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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Siblings before spouse and family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age - I have been married 14 years to the love of my life, and she claims the same is true for her. But in the last couple of years she has been funneling a lot of our money to her sister. She's done this without telling me. Lately it's only one sister, but for a while we had two of ... (251 words)

My best friend is flirting with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm 15 and i know some of you may think im too young to have a problem like this but...I have a problem and its starting to make me mad... i have a best friend who i feel flirts with my boyfriend.. she knew him longer than me, and she says she doesn't like him but the way she ... (143 words)

Torn between my ex and her BFF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in need of some help or advice perhaps. It all started back in November of 2009. I met this girl through friends. For awhile we simply talked on the phone and never met.It wasnt until February that we took the dive and met. I remember that day. We saw AVATAR and enjoyed ... (1343 words)

I thought we were good friends so why does he lie to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is he lying to me am i a bad friend ? i dont understand i have a close male friend and hes lied to me. it sounds slly but hes telling me hes datng a model off facebook and that shes round his house all the time but hes lyng because she lives in the states ive seen her prof... (147 words)

Why does it feel like he's bored of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I text, well, 24/7, and it is him who texts me first. Now, this may seem weird, but he sent me a text saying :'no offense, but I wanna concentrate on this film.' I understand most of you think I am over reacting but the point is we recently got back together... (73 words)

Gave up on relationships and got a few "friends with benefits" but now I'm wondering about this one...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok well recintly ive pretty much given up on wantin realtionships for a while so ive aquired myself a few "friends with benifits", but the problem is i dont know if me and one of them are starting to have real feelings for eachother, this morning i went round to his house ... (204 words)

What is the best way to tease my boyfriend before sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the best way to tease my boyfriend before sex?... (11 words)

I'm 15, he's 18, I have a boyfriend but really like the 18 year old!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, well to begin with the truth, i am a 15 year old girl and i really like this 18 year old boy.. he tells me he really likes me too, and that he always wants to see me... we've met, and we're not together, but we always tell each other how much we like each other, we've ... (183 words)

I cannot get past the idea of his threesome with his then-wife and their neighbour!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age - I have been in a relationship with the same man for over 5 years. Very early on he told me he had a 3some with his then wife and her friend who was also their married neighbour. This continues to bother me. What bothers me is there must have been a lot of positive anticip... (225 words)

As bad as I want to move on I cant, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - so im bi and me and some girl were messing around for 6 months but never really dated because she never wanted to. Throughtout does 6 months she also messed around with a lot of guys and i never said anything about it. After all that time i finally got tired of it and decided ... (122 words)

I am 17, in love with a 47 year old married man, my parents don't like him, what should I do here??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a married man. He loves me back but we have never been physical and he has not cheated on his wife except for being in love with me. He has wanted a divorce with his wife for a long time, even before he met me and before we were just friends. We have a 30 year ... (131 words)

Should I just tell him to move on because I have, even though I miss him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do? Do I check up on him or move on? I loved my ex boyfriend so much, but he dumped me saying he doesn't want a relationship. After a month of no contact he rang to me tell me he wants us to be friends cos he's moved on, got a ***** buddy cos he doesn't wan... (164 words)

I feel strongly that no one in my family cares about me at all, am I wrong??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why wouldn't anyone care? My mom cares about her new husband more. My dad cares about my sister and his stupid lifestyle. My maternal uncles care about their families and never offered to help out with my tuition fees although they're doing very well and of course, they do... (174 words)

Trying to decide between one or the other, any suggestions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Need advice! I met him early Jan this year and started dating and are still dating, but the relationship has been troubled basically from day 1. Initially it was baby mama drama! A whole lot of drama! The ex (baby mama) would go over to his place 4 a weekend. This happened ... (301 words)

Why is my mom doing this??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - All this while, I was my mother's only, closest, dearest daughter. She has had a tough life, so to say. But now, she's choosing her new lover over me when she only knew him for 3 years! What is it compared to the 20 years we had together? I know she has had a tough life and... (157 words)

What is it like to have a father's love??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate my dad. He has never been supportive of me. He was always drunk and always hit me. I remember when I was younger and how he always kicked me. He always treated my younger sister better and pampered him with all the things but never bought for me. Really, he hates me. We ... (409 words)

We broke up, he has a new girl, we are supposed to go on a trip, with two other people, should I go, I'm confused??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex split up with me last August when his father was dying of cancer. At first i found it difficult not to contact him because his father died 2 days after we split. We speak/email/text every few weeks and had a minor slip up on NYE when I went to party at his house. In ... (256 words)

