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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Please helppp! should I try to save my relationship or ended?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now. He is 36 years old and I'm 20. At the Beginning of our relationship everything was perfect, we used to go out to dinner, watch movies, go for walks at the park. We had our issues along in the relationship and its really sad because ... (335 words)

My job is being threatened because of my pregnancy, has anyone else been through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, currently I'm four months pregnant and I inform my job the doctor gave me a letter stating that I can't lift twenty pounds, no strenuous activity, and no exposure to toxins. So they told me they cant accommodate me. Now let me say, This i worked in a nursing home ... (230 words)

Depression has gotten worse now that my BF has broken up with me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has broken up with me, because I recently I have been stuck in a depressive episode, due to a load of family crap with my parents. Over the last 2 years I have had 2 nervous breakdowns, 8 different anti-depressants, counselling, therapy, life coaching, etc. hav... (263 words)

I'm interested in being more than friends. Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend and I like him a lot. I know that we would make a great couple. We are really good friends and our other friend as well as strangers say that we are or could be a great couple, but he has been through some stuff with his ex and I get it but do I let him know of ... (88 words)

What's the deal with guys and big boobs?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) age 30-35 - What is it about big boobs that guys like so much? I have small breasts, small waist and a big, round butt! My friends tell me I have a great body and that I should be proud, but there's something I don't get. I don't seem to receive that much attention from guys. I mean, sure, ... (399 words)

Legitimate trust issue or commitment-phobic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am almost 41 years old, never been married, never even close really. In the past, I tended to go from one girl to the next...break ups do litter my past probably more than others. All of my friends are married or have a marriage ofr two under their belts. Yes I have seen a ... (315 words)

How can I find my father who my mother tried in every way to exclude from my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a female, 46 years old, married with own family. I have a very weird relationship with my birth mother who refuses to discuss anything about my father to whom she was married to. As far as I can remember as a young child my mother's relationship with my father was tense ... (741 words)

Is his attitude to spacing out the sex to keep passion alive normal? Or is he lying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - umm my bf of a year doesnt have sex with me really often when i asked him about it he says that hes one of those guys who after a while the passion for sex with that girl fades and he doesnt want me to fade thats why he spaces it out. he shocked me the other week by us having ... (76 words)

I only see him fleetingly. Will my solution to get closer to this cute guy work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, there's this cute boy that I get to see every day for like... five seconds. That's all. We are PERFECT strangers, and because I really don't have the time to talk to him (my bus gets in basically at the same time as I see him), it's probably going to stay that way. Thin... (162 words)

What am I to make of his confusing approach to sex and our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here goes this might sound strange but it sounds strange to me too. sorry. ok i have a bf of 10 months, we are both going through rather difficult stages, i have family and work proplems and he has financial proplems and we are both pretty stressed out. well last month we... (205 words)

He really wants another baby, but I'm scared of getting sick again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Ageny aunts, I have been married for about four years and have a two-year old baby girl. I had hypremesis gravadirium throughout my first pregnancy and I have been to hell and back. Now my husband wants another baby, I'm scared to death of getting sick again and I'm not ... (82 words)

Is he being sincere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I hooked up with my guy friend when I was drunk. He was sober though and my best friends yelled at him for it (cause it was my first kiss and they thought he took advantage of me, which wasn't true). My best friend even slapped him in front of people! :( But instead of... (149 words)

His parents are driving us apart! How can I get them to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I make my boyfriend's parents like me? My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 1/2 months now, I'm really happy in the relationship, but I think his family is going to tear us apart. His family are all nice people, they really are, but his parents are incredibly ... (230 words)

He doesn't treat me that well, but I'm still so drawn to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there everyone, I have a question for all of you and any help will really be appreciated. Last year me and A were together for about 10 months on and off he even lived with me at one point but we both had our problems both drink and mental health. But I finally got to my ... (246 words)

What's the reason for her being so hot and cold?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So two years ago I started college and I went to my first classes and there didn't seem to be anyone special in them, the odd hot girl (I'm also a girl), but that was it. So the next time I had this one class I sat with these girls on one side of the room, somehow it just felt ... (1450 words)

