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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is a lie at the beginning of a friendship just as bad as a lie at the beginning of a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think a lie at the beginning of a friendship is just as bad and damaging as a lie at the beginning? of a romantic relationship? We've been talking and hanging out for only a few months. I started lying to a friend before I knew her, liked her as a friend because I di... (110 words)

He hoards things for too long. What can I do to encourage him to have clean out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - HI there guys, May I ask you something? I really need your thoughts about this situation I am in. I am married to a man far more older than I am, a 20-year gap. We've been married for almost 2 years now. He has a lot of things in his house that he does not want to throw or... (302 words)

She will not let me see my son even though I pay child support. I can't afford lawyers. How can I legally see my child?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend has banned me from seeing our son for no reason at all. I'm 22, she's 21 and our son has just turned 1. It all started when we broke up because I found out she cheated on me before she got pregnant. I moved out but said I'd always stick around to be a dad to ... (388 words)

We started off on the wrong note. Does he want me back or is he just messing me about?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met someone a couple of weeks ago on an internet date. As soon as I met him (and this wasn't all to do finding him physically attractive), I knew I liked him. I've been waiting a long time to feel chemistry with someone and I'd finally found it! However, as much as I liked ... (405 words)

How do I get over my ex? I'm struggling to do that. Still hurt and seething inside.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am struggling to get over my ex, we were together over 2 years. He squashed my self worth and lied so much that in the end I had no choice but to leave. The problem is I am extremely bitter! I'm full of anger, hurt and sadness when I think about what he put me through.... (178 words)

He will not leave me alone. Is this harassment? What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so my ex bestfriend was dating this guy a while back and the broke up with him because he was starting to act weird. i decided to get involved then befriended him. soon he started acting weird with me too and now he wont leave me alone. he keeps adding me and trying to talk... (90 words)

My ex ignores me completely, but I feel I need closure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend is currently going out with an ex of mine.They have been goin out since march and im still slightly in love with him but im happy that him and my friend have a good relationship and are happy with each other. When we broke up and it got a bit messy between as he cut ... (157 words)

She finally spoke to me again only to tell me she was dating someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - On Valentines Day, I told my friends which one of them I fancied, but at the time didn't really have a clue. Later that day, she got someone to tell me that she wasn't into me. Weeks later I started to have feelings for her, and had fallen in love with her. However, on the 10th ... (125 words)

Is my ex to blame for my low self esteem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well the situation is that I have been going out with this lad for just over 2 months. We were set up by our best friends who thought we would go well together. I was very badly hurt in my previous relationship with my ex which lasted 4-5 months. During this time it wasn't a ... (452 words)

Any name ideas for a little boy?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I am pregnant and we've recently found out it's a little boy... We're running out of ideas for baby names so... Could anyone help us coming up with some ideas? Thanks everyone!... (39 words)

Have any women on here gained breast size whilst on the pill?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I am posting in curiosity of the contraceptive pill and breast increase.. I have never taken any contraceptive pill before. I am 22, and I hate my breasts. They are very small, my boyfriend is not attracted to them, and I've become very self conscious of them to the ... (212 words)

How do you handle your ex moving on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i was with my ex girlfriend for 2 yrs and she has recently dumped me 2 months ago and started dating someone else a month after we broke up...I'm sure everybody has been in the situation where your ex moves on to someone else really quickly after a break up So, my questio... (81 words)

Is he just rubbing salt into my wounds?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi am just looking for some advice really and im hoping someone could help me. I have a male friend who ive been friends with for 8 years. Im 26 he is 30.Longstory short i met him through a friend, she was dating him at the time. I havent seen this friend in roughly 6 years (we ... (971 words)

To leave only to come back again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I go to a university in chicago and im a junior in college. I am about to study abroad this spring and my boyfriend is going to study abroad this fall. We have been together for about a year now and see eachother regularly during the summer. Im wondering if a relationship could ... (228 words)

Why doesn't my gf feel anything when I kiss her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (M) age 30-35 - my girlfriend says she does not "feel" anything when we kiss and when i try to make her nipples hard, what does this mean???!!???... (24 words)

