679 words)

Is she leading me on for something more even though she knows we're friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I went to a club with a group of friends and one of them was a woman. The group was dancing but later on me and the woman ended up dancing, just me and her. We haven't known each other for very long (about a month) and she started grind dancing which she hasn't done at all that ... (95 words)

We're in a finite relationship due to our age gap, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i'm 18 and live in the uk. I have been in a relationship with a man who is now 50 for two years. My question is regarding what to do because we're in a finite relationship due to our age differences yet i have really fallen for him and he has now told me he loves me!... (58 words)

Shall I keep trying to get hold of him or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok big help hear please peopel, Ive met this guy who i have yet to meet i have wrote about him on hear b4 about him sending a text saying how much he likes me etc Anyway we where ment to meet today but as i know hes worried about meeting me incase i dont like him, i sai... (166 words)

I think I might be gay, but how can I be sure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have 2 children and left my partner after he ran off with someone else and since i have left him i have been wondering if im gay. I have a few gay freinds and i really fancy one of them, i also went out on a night out with a freind of a freind and we had such a good night ... (152 words)

Please give me some advice, help me understand why he broke it off!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with a lebanese guy for over 2 yrs. we met on a dating site for age gap relationships. hes now 25 and im 43. after only a few weeks we knew it was going somewhere and we have been inseparable. hes christian lebanese and im from the uk. hes from ... (943 words)

Do you think she just really enjoyed my company or could she be interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - so i've met this badass chick at work. she just started at my workplace about a month ago. since then, we've started spending more and more time together. my question is how to tell if she's interested. she would try and synchronize our lunch breaks to where we would go toge... (272 words)

It's embarassing to still be shy in the bedroom! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

- hi there, im 21 and me and my parnter have been together for quite a while now. i really enjoy sex with him but i want to take it to a new level. we've talked about role play and S and M but i get really shy when it comes down to it. i really want to please him and myself ... (101 words)

Are these signs that are telling me that he will remain in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What can be consider signs?.... Ok so I'm in the process of moving on from my last love, I'm seeing someone (not working) doing my own thing, etc... Anyways, I had this thing before during the time him and I were on/off relationship, it's gonna sound crazy but, ok so everytime ... (280 words)

Why is he still texting or sending messages via facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend who I caught some feelings for, he has made it a point to tell me he doesnt want anything serious I am fine with it. I cut communication off with him but he continues to text or send messages via facebook. what the heck is his problem ???? ... (53 words)

Are they my friends if they ignore me? I feel they push me away. But they make a fuss over this other girl.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Today wasn't exactly wonderful for me. My birthday is coming up this week, I'm so excited, and my one friend's birthday is the day after mine, so our friends said that they were going to throw a party for both of us, which was great because I haven't had anyone celebrate my b... (220 words)

I get frustrating waiting for my LDR guy to sign in. Am I being too needy or is my attitude reasonable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a LDR My boyfriend spends a lot of time doing things online, like reading articles, playing games, etc. etc I am fine with that, but it bothers me that I know he's online the whole time but usually doesnt sign in till the evening, at a specific time every day. I feel... (107 words)

I love my boyfriend, so why am I unhappy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The title says it all, really. I've been with my boyfriend for coming up 2 years now, although I've known him since I was 14/15... we were always really close. Not best friends, but he was always there to talk to, whether I was happy or sad, cheerful or grumpy. We never... (457 words)

Which girl should my friend marry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My friend asked me to advise him to settle with one girl. He has two girl friends,One loves him so much, she calls him every minute, even check on him at home any time and help his family at times to cook or washes his closes. The other girl friend, calls him twice a week, vi... (148 words)

What is an orgasm? And how do I achieve one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - what do i do to experience an orgasm, i would like a clear defination of what orgasm really is. pls help me... (22 words)

Why can't I get over myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :) I think i'm frigid. I'm 16 years old, never kissed anyone, never tried to kiss anyone or go further. I have had opputunities, and i just dont feel confident enough when it comes down to making move. I'm not ugly, and i've had boys come up and ask me out before, but i... (108 words)

How do I help my adult daughter?