Due to sexual problems, no lovemaking for 6 months, any suggestions would hel[p??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married for two years to a lovely woman whom i dated for 5 years before we got married. We used to be wiled in bed but as our marraige life goes by either i cant get it up or if i could i ejaculate prematurely leaving my wife unsatisfied. Now adays doue to the ... (86 words)

How to get thoughts of a baby out of my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 18, almost 19 and Since i was 14 all i have wanted to be is a mum. I have never tried to concieve and since becomming sexually active have always used contraception, but still cant get the thought out of my head! I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and alt... (169 words)

What kinds of lies would you tolerate in a relationship?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I know people lie. I know I tell a little lie at least every day whether it is i try not to but it happens. Now my question is what kinds of lies would you tolerate in a relationship. For example, a girl I have been seeing lies to me sometimes when she doesnt want to meet wit... (134 words)

How do I start a conversation with a girl on facebook that I've not met properly but have a huge crush on her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl that I've not properly met but i added her on facebook after a party over a year ago.. I started talking to her on it a few months ago rarely and I really like her. I've got a massive crush on her but because I've never actually met her properly so It's really ... (149 words)

Aren't there ANY women who don't want kids out there?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Why is it that women say that the things they want in a boyfriend or partner tend to be things like: confidence, kind, generous, loving, make me feel special, sense of humour? It's total nonsense. All they want is someone to father their children. I have female friend... (313 words)

He asaid he doesn't know if he wants to be with me - should I break up with him or wait for him to make up his mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What would you do if your boyfriend told you he doesn't know if he wants to be with you or not? Would you break up with him, or hang on and wait for him to make up his mind? Thank you for any answers. ... (51 words)

Isn't it time he told me he loved me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, What would you do? Its been 6 months of dating (5 exclusively), we have a wonderful time together whether its hanging out watching movies alone or going on a lovely vacation with friends and family. I'm in my early 50's and he's mid-40s. I'm divorced wit... (286 words)

Do you think I can tell her I love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I love a girl in the university, but there are a lot of friends around and she is known to has a lot of lovers .. Some time ago i spoke to her for the first time and asked her to re-dye her hair red as it was before and after about a week almost done as requested and told me ... (211 words)

I don't understand why my friend still texts him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend met this guy who she thought was 23/24 and he thought she was 26. So they both assumed without knowing. When really he is 28 nearly 29 and she is 18. Does anyone else find it weird that someone his age and hers are texting each other? She told him her age stra... (250 words)

Recently graduated from school.....should I tell my former teacher that I'm attracted to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, guys! I'm just a little torn on what to do here. I've been attracted to my teacher since roughly January. I recently graduated, and since then I've been debating on whether or not I should tell him that I'm attracted to him. I really do want to, if only to get it off my ... (88 words)

She rejected me first - why does she need me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So, here's my problem. I've known this girl for years now and I developed a crush on her. By that time I tried to make a move (2-3 years ago) she had a boyfriend and to be honest, I was in a long-term relationship myself. Once, we went to a bar and there was a kiss in the heat... (503 words)

My ex invited me to an event but I turned him down....should I have gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I ran in to my ex boyfriend a couple of days ago. I completely ruined our relationship, and he's a good guy and nice enough to me in spite of the embarassing and stupid things I did when we were dating. I'm still in love with him and I miss him a lot. The first time we broke up ... (245 words)

I want to meet her for the first time, but I don't know how to tell her the pictures I have been using online are fake.....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was playing around online and I met this girl (im a lesbian) on myspace and we really hit it off, and yes she is long distance, im in texas shes in new jersey. We moved to facebook and actually started dating long distance. We've been dating for about 15 months and I really ... (155 words)

We havent been able to see each other for ages because he is grounded and I think he is losing interest in me.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend for a year....we absolutely LOVED each other in the begining ..we were friends since we were 3 before we started dating, but now its been 1 month i havent seen him because he's grounded(15 more days till i can see him) and he's started losing ... (199 words)

Why do I feel bad for him when he is behaving like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 years recently he said that his confused and don't know if he still wants to be with me. He said there are days that he missed me and wants to be with me and there are days that he can't even stand to see me. We had a son together. About a ... (337 words)