I want to keep the baby but he wants an abortion!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello readers... I've recently found out that I am pregnant. I'm thrilled but really hurt at the same time. The father on the other hand is upset and want me to have an abortion. BIG PROBLEM, because I don't want to. I just don't understand how he kept going on like he wanted a ... (78 words)

What is it like having an abortion?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am about 5 weeks pregnant and i am going to have an abortion I dont know anyone who has ever had an abortion before Does anyone know what happens? Do they have to do a scan before hand? I just think if they do a scan i will want to see it and even though its only a dot j... (92 words)

He touched another girl's tummy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya. i've been with my boyfriend 3 years.. basically it was boyfriends 21st last night and i was invited to go out with him and his friends (which is very rare), but we went out. there was me, him, 3 of his lad mates and 1 girl. the girl was nice and i was talking to her, ... (181 words)

Out grown my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i have abit of a problem with one of my friends. As lovely as she is, i feel like myself and our other friends are out growing her. Basically we are all 25 years old and have had boyfriends, great jobs,etc but she has never really had anything. She has never been on a ... (131 words)

Am I gay or bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I do unusual things like being in nude masturbation I wanna reltionship thinking of man am i gay or bi?... (20 words)

Should I ask her if she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i posted a question yesterday but it got misinterpreted so here it is in a different way. so ive know this girl as a friend for 10 months i have liked her ever since i first met her. she has sort of given signs to say that she likes me but i haven't looked into them... (143 words)

Am I lucky to be rid of him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age - I met this guy on a dating site, im 64 and he is 52, he was into everything, ex heroin addict, women and children galore, cannibis, and lsd, but i accepted him as basically he gave the impression he was a kind guy, we split up last january, then we got back together in May,... (761 words)

LDR boyfriend refuses to talk about my miscarriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, I posted a while back about wheather to tell my long distance boyfriend that I'd had a miscariage. I didn't know I was pregnant and there was complications with the miscariage I was very ill. Of course I told him and ever since things have been a bit rough. He re... (210 words)

Disappointed in engagement ring, am I being selfish?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm interested in your opinions. My boyfriend was engaged before he met me. He bought her a very beautiful $7000 ring, for which he spent all his savings on. The relationship failed and she returned the ring. After us being together for over 3 years and talking about m... (462 words)

Is this mistake enough to end the relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - been dating with this guy for 2 months and were on MU by the 3rd month but basically he is a total stranger to me...recently we had argument regarding Trust since i dont know him that well and i texted a friend about my concern. And i sent it to him also. He felt bad with the ... (101 words)

I get the feeling he wants to kiss me and I want to kiss him back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age - We become a friend of a couple which are mutual friends of other friends I have known for along time. I have a very normal relationship with this guy, we talk, I like him but not anything crazy. But lately whenever we say goodbye I have a strong feeling that he wants to kiss ... (212 words)

My married friend helped me through a difficult time, and now he wants an affair with me...and I am too grateful to him to say no!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi He, a married nice,decent,clean,intellectual and matured adult underwent a grievous family problem for helping me out my severe troubles and bringing relief to me. His family was misguided by some outsiders and in spite of trying best in all possible ways, did not understa... (410 words)

Trouble with mom and dad. How can I help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Mum and dad are arguing. No one agrees who is right. Dad is violent (only shouting) and mum just cries. Only way mum can get her way is by refusing to cook for dad when he insults her, but he cant take his wife NOT being his servant. Theres 2 of us, sister is 13. He just ... (145 words)

Why is it when things are bad it gets physical? Well on my part it does. I need help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - After 1 year me and my soon to be wife ( less than 3 months away from the wedding) fight all the time. Now before I get into this way to deep understand what I am about to post most will not. When we fight I become very aggressive to her to the point I react by hitting or ... (199 words)

I've got low self-esteem.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I can't help but be bothered about self image issues and peoples opinions about me. My friends just made a huge montage of pictures and framed them in their front room. I've put on a bit of weight in the last couple of years and there are pictures of how much i've changed.... (107 words)

I want our group of friends to know about my husband's affair with another one of our friends!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Ugh. I posted a question April 19 regarding my husband's old secret that has destroyed a friendship and marraige both. In a nutshell, he cheated on me with a mutual friend, lied about it for years, and now thinks I should get over it and still be 'friends' with the cheaters ... (212 words)

