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writes:There was this guy that i met one evening and he was such a gentlemen and one of the most decent guys i've met on a night out! He didn't grope me, put his hands on me or invade my personal space.. He was respectful and really funny! Anyways i did like him and we used to text, but i could never understand if he was interested as he doesn't flirt in messages, it was more of friends texts. So that faded out quick...My friends said he was interested, and his friends said they're sure he was too and that he is a genuine guy, but he's lazy when it comes to his phone. Still i left it and just assumed he liked someone else or wasn't interested.Anyways, two days ago after about a month of not hearing anything, he texted me randomly out of nowhere!!? and asked what i was doing that night. His text sounded like he wanted me to be there, he said that he wants me to make sure i let him know when i am next out so that we can meet up again.Now i don't want to get my hopes up, but then i don't want to ruin it... Because i am very skeptical on why he wants to meet up now, or even why he chose to text me? What do you think.......
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reader, galdegir +, writes (14 June 2011):
Not unusualy for some guys to be lazy a month yeah thats a little young how old is the gent in question? Myabe he is still a little young and dumb if not be careful he isnt involved and has a girlfriend or wife and is trying to play the field if your good friends with his own circle then I doubt thats the case and his just a little slow to get back in touch possibly he was nervous and it took him that month to get the courage up to ask you for a date.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): I wouldn't get too excited about him. He's not asking you out, he's not calling, and he's not wanting to see you unless you happen to run into each other if you're both out. He's not even trying to get to know you on any level.
He probably texted you and several other girls and I wouldn't get excited about a text once a month.
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (14 June 2011):
 Do not get your hopes up. I would ignore it. If he wants to talk with you, he should call and ask you on a proper date.
Last minute,"hey what you doing now?" texts are NON invites.
Texts are so "safe" for people nowadays, I really am suprised how real communication has been lost.
When I give a guy my number, I tell him I do not text and I mean it. If they want to talk, the have to man up and actually call me.
Best Wishes.
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