For the guys: Why do you put kisses at the end of texts? Does it mean anything to you?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - What is it with men and putting kisses on the end of texts? I'd like for the majority of answers to men just so i know, but women feel free to answer too with your opinions:) Okay so, i don't wanna be judged on the age different or whatever, this isnt about that...but i'm e... (223 words)

What does this man want?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

3 June 2011 (?) age 51-59 - Well here I am again......my ex and I have been separated for 9 months....lately he has changed hes more receptive and texting me, now me I am hurt I cant play nice anymore...he left me for another woman and says he still communicates with her but he says hes not with her he ... (208 words)

How can he feel he is my soulmate, but be living with someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this man back in October by chance-- I saw him sitting on a bench , reading a book and taking notes in the margin. I was immediately drawn to him because my husband was a writer and often scrawled in the margins of his books (my husband died over a year ago). I asked what ... (348 words)

Do I just give this up and chalk it up to a lesson learned? Should I reach out to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me 2 days before I left for a big trip outside of the US to a third world country. It was pretty hard for me especially in light of me having to leave for a trip that I was already pretty nervous about. Both of us are in college--both the same major, same ... (1390 words)

Is there a way to get a guy's respect back after you gave yourself to him too soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question, dearest Aunts. (: I was casually seeing a guy I was very interested in, and was adamant to myself that I was going to hold out a long time before I slept with him, but one night I slipped up, I just couldn't help myself! Now I think he has probably lo... (102 words)

Meeting my long distance boyfriend for the first time, but I'm not looking forward to it! Does this mean I should end the relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what i feel for him or what i want from this relationship. I have a long distance bf and we are supposed to meet in July for the first time. He's supposed to spend where I live 10 days and we're about to go to a concert together as well. At first i was total... (286 words)

My friend has an over controlling boyfriend and I don't get to see her anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend, she knows we all love her, she knows we care for her, but her boyfriend wont let her talk to any of her friends. She used to call all her friends hun, sweetie, etc. But he told her that if she calls them that he'll break up with her. She's not ALLOWED accordin... (155 words)

Can a girl get pregnant from this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Can a girl get pregnant just by inserting tip of the penis without a condom and cumming outside the vagina?... (20 words)

Trouble with my boyfriend and thinking about breaking up......

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dearcupid, I am at the most confusing stage. I love my boyfriend a lot. We met online. He is 26 and I'm 16. I have asked this question before,please check. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-torn-between-my-ex-and-my-friend.html He disappeared for 4 months. I though... (351 words)

Girlfriend's drunken one night stand....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi folks, hoping somebody can offer some persepctive in this. I've just found out this morning that my GF had a one night stand with a creep from her work who had been trying it on with her for a while. We were going through a rough patch, she has an alcohol problem that she... (144 words)

My phone was stolen, am I right in assuming the person has kept and been through my personal information?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is for relationships, but i'm stressing and having an anxiety attack right now!! I really want some truth because everyone's being nice about what could of happened. Two nights ago i lost my phone in a bar/club, it's not been traced or handed in so i know for su... (331 words)

Can this be resolved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I apologise that this long, so thankyou in advance if you read it all. Right, my boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 7 months now, and recently things have been going downhill, as he suddenly came out with something I wasn't expecting the other day. I don't ... (310 words)

How can we spice up our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello me and my boyfrienf of 1 year and a half we have had sex loads of times before but we want to sauce things up and get expermenting do you know any good moves or tips we can try out to get it more saucy and sexy again . Thankz ... (51 words)

Am I stupid for passing up this chance at a great school for a girl who doesn't love me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have done things that are quite stupid because I love a girl but she doesn't love me. For example, I got into a school which only take in 5 people in sixth form and this year more than 300 talented students applying because it has 27% of Oxbridge admission hit rate and it is ... (104 words)

Too tight to have sex and the doctor is no help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Look this might sound stupid but I really need help. I have been trying to have sex for three years. I have a long term partner, everything is good. I am just very very tight! At first I couldnt even get my OWN finger in, let alone a penis, but now I can manage three of my own ... (194 words)

I'm great in bed if I'm not into the girl, but when it comes to a girl I like I'm terrible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hELLO Everyone.. i have a quite weird problem..its a sex related problem..the thing is when i have sex with a girl that im basically not really attracted to or like a one night stand..my sex performance is just amazing..i last so long and i feel soo hard and i make suure th... (220 words)

I really want this to work and need some dating advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi ive got my first date tomorrow with a girl who i really like and she really likes me too. i thought about buying her some flowers for when we meet up. were going to the cinema to see a movie and maybe get something to eat before. i've planned to put my arm around her w... (162 words)