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6 June 2011 (F) age - I feel very confused about how to help a grown up daughter. She is quiet responsible, but she had some tough family times behind her. She lost her sibling to suicide, and it created many problems later on for the whole family. I was always worried about her,and now she ... (178 words)

Did I miss the relationship train?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

6 June 2011 (F) age 41-50 - It would be wonderful to get some insight regarding how to get over something. I would like to share my life with someone, but I have been feeling a little down. I have always had guys as close friends and never got into a serious relationship with a guy because I saw th... (544 words)

What if I've ruined my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I can accept an honest answer, but it takes a lot of courage to write this question because I realize how painful an answer I don't want to hear could be and how painful the truth could be. I am a teacher and I absolutely love it, but there are times when I feel that I had ... (462 words)

I think my boyfriend is bored of having sex with me - any suggestions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Hi there. Me and my bf love each other and we still have regular sex - about twice a week. We have been togther 17 months. We used to have sex A LOT, we were always at it and we have been quite kinky together too, experimenting with role palying and S and M. The thing is, I'm ... (207 words)

Does the fact that we haven't met mean he's not into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been talking to this guy for about a month. He has texted me every single day first, I have only texted him about a couple times first without him initiating it first. He has done most of the calling I have only called him a few times out of the multiple phone calls ... (179 words)

With a married man...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm with a married man...he's five years older than me, he's very cute and I really like him. It all started from when he came to my house to fix the meter, he told me to get some fuses and plain panels, he wrote them down on a paper and he wrote his mobile number down as ... (250 words)

I like my best friend, he likes me. The problem? I have a boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I posted a few months ago that I had a boyfriend, but had developed feelings for my best friend. After months of torturing myself because I didn't know how my best friend felt, and because I felt bad for my boyfriend, I decided to tell my best friend everything. It ... (149 words)

I think I might have commitment issues!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well Recently, I've noticed that everytime I go out with someone, when I start getting to know them and they start getting to know me, I start to back out a little. It happened in my previous relationship. I felt we were moving to fast so I felt I had to brake up with him. And ... (115 words)

To all the men, is that fact that I don't have or don't want any children off putting?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - To the men out there, please be brutally honest: If you were single and looking, and met a woman who was in her mid 30s and had no children and claimed to not want any, would you think she was a loser/mentally ill? I ask because I have zero desire to have children, do not... (138 words)

Suffering from performance issues and low self-esteem...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 22 year old male from TX. I've had relationships with women in the past, but never went past kissing, as pathetic as that sounds. People are trying to break me and say I'm gay. I admit, I am aware I do have an attraction for men, but I can't see myself living gay, because ... (198 words)

Is it possible for a man to love multiple woman the same way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend of 10 months and we are in a long distance relationship. After two months dating he left for overseas. Before he left I saw emails between him and two other girls. Supposedly they use to date. I questioned it and he said it means nothing and he will stop the ... (552 words)

How can I make my parents understand that I'm happy and safe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a USA citizen and Floridian, but right now I'm teaching English as a foreign language in Mexico. You hear all this terrible stuff about Mexico but it's completely taken out of context. I haven't seen any violence, I have friends I love to pieces, I have met people who are ... (1224 words)

Why is the woman to blame for an affair?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Can everyone tell me why it is that the woman often gets all the blame when she has an affair with a married man? People tend to look down on the woman and in the end her reputation is ruined and she is called all kinds of names etc. But the guy who cheated is not affected ... (69 words)

How can I fall back in love with my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

- Okay, so I’ve been married for two years, we’ve been together for nearly six. He’s a great guy – he really loves me and I know it. He’s about to turn 29, I’m about to turn 25. Here’s the issue… We used to have a problem with him going out and hooking up with guys off Craigsl... (862 words)

I'm in love with a much younger woman......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Let me start by saying that I'm not a native English speaker, so, I'm really sorry if you find some spelling/grammar mistakes. I hope you can at least understand me. I'm 30 and I'm in love with a 19 years old girl. She studies medicine and she is all I could ever ask for in a... (267 words)

Can anyone tell me what I'm doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So... My lovelife hasn't exactly been the best... My first girlfriend I dated for two years and she had intimacy problems. She said she'd rather play video games then hold my hand and we never kissed. After two years of dating, I thought if i remained committed it mig... (490 words)

I want to ask him out, but I know he's broke

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do. I recently met this guy, and i want to ask him about going on our first date. He said he might be able to meet this Wednesday, but he hasn't had much money lately. I feel funny about asking him about going out since he hasn't had much money, and i'm not ... (92 words)

Why does he prefer to masterbate instead of have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age - Can anyone tell me why a man would rather masturbate than be with a woman? I'm attractive, I'm maybe 10 pounds over weight which I don't think is a big deal...I go up and down 10 to 15 pounds every year, in summer the weight comes off. It's not as though he has a perfect body ... (232 words)