It seems she is looser, could she be cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i have this curious question about a vagina fart,I know that its caused by air being pushed from the penis,but is it mostly cause by a bigger penis,for example-I've been with the mother of my kids for 18yrs. And I don't know if because she gave birth to 3 of my kids it seems ... (85 words)

I'm not sure if I'm bisexual, if I were my family would disown me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am straight, or so I thought I was. But lately I have been attracted to one of my female friends. I have never felt sexually attracted to a girl before, but all of a sudden I am noticing other girls to be attractive, especially one in particular. I have talked about th... (119 words)

Crush or boyfriend? They are both best friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I need some help. I was dating this guy for almost two months then i broke up with him because i kinda have trust issues, since I was really young. Well we broke up for like three days then I went back to him because I really liked him still. Well at the beginning of the ... (174 words)

Is he using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, thank you for taking the time to read my question. I feel like there is a need for a background but I'll try to be brief. Thank you for helping me! My boyfriend is 21 yrs old and I am 23 (we're both from Latin America, attending college in the US, my lifestyle is ver... (1249 words)

I'm not sure where I stand with my FWB

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm married but its falling apart he cheated on me lied constantly, hurt me, ignored me. I started an affair with a friend, I know its wrong. We've been on and off for about 9 months now. When it started I didn't mean for it all but i fell for my friend and I told him in the ... (289 words)

Is uni worth it or should I quit and live life like my brother?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a question about university and the point of it, because I'm a first year, just finished my first semester and I'm studying for a Bachelor of Arts, majoring in history. Lately it just seems that, for starters, if I did get my degree then where could that take me? I mean ... (199 words)

She never told me !! should I bring it up or leave it incase it hurts her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my wife 19 years. We have been married for 10 years. Recently, she reconnected with an old college friend of hers. This was a girl that I knew back in the day, too, as I met my wife in college and she was roommates with this girl for the first six mont... (680 words)

I love my Cousin Sister and I think she loves me back !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i am sunny, i am in big trouble, i am in love with my cousin sister. this started in fall of 2008. it was then when i had seen her after 10 years. i am 17 at present and she is just 1 year elder to me (18). at that time, it was just as a brother and sister should be... (162 words)

If he doesn't fancy me, why is he with me and why does he go mad if other guys look at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age - I am in a 5-year relationship and, although my partner doesn't want other men looking at me or showing an interest in me, he obsesses over younger women and oftentimes masterbates as a result. I find that hurtful, especially when we probably have had sex just the night before. ... (72 words)

Intimidated by my teacher

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My chemistry teacher makes fun of me. Constantly. He treats me like I'm incompetent, dangerous in practical lessons, or otherwise stupid and inferior to the other people in my class. Only I get this treatment. He apparently doesn't realise that he actually makes me cry and... (229 words)

He still wants to see me even though we made a huge mistake !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Me and a guy friend from school used to have a causal thing, when we were both single. We'd meet up and sometimes sleep together. I stupidly ended up liking him more than i should, like these things tend to happen. Anyway, that ended and he got a girlfriend then a few month... (335 words)

Dumped me because I'm poor, now she's moved on, should i?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have seen my ex-girl friend recently and she was smiling and happy in her life, whereas I am still struggling to get over her. She dumped me 8 months back as she thought I was too poor guy financially to propose her officially as she belonged to upper class. We remained ... (94 words)

Were married, I don't want her meeting up with him !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Back in April I caught my wife texting a friend of hers in ways I did not think were appropriate. They were arranging to meet for dinner and drinks without me knowing, for instance. I sat her down and asked her what the deal was. She told me that he was "acting weird" a... (256 words)

Loving my vibrator, am I a nympho ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im starting to ask myself if im a sex addict because I want sex all the time, anywhere. I do have a boyfriend and I only have sex with him, I don't cheat. But anyway, every single time im home alone or almost everynight I use my vibrator. Its like my bestfriend. Sex is ... (96 words)