I feel so guilty for not loving my mother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've single mother, she is always out if not she is divided from me towards my siblings and my stepdad. For decades now it's just me and her. I feel so guilty that I cannot find any comfort from her, and often I feel so ungrateful because she's the least I want to ask for ... (247 words)

How long does it take to find someone new after a breakup?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in my 20's and just ended a long term relationship with my live in boyfriend. I'm so heart broken. He was my first love. Will I ever find love again? How long does it usually take to find someone new? ... (48 words)

After graduating from college I'm really lost!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - This is most likely off topic but I'll try anyway considering it's a forum... I'm really depressed with my life right now. I got a degree in journalism and tried to pave a path to law school. Then I realized the hard truth of how the LSAT determines everything despi... (178 words)

I want to have sex and my husband has no sex drive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for just under 10 years (Age 40.) We have 2 kids, 5 and 1 years. When we were dating and before kids I was always sexually satisfied even though my husband has ALWAYS had a hard time maintaining an erection. If he's the slightest bit tired or distracted, ... (260 words)

Do you believe God gives signs to tell us things about our relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm just wondering if any of you truly believe that if we pray for a sign of something, God will show us. For example, this might sound really silly, but I've fallen in love with this guy, and seriously, it's love. Not lust or infatuation. I'm pretty much convinced that he ... (398 words)

Why did he suddenly shift his attention to this girl in our group?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This gentleman and his wife are my close friends. We hang out together along with a few other friends. But there is a girl in our social group that he does not seems to have a lot in common with. He ignores her and does not engage in her conversations when she is around us and ... (137 words)

How do I tell my bf I want to try new things in bed and want to spice things up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my question is, I have a very high sex drive and even my bf tells me. i use to be a little heavy and i have lost a lot of weight and love to be physically fit now. My bf tells me that he loves the way I look now but The things is though, I like wearing lingerie and sexy ... (224 words)

Had sex with fiance AND a one-night stand with another guy, and am now pregnant. Who is the daddy??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - In January, I had sex with my fiance and he ejaculated inside of me every single time we had sex. My period was the 2 of Jan and I have a 31 day cycle and I had a one night stand with a guy on the 13 and we didn't use a condom but we had sex for maybe about 2 minutes then I ... (119 words)

Should there be "rules" in a relationship in regards to friends of the opposite sex and ex lovers?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - View points and opinions please!! Should there be "rules" in a relationship in regards to friends of the opposite sex? In regards to your ex lovers? My boyfriend doesn't want me talking to any men on the phone or by email. I work in a bar so he says i get enough attention ... (99 words)

Am I the only straight woman with a High Sex Drive?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm just wondering i'm the only straight woman with a high sex drive. I want to have sex with men and only men. I find most woman who want sex like crazy tend to be bisexual, i'm wondering if i'm a unicorn?... (52 words)

Why is Girlfriend Obsesed with Former Friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

3 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for three years and mostly things are great. But lately something has been really getting to me. We met in college through a friend of hers, I'll call him Tyler, he was on the school soccer team and I worked maintenance for the athletic departme... (273 words)

Is it Better My LDR Boyfriend tells me about the women he flirts with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have just come out of a rocky patch in our relationship. We have been in an LDR for about a month. A few weeks ago, he told me about how a girl he had taken a class with started talking to him after ignoring him all year. I didn't think anything of it at the ... (309 words)

So I'm Single. What can I say to people that bug me about it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

3 June 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I'm single and have no problem with it, except people (family/friends) constantly ask if I'm dating anyone. Some friends of mine, who are married, asked if I was seeing anyone. When I said no, they then asked jokingly if I was a lesbian. This has happened more than once and I ... (173 words)

Should I let him go because I might not be able to have children....even though I still love him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, my situation is this, I have been with my bf for a long time since I was 18 and I am currently 26. We are going on 8 years together and I love him dearly. When we began to have sex, I did not use any type of protection basically because of my immaturity,but as 2 ... (737 words)

Friend Set Us Up - But Did Her Meddling Drive Us Apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

3 June 2011 (F)

- Hi all, My friend, who is happily married with 3 kids, said she had a guy that she wanted me to meet. She thought he was amazing for me, he was single, no kids etc. She sent him my BlackBerry pin and he added me...I accepted and he also added me on facebook. We spoke on Bl... (454 words)