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writes:My boyfriend can't last more than 5 minutes when we have sex.. It is so uncomfortable.. I love him dearly but I'm not satisfied. We've talked about it but all he can say is he can't help it.. He blames it on the size of his penis.. What should I do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2011): from your answers your bf seems to be either overweight or physically weak or he is under some stress bc he should be able to do it atleast 3 times in one night and he should be able to control how long he can last fairly easily in the 2nd and 3rd times.
I suggest eating the right foods and exercise to keep fit and relax and help him to open up if he is under stress.good luck.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (15 June 2011):
 Sounds like my sort of guy. Not a time waster. In a way its a compliment to you, but yes I can see how it would get irritating for someone who doesn't orgasm easily herself. Can he get you off by oral or at least fingering? That works for a lot of women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to you both.. now to answer your questions, everytime we have intercourse its short... I just don't understand why he can't last longer either time... we try other things but I just want him to last longer... He gets tired too quick and he only likes to do it one way..
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): Can't he do it more than once in a session? because normally the second time he can last much longer.
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reader, Drew21  +, writes (14 June 2011):
 Do you strictly have intercourse?
I know it's really common for many women not to be able to orgasm simply through intercourse.
My wife claims she doesn't think she has ever climaxed via simple intercourse. There always has to be more going on, either with my fingers or even a vibrator.
I know she loves it when i finger her, or give her oral sex.
Have you tried asking him to do more then just simple intercourse?
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