Messing with my head or is she into me? I'm so confused !!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I am after this girl now. Shes 2 years older to me, shes really beautiful. Her sisters are also my sisters friends.. But I would just like to list down some of the things she done in the past weeks, which sometimes leaves me in a confused state. Okay, we had our ... (720 words)

Will he take me back or is he playing mind games?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think my ex and i will get back together? Okay so we have been broke up for a month went 2 weeks or so no contact but we are talking again . The first week of the break up i was stupid and BEGGED for him to take me back .. He didnt . But yesterday when we were talking he ... (182 words)

Do I have to meet him? Is it possible that he is still in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - please help me, this is the scenario: my ex-bf and i been together for almost 6yrs until he went to dubai for work. we had long distance relationship for more than a year until his american citizen old classmate who was in USA pop into his facebook. after their 4days chatting ... (201 words)

Should I be worried by his behaviour when he is back in his home town?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for about three months now. We're in a long distance relationship but we see each other fairly often, usually for weekends. I have just spent two weeks with him (he came to my town and lived in my apartment for that period) and it was great. He is ... (215 words)

Why am I attracted to narcissists and sociopaths?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - right so this is a bit of a weird question. for my past few relationships the girls ive seen have been classic narcissists. they made everything bout them, and it just got so that i couldnt stand it any longer and we broke up. but then i enter into another relationship like ... (210 words)

Any chance that he’ll come back around? What did I do wrong in the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Two years ago I started dating a man who is a single father. I have no children. He has full custody of his now 16yr old daughter and one year ago, found out he is also the father of a two year old son. (The mother located him 1.5yrs after the child was born with a DNA ... (656 words)

How on earth do I get a boyfriend? I really want to be in love!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I am 15 years old and I love the idea of love. But the thing is I dont have a boyfriend and I want one really bad. It seems as if all my friends have one and its like no one is there for me. I guess what I'm asking is; How on earth do I get a boyfriend? (I have had boyf... (73 words)

My confidence has gone after dating a man way out of my league!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so here is my dilemma. I am 33, I am ok looking, not ugly and some may say pretty, but not anything special just your average girl in the looks department. I would say a 5/6 out of 10. I have happened to meet a man who is 30 and who is drop dead gorgeous. He is tall, mu... (499 words)

Is he starting arguments to break up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age - I have had a couple of questions with some really fantastic answers which have been really helpful, with a difficult relationship there are a lot of questions which spring to mind, I've just had lunch with my partner of four years, he consistantly brings up the fact o keep ... (80 words)

Should I try Oral or will it be a disaster ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend has been trying to give me oral sex for about a month now. But i wont let him. I give him oral all the time but now for me i just feel like it'll be embarrasing! Why is this?... (41 words)

What did that kiss mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Men, i really really need to know why he was kissing me like this please!!? I've never had someone do it in this way before, so i could use advice. Two nights ago i met up briefly with this guy that i really liked, and at the end of the night when we were saying bye. It was SO ... (243 words)

Are they just friends or am I being played like a fool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello everyone! My BF of 1 1/2yrs has a "friend" at work. She is married and has 2 small kids. She texts my BF all the time, calls him all the time and even has a pet name for him. I have stressed to my BF that i dont like it and his response is "she is just a friend". They ... (272 words)

Are his friends more important or am I over reacting ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Where do I even start? me and my bf have been going out for 9 months. he has just moved flat and now stays with two guys from his uni - one guy of which, i have a dislike towards sometimes as my bf has ditched me before for him and also acted like a dick infront of ... (1197 words)

Do I stay with my boyfriend? Or leave and face being on my own?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya!! I know you get a lot of these, but I would appreciate advice on my boyfriend. He is 26, lives and works in London and is the nicest bloke I have ever dated. He is caring, loving, would never raise a hand to me and has acccepted me with all my bagage. Perfect right? N... (316 words)

Has anyone else ever experienced this? Any ideas what it could be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, seeing each other every couple weeks, so I go long periods w/o sex. I saw him yesterday and we had sex a couple times and it hurt a lot. I was wet enough and I gave him a bj to make getting in easier, but it still hur... (166 words)