How to know is it love or just caring or its just fancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Iknow this man ( he is married)about year and have , we got closed in the last 6 months, we got very closed as friends, he kept calling me via emails, phone calls and even long chatt at night. we both share every thing although we both realize how we are different. he saw me as ... (251 words)

GF lost respect for me, I dumped her, and now I am totally miserable.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I think I have never been that lost in my life. I've been with this girl during two years. We loved each other madly.We're both young (25) but our relationship was great: mature, affectionate and sincere. It was an euphoria. But these past weeks, or perhaps these pa... (386 words)

Not in love with wife, but lover says she wants to have child with her boyfriend, and no longer wants sex!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in quite a complicated relationship, let me explain: 1. I am a married man, no kids 2. In a relationship with a woman 7 years older to me who is living with another man. 3. We work toghether, earlier in the same team now in different teams but still interact on work... (467 words)

I don't want to meet his friends while I have a broken leg!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating my partner for 3 months and he has invited me to a friends wedding in 3 weeks time. The problem I have is that 2 weeks ago I broke my leg in a cycling accident. I feel so embarrassed, My whole leg is in a cast and it's been absolute hell. My partner has b... (306 words)

How can I get him to be less distant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have recently starting going out with this guy called Bob* I do like him but he is so distances he doesn’t hug me or anything, I think due to that I’ve started thinking about my last ex called Ash* I think about Ash at night the most considering that’s when we saw each other ... (127 words)

I don't have any close friends, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What is wrong with me? Or what is wrong in general with this? I have friends here and there, but not a solid group. I recently transferred to another college, so I am still in the process of forming close friendships. I feel like I always have to make the effort to spend time ... (229 words)

How do I avoid dating a serial dater in the future?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - When you date someone it takes maybe a year for them to show their true selves. Everything in the beginning is just then putting on their good side, so they can get laid. I miss they way my ex was at the beginning of teh relatiosnhip, not the actual person he really is. He i... (168 words)

Married for 6 months - now some disturbing things coming out about my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - After a drunken night of wine last night, a few things came out about my wife that I probably didnt want to hear. I have a big thing about honesty, as I have a fair few trust issues of my own, and after a few lies that she's came out with, I feel a bit hurt/confused. We've been ... (290 words)

Should we get back together or not? What would be his intentions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi dc, SO i have a question. my ex boyfriend(we'll call him bob.) (we dated for a year)and i broke up about 3 years ago. we were friends before that, and all of our best friends were pretty much the same people ( thats how we met). We broke up I don't even know why. Ever... (228 words)

Are my expectations too high?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - is this getting too serious. i am 20 yrs old never had a girlfriend ( i lie to some of my friends and tell them that i had some short relationships in the past) i am still a virgin (i lie about that to my close guy firneds as well). i am good looking and there are girls who ... (232 words)

I went to a strip club and my wife suspects. Should I come clean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my wife (dating and married) for 19 years now. We have had our ups and downs and during a down period (about 10 years into our relationship) I went to a strip club for the first time. I always had this bad idea about strip clubs and the people the frequent... (591 words)

Husband verbally and emotionally abusive. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 21 years old and met my husband half way through last year.. he was the most charming, handsome man id ever met and id prior had several really bad relationships.. when i met my husband, ive literally never been so happy in my life.. we were so in love that we married in ... (246 words)

Trying to blow off this girl. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i need a way to blow off a girl. i don't normally do these things. when im with a girl it is for the right reason which is love. so i intend to stay with her. among my guy friends i am the only one who is like that. the others just love girs for 2, 3 wks then blow them off. ... (466 words)

Everyone else I know is in a relationship. Why not me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I really need some advice. I have never in my life had a girlfriend and want to have a relationship. I want companionship in my life. I want to experience the closeness, kissing, cuddling, sex... I really feel behind the curve. It hasn't happened for me yet and I'm star... (412 words)

Friend and I interested in same girl though he doesn't know my feelings. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - there is this girl i like and im wondering why would she do this. we met a few times (call it dates) we talked shared interests alot of personal information about past life and bf's and gf's etc. one day after church we were havin lunch in this guest house which we were p... (413 words)

