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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Please define 'love' for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was suffering from bipolar depression. My mind would always remain confused and depressed over many issues in my life. I had great family problems, issues related to what is right and what is wrong, issues related to my work. I was complete mess. But then, when I was at de... (589 words)

Problems after knowing that girlfriend lied about her virginity.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - It goes like that.. I have always been hearing rumors about my girlfriend being a slut and having sex with her 3 year ex. I did asked her in the start and she claimed to be a virgin, and of course I trusted her. Well, talking about the 3 year ex comparing to our 3months, I'm ... (486 words)

Would it be weird if I was just to be blunt and say we should go out sometime?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll make this quite short. So basically there is a guy at work that I like and I think the feeling is mutual. By like I mean we both find each other attractive and we do flirt with each other when we can. We do talk sometimes, but because of work we don't get that many ... (187 words)

The girl I'm friends with and like has had a complete change of moods!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Male or female ANY advice!! This girl i'm friends with and like has had a complete change of moods with me!! I admit, i was off with her and did ignore her because i didn't want to be around her... but i had my reasons. Though I didn't mean to push her away and make her thi... (232 words)

My best friend is different now that she has a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend is acting different now she's seeing someone (who i set her up with), she's fine during the day. But in the evenings she doesn't seem bothered if i'm out or not, normally we all go out in a big group but she's not fussed if us lot who she ALWAYS used to go out ... (215 words)

I think I have herpies, and don't know the long term effects of it! What will happen to me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really worried and concerned. I had unprotected sex over the weekend and now i have a big spot down bellow. It looks a bit like an ulcer. Their are three other tiny spots by it, but, they don't look like ulseres, they just look like tiny spots. I went to the doctors, lat... (390 words)

Does a boy like a girl who always agrees?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone..I want to ask that is it good to say yes to your boyfriend for whatever he asks for.. Does a boy likes a girl who always agree for everything even physical contacts??... (35 words)

Caught my dad red handed with porn, what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know wha to do. This evening I walked down stairs to find my Dad in the sitting room on his own watching "Pornhub". He wasn't doing any hand 'business' but it was clear what was going on. I dont mention it at the time. But i am now left feeling, well I don't know. ... (107 words)

For the men: what perfume do you like on women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Question for the men: what kind of perfume/scent do you like a woman to wear? Do you like flowery scents? Woody? Fruity/Citrusy? Musky? Or any other kind, take your pick, I'm really curious what the general consensus is on perfume. Thanks! :)... (43 words)

He apologized, but I can't get over why he asked me this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Husband told me he wanted to have sex with another women. It really up set me that he told me this. We have had a three-some before and have a pretty good sex life. He has apologized over and over for saying but I can't seem to get over it. My question is he cheating one me? ... (90 words)

No sex and the romance seems to have just died out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my guy for many years now and we've never taken the next step. Right now, he's working fulltime for wages and also running his own business so he can save enough money for us to buy our first home. I'm self employed and struggling with making money despite the ... (630 words)

Bestfriend to G/F to ???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have know this girl for 17 yrs of my life and we been off and on again in contact.. she moved a couple of states away and we would write letters and talk on the phone.. The last time we got in contact she flew to see me and we had this chemistry that seemed great.. So she ... (361 words)

I'm not good at dealing with stress and feel aggressive towards my family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have come to conclusion that I need help other then doing stuff by myself. Since I was about six i've had high levels of stress due to my sister being quite abusive and my mother pushing education onto me to make sure I get a good job and life. Now that i'm into my late... (334 words)

Can a 20 year age difference really make him feel that insecure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had a friend for over 8 years now. There has always been an attraction between us we have never acted on it. We never really discussed age etc it was never an issue. I knew he was older than me (he is a young looking active attractive man)but never by how much. We have ... (327 words)

Why does he express his love so frequently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My new boyfriend is really into me. We don't get much time together as we live apart so when we do, we treasure every minute. He cooks for me, and we make each other happy. One thing , however, is that he repeats very often throughout my stay that he loves me and comments on my ... (132 words)

I fancy his personality, not his looks. Is that shallow?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this boy at college, and i no he likes me too as hes told me, we flirt all the time and we recently went on a residential trip with college and we was together all the time, everyone noes we like each other and asking why we are not together.. but there are two ... (88 words)

Are guys who like damsel in distress girl bad type of people?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - [English as a second language speaker here] There's a girl in my class which I haven't found attractive before. In fact, I thought she's loud and annoying. Today she asked me a question about the assignment. Me being one of the smart kids in the class, I helped her (if i... (180 words)

Do I need therapy to get over this fantasy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if I need help or what. I posted on here before about my feelings for my married friend. We know that we cannot be together because we are both married, I told him to be happy with his wife and forget about me and I would do the same (I am also married to a great ... (244 words)

A family member violated my privacy and I want to get back at her

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - As we all know, you are not going to get along with your family all the time but still, that's no excuse for to do this.... I have been verbally abused all my life by a family member. She has physically assaulted me and my mother has just let it continue. Very recently, I found ... (357 words)

Any sales advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to make a big decision. I've always worked as a personal assistant, but for the past four months, I've tried my hand at sales. I sell advertising for my city's only magazine. The distribution is a third of that of the newspaper (so it's poor) and the price is in some... (597 words)