Did rough sex cause me to bleed abnormally, or did it jumpstart my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night I was at a guys house (we've been sleeping together on and off for over a year now) and we had a quickie; however, this time it was a bit rougher than normal. I got a text from him later that night while on my way home, with his swearing at me and all mad. When I ... (376 words)

Is it possible to have something on your phone that has private numbers show on Caller ID?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to have something on your phone that screens through private numbers? As in, someone can call on private/witheld number, but their number still shows up? My reason for asking is that I was feeling curious as to whether my ex-boyfriend had the same number as b... (120 words)

Cheating on my girlfriend was a mistake, but this other woman wont leave me alone! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I decided to stop masturbating then I started cheating on my girlfriend. I have a girlfriend of 3 years now she lives far away from me and we cannot have sex as often as we want. There is a girl next door whom I slept with two times, this new girl she wants me all the time! I ... (118 words)

Should I get back with my ex? She left me for her ex, but he beat her up so she wants to come back to me again!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So my ex gf, who dumped me to get back with her ex boyfriend who hits her, wants to get back together. Im the complete opposite of her ex, hes a badboy kind of guy who doesnt do shit with his life, while i on the other hand, work two dead end jobs and go to school. He lives ... (324 words)

My best friend's wife hates me when there is nothing romantic about my relationship with her husband! What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i have a male best friend i mean we are even closer then best friends more like brother and sister hes 9 years older then me. he calls himself my gaurdian angel and thats what he is. he helps me i help him. anyways hes married and has 2 kids. in the begining his wif was fine ... (210 words)

Can you be a FWB with an Ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and still friends with my ex. She recently dated a much older guy [in his twenties] and split with him, although they still sleep together for the fun. She is a very open person, and before we dated, she was keen on casual activity. I want to ask her for casual sex, not ... (79 words)

How should I ask a girl out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - After going out on a few informal dates with a girl I met a couple of months ago now, I’ve decided I want to ask her out as (stating the obvious) I like her, and I’m pretty sure she likes me! Anyhow, my last relationship was over four years ago and rather short-lived, so as you ... (105 words)

Condo manager is bullying tenants and possibly abusive toward his wife

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts! I have a "relationship" question about my Condo Manager. Sorry it's so long. I hope since this isn't a romance-related question you will still be able to offer some advice because it is really bothering me... Basically, I live in a small condo of 12 units with my... (692 words)

Why is my boyfriend trying to make me jealous about his ex's? How do I respond to this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear all, Myy BF of a few months has recently started trying to make me jealous about his ex , and the mother of his kids. ( they are apart). I am not sure why he is doing this , as things have been very good between us for the last few weeks, but he seems to enjoy rubbing... (273 words)

15 years old, boner problems!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, first post here. After countless other questions asked anonymously, I thought I'd make an account so I can look back on all my previous, stupid questions later in life and have a good laugh. But as of right NOW this is no laughing matter.. I seem to have a boner problem.... (362 words)

Any advice for helping my rebellious sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, this is probably gonna be a very loooong mail, but please bare with me...i need help and advice urgently! Im 22years old, the eldest of 3daughters. My sister next to me(Sonia*), is 20yrs old. We grew up in a christian home, my father was a pastor. My young... (517 words)

Dignified but exciting sex positions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (?) age 41-50 - What kind of different sexual positions are dignified but also exciting? I am thirty-one and I have a girlfriend but it is a bit boring in bed. All we do is woman-on-top, missionary, and she gives me blowjobs. What are some exciting positions we can try without pain or ... (60 words)

The girl next door.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Got myself into a BIG TIME JAM! even by my standards, I started seeing my next door neighbor, well, Ive just recently started to find out she thinks more of her then she will ever think of me, and my gut is just telling me to jump ship, well easier said then done, I tell her I ... (238 words)

Should I tell my teacher how I feel, or ignore him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in year 10 at school ... I have liked my R.E teacher for almost four years. He's a great guy and we get on so well together. We have so much in common and we talk almost every day ... But recently he has been ignoring me in calss and just acting like i'm not there. I've not ... (124 words)