Not sure when to tell my son or ex about new engagement

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

6 June 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I'm not sure what to do here...I am divorced and recently got engaged to a new partner who is my soul mate. I have a teenage son who was introduced to her about 4 months ago. He likes her, but had a somewhat rough time dealing with the divorce and all the changes it brought, ... (230 words)

Is it wrong to look, but NOT touch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I happen to have a wandering eye. I don't cheat but I do look at a girl if she's my type. My type is a girl who is thick in all the right places. Mostly in the legs and ass. My girlfriend is definitely my type. If I'm talking to another girl that just so happens to be my type, ... (154 words)

Does this sound like premature ejaculation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, i have never had sex in my life,but i ave been mastubating.late last year,i got involved with this girl who use to come to my room and so i found my self almost entering her,but before then she played with my organ and i fingered her also,so i tried entering... (115 words)

I am so upset at his swearing and name calling that I really don't think I want to be with him anymore.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was frightened of my partner driving fast last night as it was raining heavily and dark and he got angry as he was tired. He knows I hate it when he drives at the upper limit as I was in a bad accident in my teens in the rain. He was so angry he told me I was behaving like a ... (215 words)

What should I do to get over her, or to get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I am 16 years old. I have been through a lot recently and I need to know how to get over this girl. Me and her were dating for 1 month, we knew each and were talking for about 3 months. In that time she became my world, I cared about her so much. I would wake up and ... (345 words)

He has stopped contacting me - has he stopped caring, or is he just too afraid to speak to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - When a person just stops contacting you,does that mean they don't care about you, or could it mean that they do care, but they are afraid to speak to you, and possibly don't want to talk incase they upset you, or incase they get upset themselves ?. This guy i was seeing hasn't ... (223 words)

How can I help change her self-loathing and get our sex life back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi this is my situation. I have been with my fiance for 7 years. Over this period my girlfriend has put on around 5 stone and had we have had a wonderful baby boy. The weight gain has not affected how attracted i am to my fiance i still think she is sexy and a wonderful person. ... (155 words)

She wasnt interested but now it looks like she might be changing her mind, but what should I talk to her about when I call her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - There is this girl i told i love sometime last year, then she said she was with someone and secondly she wont like to have any affair with someone not of the same tribe with her, so i relaxed, but kept on calling her on normal ground . Recently it seems she is singing a dif... (101 words)

Do you think he likes me, or are we just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently re-met a guy I knew 20 years ago through Facebook. At first I wasn't that interested, but as we have been catching up, I am majorly crushing out on this guy. We swapped numbers, and sometimes send flirty texts, and often IM each other on FB. We also sometimes chat ... (546 words)

I cant find the courage to end this relationship for good.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Well im still having problems with my bf who i've been with for 2 years and 4 months. During those 28 months, he cheated 4 times that i've seen, probably more behind my back, he mistreats me, he's disrespectful, when we're having problems he doesn't want to talk about them, ... (371 words)

Why is he not interested in sex? And how do I tackle this issue with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for three months but we have only had sex twice! He doesn't seem in the least bit interested in having sex with me yet he tells me all the time how attractive I am and how happy he is with our relationship. I have no idea how to discuss this... (138 words)

We dated in 3rd grade but he is not interested in me now, is there a way to get him to like me again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy but he says he does not like me. but we 'dated' in 3rd grade so is it posible to get him to like me if so how?... (31 words)

Questions about relationships........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so i got a few questions about relationships. Have you ever dumped someone for being clingy and came back? How would you show them that you have changed i understand you TRULY but im taking steps to change? I have gone Complete no contact meaning no facebook. I also end... (196 words)

He now hates me and wants nothing to do with me, even though I didnt do anything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys... here's the deal... I believe this guy was looking for a reason to blow me off... we made plans on Friday to hang out and then he switches up at the last moment...as a result I got mad and turned my phone off and went to sleep. When I awoke and turned my phone on he'd ... (197 words)

How do we get back into having sex frequently? And how do I reach orgasm faster?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there. So me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 9 months now. I have been with 13 guys sexually before him (i know its a lot) and only one of them ever gave me an orgasm. I like having sex with my boyfriend but a lot of the time i just cant be bother. i am... (250 words)

