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Will watching porn with my wife damage our relationship? Or is it a good thing?

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Question - (14 June 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2012)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

is it a good thing for a husband and wife to watch porn together? are there any good benefits from watching it together or will it cause harm in our marriage.my wife and i have been doing this every now and then. thanks for any replies .

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2012):

I'm in your age group. My wife and I started occasionally watching porn together. It turns her on tremendously and results in rousing good lovemaking. As long as your wife in interested, go for it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2011):

It will hurt her self esteem , especially if she is the mother of your children and is no longer 20. How do you think she will feel deep down watching you get all hard over some 20yr old who's never carried a baby.

If you have ANY respect at all for her, do Not do it.... Even if she says it's fine. Trust me , as a mother of 4 ( not a male or a teenage girl) I know

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A female reader, RedAthena United States +, writes (21 June 2011):

RedAthena agony auntAs long as your wife agrees to the content of the porn and you agree how to stop if she is uncomfortable.

There is something for everyone. If she has never watched porn before, make sure you are not throwing some deeply kinky hardcore stuff at her.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2011):

As long as both parties realize that porn is not reality sex, then probably not a problem.

But if that isn't the case, then it becomes a problem.

Really, porn is not real sex, and porn stars (even low budge ones) are not "real people" appearance wise.

It can fuck up peoples perceptions of themselves.

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A female reader, Star xxx United Kingdom +, writes (14 June 2011):

Star xxx agony auntAll the time both parties are consenting to it and happy then I cant see it could cause any harm. Try just talking to each other about why you watch it.

Take care x

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (14 June 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntPersonally for me every now and then once in a while I think it's fine to watch porn with your partner...

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