Still living with my ex and he is acting like we are still together! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex broke up with me in January. We still live together due to financial reasons, and have agreed to stay in our current place until our lease is up at the end of the year. I have moved into the spare bedroom and we live as roommates now. Thing is, I am going absolutely... (386 words)

How do I break free from this married man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey well here goes. ive been in a bad relationship for a year now. i dont want any critisicm i dont need it i know what ive done is wrong i just have a proplem that i would like some help with. when i first met him i never knew he had a wife and i was crazy for him we had a... (271 words)

I'm starting to hate my husband but baby number 2 is on the way! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my spouse for 6 years, since i was 18 years old iv been with him. im starting to hate my husband and i cant seem to know why. i just do. we fight alot. we both disagree alot. even when we spend time alone together theres an akward silence like we have nothing ... (198 words)

Guilty or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4686 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i am a Pakistani girl and a muslim. So here is my story. I married my first cousin (my mother's sister son) back in 2008. But now we are divorced. The problem is i am a little guilty because it was I who asked for divorce due to several reasons. I will be extremely honest ... (653 words)

Why can't I get a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been single now for about 2 years (I'm 22 years old). I would love to get a girlfriend but I just don't have any friends who know any girls and I am not in school anymore so I can't meet girls in school. I don't really like to go out and party because women there are all ... (193 words)

Fighting a lot, worried I am just a notch on his bed-post and he never stands up for me.....so many problems with this relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot here lately and we have been through a lot. I love my boyfriend so much but I feel like im getting tired of him and the fighting, we tried dealing with our problems and stop the fighting but 2 days later we were back at it. I ... (150 words)

Will he ever be nice to me? How do I get my husband to respect me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4598 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age - I Have been married for nearly 40 years. I married when very young. How can i get my husband to respect me? I have 2 children. The first left when he was 16 as he saw a lot going on here. The 2nd my husband loves very much. I have helped him to do this over the years as he had ... (910 words)

I finally left my husband of 5 years who cheated on me many times.. but I don't know how to deal with the pain

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you survive after the cheating..? i finally left my husband for 5 years who cheated on me many times.. but i don't know how to deal with the pain ... (33 words)

I've been seeing him for 2 weeks - do I buy him a birthday gift?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Seeing a guy for about 2 weeks been on quite a few dates and chilled at his house a bit too, its his birthday this weekend, do I buy him a gift??? ... (32 words)

How to get my ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4686 days ago

28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this is so long, but I feel like I need to give the backstory and time progression of my last break-up. I'm really confused with my ex and his feelings towards me. Here's what happened: we broke up about 6 months ago. We were only together for 4 months. I told him I loved ... (790 words)

Why do people try to block out the past with relationships?

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28 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. I got a question. With relationships, why do people try to block out the past? Sometimes, you can ask your partner a question and they lie about something that happened in the past. Why do they do that? Why won't people admit that they have done the wrong thing... (131 words)

Had an affair and now I'm trying to work on things with my wife but the thought of anything intimate disgusts me.

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28 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok agony aunts i need your help in the worst way! Heres my problem. My wife and i have been going thru some major issues that have been causing a rift between us. Just know that regardless of my actions i do love her and i do regret what ive done in the midst of all thi... (568 words)

What's with the incredible sex??

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28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I don't see each other much since we're long distance. We've been together for 15 months now. We see each other every couple weeks, usually for a few days at a time. He's always had an issue with getting/staying erect when we first start having sex. After the f... (445 words)

I'm in a FWB with a married woman who used to be more loving. I'm confused, what happened?

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28 June 2011 (M)

age - I am a married separated man in mid 40's, i have been separated for 5 years and am still friends with wife, we see each other 3 times a week but there is no sex. I have had 2 serious relationships in the past 5 years, niether worked out because both the ladies wanted commitme... (609 words)

Is it reasonable that my boyfriend wants me to cut contact with my abusive ex?