I'm losing my hair. Wife not very supportive. How do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 39 years old and my hair is really starting to recede and thin. It stresses me out. My younger brother's hair was even worse than mine, but he went out and got surgery to try to fix it. I am not sure I really want to go through the pain and the expense (not to mention ... (403 words)

Wife has suspicious browser history. Should I be worried of an affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I spend almost all of our time together. I set my work schedule so that I go in to work late. We usually spend our mornings together eating breakfast, running errands, and taking walks together before I head to work. She then takes care of her own work (she wor... (406 words)

How do I get his interest? I think he could be my life partner.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I love a guy and I need him badly in my life.I know he likes me but,not quite sure whether he loves me.I get the feeling that he's inspired only when I am around him but not other times.I need him to be my life partner.what should I do?... (50 words)

Strangely attracted to a girl not my usual type. She gets made fun of a lot an I'm afraid friends will turn on me to What now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay so theres this girl that i just met and she likes me and i think shes kinda cute but my friends dont they were making fun of her really bad even though i kinda liked her i admit shes not my usual type shes short and not as thin as my usual girls and her face is kinda wierd ... (143 words)

Should I try being a FWB? None of my relationships work out. Need help please.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - well ive recentley gotten out of two relationships the first i was with him for 2yrs. and loved him deeply but one day he just up an left without a text or call or a reason to him leaving .An i didnt know why he left i still to this day dnt know why he decided to leave. Anywho ... (280 words)

I want this to develop into something and I think both of us are too scared to try anything. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm digging this guy that I met online a couple of months ago. We've had three dates. The first two went really well and we seemed really into one another, but each just ended in a hug. Last night, he came over to hang out, watch movies, and play video games. We did just ... (248 words)

My boyfriend's co-worker offered to help us move. I don't want this convicted felon co-worker near me. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My Boyfriend is moving out of his apartment next week and told me today that a coworker has offered to help us move. The coworker is a convicted child molester. He molested and abused a 5 year old child. I sincerely do not want to be around this man. When my boyfriend told m... (319 words)

How can I keep this guy I like as close as he is now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi well I went to a dance with one of my guy friends and he started like holding my hand a little and stuff and it made me feel so good. He is really nice and sweet. I think I like him now but I don't know how to have him be as close to me as he has been. And since Monday is t... (97 words)

Is he not contacting me because I said something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i've met a guy a couple of weeks ago, and we went out... it was nice, so we decided to keep in touch (he lives in another city), talking via skype whenever we could. Our schedules don't match, but we managed to speak at least 5 times a week... the thing is, i have this policy... (238 words)

Is it really possible she can't remember why she hurt me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - a girl i have been dating (not for so long, 3 months) has been recently breaking our plans at the last minute. this last time, i got tickets to a show and she canceled again with a text msg a few hours before, I called her and she said she just didnt feel well. i didnt believe ... (210 words)

He hurts me so bad but I keep taking him back! How can I just break away from him for good??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles. I just recently took my lying, cheating, disrespectful, sneaky bf back. I love him so much that no matter what he do or has done to me, i always forgive him and take him back...regardless of the situation. He has done so much to me these 2 years ... (293 words)

Fetishes vs. Orientation - When do you know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

19 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Sexual Orientation Confusion Question (I am a male). I do not know if I have a Muscle fetish or if I am just gay. How can one tell? I am too afraid to jump of the sexual freedom cliff. I have went out with women and been aroused by kissing them. But on the flip s... (198 words)

Why am I only attracted to much older men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so heres the thing, I'm young (19), and basically I'm pretty much only attracted to men who are, on average, about thirty years older than myself (pretty much between the ages of 45-60). I've only ever been with guys my own age though... the oldest guy I've ever been wit... (409 words)

He's cancelling plans at the last minute. Can I trust him? We are dating but not official.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

19 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We planned to hang out on friday this whole week, and even talked about it last thing on thursday night. He wanted me to go at 7 after his basketball game, i said i can make it at 8 or 9. He said thats fine. And friday afternoon he called and said i dont think we can hang out, ... (170 words)