How can I be like the pretty girls? Do I have to fix something to be like them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I always get discriminated because people think I'm ugly. People think I'm of mixed ethinicity because of how I look like. I'm naturally tanned and people think I don't look like the ethnicity I'm supposed to be. People my ethnicity are 'racist' towards me because they thought ... (139 words)

How can you be too clingy in a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear all, I was recently dumped for reasons that included in me being "too clingy". I don't know how this is possible as when your in a relationship your meant to be there for each other. Its left many questions in my mind those of which won't be answered by my ex. Please... (76 words)

If he was not interested...then why would he keep contacting me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - 8 months ago I started chatting to a man on the internet. I am 23 he is 35. We have become good friends during that time and did admit our attraction to each other. At fisrt he would contact me almost every day, and then it slowly died down to a couple of times each wee... (240 words)

I love my boyfriend but I don't want to have sex with him! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend loves me but he wants to have sex with me and i don't want to, what should i do with my boyfriend? although we can't break up because I LOVE HIM... (33 words)

My mom's choosing her lover over me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom's choosing her lover over me? I can't reason out why she's doing this. She'll only come to realise that she's wrong for doing that because love is blind. One day, when it wears out, she'll probably start thinking of me. How could she blame me for all her relationship ... (260 words)

At times I want him back, and then other times I'm hesistant.....what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy guys i have been having a tough time as of late and i've had so many opinions on this i'm feeling a bit stuck so i'm hoping i can come to some conclusions on here. I broke up with my boyfriend of five months about a month and a half ago because we were arguing a lot in the ... (506 words)

My girlfriend won't return the favor?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, So basically what is happening is that my girlfriend won't return the favour. I go down on her to please her whenever he asks, but when I ask her to return the goods she says, I don't feel like it, or, when it's dark. I know penises aren't the most appetizing thing... (161 words)

Did fate bring us back together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - 1st post. Here goes.....(deep breath) So in 2007 I registered on a website to meet women of my age. A random girl gave me a glowing (yet conservative) compliment and I proceeded to converse with her based on that. We spent ridiculous amounts of time chatting and me... (405 words)

Husband alone in car with female co worker

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age - My husband doesn't have a car to get to work a female co worker has given him a ride from work and by his own admission they stop for her to pay a bill.. she has picked him up at 5am for work should I be concern? Some times i can take him and pick him up not often it will be ... (69 words)

Husband emotionally empty and I'm incredibly lonely

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a picture perfect life. I have been married 12 years (together for 20) to a handsome man who makes a good living. We have 2 great kids. We live in a nice house in a nice neighbourhood. I am attractive and have a great social life with lots of friends. The problem is ... (197 words)

Would emailing him seem too desperate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well, last week I've finally talked to the guy I have been admiring for the past few months but stupidly I forgot to grab his information because I was in a hurry. I was able to find his e-mail through the university website. It wasn't difficult since our e-mail just uses ... (91 words)

I want once a week sex but he has a low sex drive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just returned from a week-end away with my boyfriend of 2 years. We are very loving and cuddly towards each other and get on really well except for the sex side of things. I make a real effort to look my best, going to the gym, keeping myself slim etc and he says he ... (331 words)

Is she going to call? How long do I wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Well this is my story me and my ex-fiance broke up about a year ago, but still tried to work things out talking on the phone but we just could not work it through. We broke up due to many issues we had in our relationship, mainly trust issues and immaturity issues that i had ... (368 words)

What does it mean when a guy officially wants you to meet his friends?

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6 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy I've been talking to for a month asked me to go his birthday dinner on Tuesday and that he was 'excited for me to meet his friends'. But it's odd because on our first date, I met like 3 of them, and on our 3rd date I met another 3. I'm 16, and he just turned 17. We ... (196 words)

Always a Step Ahead of Those Five Steps Behind.

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6 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a freshman in high school, and this year I've gotten a lot more feminine. I was a serious tomboy in middle school (I've always been a bit lazy, even now) and this year I actually started wearing earrings, and... (Oh my God, wait for it!) Female clothes! No more Nintendo ... (446 words)

I betrayed the trust of my boyfriend in the bedroom. How can I find his forgiveness?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I of 2 years have been experimenting in the bedroom over the past few months. We started with him, at my request, being more and more aggressive with me, i.e., holding me down. Then I asked for him to tie me up, which after a lot of pushing and convincing, I ... (462 words)

Self help websites?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I was wondering if anyone knows of any self-help type websites? I've been struggling a bit recently with depression, as I am in a new country and a new university, and I don't really know anyone or have any friends. I know that things will look up eventual... (78 words)