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28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months and everything is wonderful. The only problem is he doesn't want me to have anything to do with my ex because of what happened in mine and my exs past. It was an semi abusive relationship. he only hit me once but the rest of ... (146 words)

My fiance's sisters think they're going to be bridesmaids at my wedding but I don't want them to be! How do I tell them?

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28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I tell my fiance's sisters that they're not gonna be bridesmaids at MY wedding?! They think they are!... (20 words)

Should I confront my former friend about the comments he made about me online?

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28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend at least I thought they were and I got into a huge fight. We kind of had crushes on each other but things got really bad between us. I really made him mad. I tried apologizing and giving him space. The thing that hurt me is that after I tried apologizing and ... (146 words)

If there is no medical reason, what else could be the problem if my husband never wants to have sex with me?

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28 June 2011 (F)

age - What can I do ,if my husband can't tell,why does he not want to have sex with me? If there is no medical reason, what else could be the reason, if your husband never cares about sex ,yet he used to. I asked him, he says ,he doesn't know why. He did go to the doctor ,and he is ... (106 words)

My friend is extremely emotionally dependent on me and I don't know how to deal with it

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28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I have a friend who is extremely emotionally attached to me and I don't know what to do. She tells me constantly that if it weren't for me and her boyfriend, she'd kill herself. She is extremely self-loathing to the point where every time we hangout she has to point ... (135 words)

What could this girl be implying when she called me a deuce?

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28 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl i am seeing has a friend and her friend posted on her wall saying she was sorry it didnt work out and that i am such a deuce. What does deuce mean?... (34 words)

My GF has severe insecurity issues. How can I explain to her that her feelings are unwarranted?

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28 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I think my girlfriend is insecure. To be fair here, I am a 39 separated guy. I have been separated for a while from my wife and it was by my choice and her and DO NOT want to work it out but there is a child between us. I am in the construction field and really took a financial ... (844 words)

I lied to my best friend to try to help her, and it backfired!

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28 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend and her boyfriend have been dating for the past 3 years. It is a really unhealthy relationship. He mentally abuses her and is very controlling and manipulative. The last year they have been through so much. Off and on. It has gotten so bad that she has lost ... (330 words)

I feel like the only person I have is my gf!

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28 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - If the only person you feel has your back is your significant other? All my friends are no where to be found. Everybody is oh so busy. My family doesnt understand me. Anytime they call me or come to see me is when they need something. I feel like the only person I have is my ... (109 words)

Am I an ass?

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28 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Honestly am I? I've realized something, I can't seem to get over my ex. She was my first serious gf. Like I really loved her. We had a good year 1/2 or 2 together. We broke up bc I found out she cheated. It took a year before we were able to be cool with speaking to each other. ... (132 words)

First love or soul mate? Which one is more devastating to lose?

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28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is losing your first love comparable to the feelings experienced when losing a 'soul mate'?... (15 words)

My good friend is into my fiancé, I think he loves her. What should I do?

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28 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I think my good friend is in love with my fiance for a number of reasons : 1. We went out as a group for her birthday and he bought her drinks and they were talking most of the night ( they both speak french) then when it came to leaving and going to a hotel for the night he... (210 words)

What should I do? My boyfriend's sister is always bitchy towards me no matter how I try to make it work with her.

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28 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sick and tired of my boyfriends sister! She's a complete bitch! She is the youngest one and it just drives me crazy that we argue about her because she is constantly complaining about me and I dont know what to do anymore!? She never talks to me when I'm around. I ask her ... (120 words)

Why is my fiancé acting so distant all of a sudden? She's up late, sleeps on the couch, and has had a panic attack. What should I do?

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28 June 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My fiancé is the love of my life but lately she has been acting really weird. She has been staying up late (5 am) and she has been falling asleep on the couch lately. I have been getting up and waking her up to go bed with me. She shakes when she is sleeping and I have bee... (150 words)

Did I break my hymen inserting a tampon?

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28 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So the other day I was inserting a super and i think I might've broken my hymen. It was one of my last days and i was going to the beach so I put in a super. I used a cardboard one and had some difficulty putting it in. When i peed it kinda stung under where i inserted the ... (190 words)