Once we become exclusive in dating, I become a bitch!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I realized I am quite a bitch when it comes to relationships and wondered if anyone could help me out. Whenever I start dating someone it's mostly fine. Once we are exclusive, I am a bitch! I avoid the person, don't respond to texts/calls, and eventually break up with th... (244 words)

Is my boyfriend crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

6 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody.. I have boyfriend that lived with me for almost 4 years. I'm so confuse about him now. Is he a crazy? He like to talk a lot lately. Explain long way to get the point. And he like to fight with everybody using bad words. even his supervisor at work. He always think ... (256 words)

Not sure where this is heading or what to do in complex psudeo relationship

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6 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I've been dating this one girl for the past six months. She said upfront in January that she does not want anything "serious" because she is in nursing school now and is taking it very seriously. I used to think it was a bunch of bs, but she really is insanely busy ... (434 words)

How often do you give your boyfriend oral sex?

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6 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, just wondering how often all you ladies (or gay guys too!) give your boyfriend oral sex? (or guys, how often does your gf give you a bj?) I was talking to a girlfriend about this and she said she gives her boyfriend blow jobs every day whereas I give my guy one to the ... (109 words)

Why is it difficult to become a hotter man?

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6 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - How women out there, It's a bit of a mystery to me how to become a sexier guy. Do guys have to accept that it's a fact that, unless you're good looking and famous, you will only ever be hot in a niche kind of way (can't be hot to the majority)? Why is it difficult to be... (130 words)

Why do I feel so stupid for caring?

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6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I need advice... Ok so I'm going to try to make this short. Sooo last year I was real cool with this guy, I mean talkin on the phone hangin out, then we started having sex. So this went on for about 7/8 months. We both had feeling for eachother but wenever really t... (534 words)

We kissed - then she found out I was seeing someone. Is there a way past this?

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6 June 2011 (M) age 30-35 - One evening when i was in a bar with my friends this girl who i've known for nearly two years and used to talk to for hours everyday was also out. I've always liked her, literally from the moment i saw her! Well we were flirting a lot that night! In fact she initiated the ... (279 words)

I don't care if LDR fiance smokes pot...I just don't want to be lied to about it. How do I approach this?

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6 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a long distance relationship. My fiance and I have been engaged for almost 6 months. But he's been lying to me. Leaving him is out of the question; he's a great guy and I love him with all my heart. He doesn't want me to smoke weed, and he said he'd quit for me if I ... (212 words)

Broke up with BF. Now theres a big hole. How do I rebuild things?

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6 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having the hardest time right now with my fresh break up resisting calling him, to hear his voice, to hear his humor..he was my best friend and losing him has hugely dented my 'social' life. He was my person I told everything to, and I have no one even close to that bes... (233 words)

Married, but having a hard time keeping this crush under wraps. Scared it will get out in open. What do I do?

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6 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am happily married but feeling quite overwhelmed by my feelings for another married friend. I've been feeling this way for about 3yrs and i sometimes think he feels something also. The problem is i want to stop these feelings before he picks up on them. We have never spoken ... (130 words)

Friend keeps flirting with my man right in front of me. What can I do about this?

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6 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend knows I like this boy, who she's friends with. They've been friends for about nine months. Whenever I'm with the two of them, she makes a point of touching him as much as possible, and while she does it, she looks at me. She always randomly hugs him for five min... (143 words)

Can Someone pull these knives out of my back? 2 friends are muscling in on my love interest. What do I do?

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6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday TWO of my best friends stabbed me in the back! There's a guy that I have a huge crush on, we don't really talk that frequently, but when a whole group of us were going to hang out together, I was gonna make a move on this guy. So, I told my friends "Hey, I have a c... (367 words)

Can I get a squirting orgasm from mastrubation? Any advice?

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6 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I really could do with some help! I'm a 20 year old virgin (rare yes I know) lol. And I've recently got into a sexual relationship. Although we don't have "full" intercourse, any way, I recently heard about " femal squirting" although I know the basics about squirting, ... (84 words)

I want to do go out with my man but he remains fearful of going out. What can I do to help?

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6 June 2011 (F)

age - Hi all, I have been seeing a guy nearly 6 mos. We have been getting on really well and have a lot in common. He has been through a bad time in a past relationship about 5-6 yrs ago and was on antidepressents up to just a few weeks before I met him. He had'nt been out or ... (173 words)