I gave her my all, but was it enough?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I just turned seventeen this week. I met a girl over the summer and fell in love with her. Just the way she looked at me and the way she would smile just blew me away. a month and a half into the relationship I lost my virginity to her, wasn't planning on it but it happened... (239 words)

Help, am I gay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and i have a boyfriend but im sure that im a lesbian. what should i do im sure a lesbian and i think i like a girl at my school do u think im gay and what should i do??... (42 words)

Relationships and titles...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - When in a relationship, how important is a title (boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancee, etc) to you? Does it matter if you have a title or not? Do you think a title means committment? Very interested in hearing your thoughts... ... (45 words)

Why do I crave attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I crave attention. Not in a relationship way, just generally in life and it gets in the way of doing normal things sometimes... Generally when I think people that crave attention, I think someone who hasn't been loved or a loner, I am neither, I have grown up in a loving a... (263 words)

I don't know how to tell him his sexual habits are strange for me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I just want to ask is it normal for a guy to lick his own come? It's just after we've finished having sex, my boyfriend will go down on me and put is tongue right inside me to get all my come and his come in his mouth... I was just wondering if a lot of guys do this? ... (176 words)

2 years foward, she does not call or text as much. Is it normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - so me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 2 years now and we get along great, we have yet to have an argument and we support each other and when we're with each other, we are as happy as can be. But lately it seems my girlfriend doesnt want to talk or text me much ... (170 words)

I've been sleeping with my ex, who has a boyfriend and I need some serious help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend hit me up and I have been sleeping with my ex for the past 3 months. The funny part of this is that she's had a boyfriend for 6 months prior (now 9 months; who she hasn't slept with at all for the past 3 months) At this moment, she is finally ready to let ... (332 words)

Is it unreasonable to ask your boyfriend to get tested for STDs?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it unreasonable to ask your boyfriend to get tested for STD's? I get tested every year at my check up because you never know what someone else is doing and my job has some exposure risks. He has never been tested. We have a sexual relationship, but he cheated on me a while ... (154 words)

I'm worried that my husband doesn't find me attractive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) age - My husband and I have been married for almost 26 years. He just turned 49 and I am 48. In the begging it was very nice. We have 3 beautiful girls. But now , we hardly ever have sex. . He does not seem interested even though we are alone,and we have all the time.... Now I h... (273 words)

Two weeks holiday but now my boyfriend wants to go away for one night in the middle of it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Hi. Me and my bf of 18 months have taken two weeks off in august to spend togther. he is very independent and gets bored easily. I am very codependent but i'm working on it. Anyway, BECAUSE I am trying to work on it I decided in my head that it might not be such a good idea to ... (353 words)

Nearing the end?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Am I honestly "over the fear" of our marriage being over? Been married 18 years, 3 kids, college sweethearts, basically we've been together our entire adult lives. Been inseparable since our first date. Fastforward to now. My wife is a GREAT mother, but I feel she's become a... (635 words)

Are dating sites successful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I wanted to know what you guys think about dating sites. I have never singed up on them because I was always tolled to be carefull of who I talk to online and to not get involved with ppl I have never met in persone. (witch is still great advice for teens specialy) But ... (75 words)

My girlfriend is a nightmare. Is this normal?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

9 June 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I Have been going out with my GF for a few years She is Controlling Possessive Paranoid Moody Childish Doesnt let me see my friends Checks my phone Checks my emails Checks my facebook The reason she does all this is because I have lied about going to see m... (179 words)

I gave her my all, but we broke up and now she wants nothing to do with me! How do I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

- After 2 years of giving my all to this woman. Asking her to marry me and putting up with all her faults and shortcomings we broke up and now she wants nothing to do with me. She has told me to never text, call, just to forget her number. How can one person who's said shell... (221 words)

We never spoke during the term. Could he think I'm boring?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - theres this boy i really like at school and have liked for a very long time. i often catch him looking at me at lunch and stuff. but a few months ago we sat next to each other in art class for like a term and we literally never spoke. do you think this would put him off me and ... (76 words)

I feel left out by my girfriends. Is it because of my good looks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - up until recentally i looked a bit geeky and awkard and i used to get a bit picked on at school. but at this stage i had a very close group of friends who are all girls. we used to always do stuff together at the weekend. but in the last 6 months i know this sounds really ... (153 words)

What should I do I feel used and betrayed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyon, im here looking for advice about my relationship with this guy im 5 months pregnant with my first child im 23 yrs old and he is 21 yrs old. sunday he came to my house we talked about him telling his mum about me and the unborn baby, later on we made out then ... (129 words)

"Hopelessly lost and hurting"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help me, very confused. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 15 months, I'm supposed to move in to his apartment within the next couple of months. He's ex wife still lived with him up until last week, now he's all upset shes gone, he admitted to me he still loves h... (246 words)

I lied and told my boyfriend I am 16! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - for a beggining im 14 years old turning 15 this month and my boyfriend turned 16 last month.. but i lied and told him that am onto 16 too! and now everyone even my closest friends think im turning 16 this month, but im really afraid of the future and i wouldnt wanna be called a ... (94 words)

How do you know what a guys actually feeling when they say one thing, then do another?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys! I've been dating this guy for about a year now and I feel like I'm always the one to initate doing things, not that I'm crazy for it, I just feel sex brings us closer and fixes any problems in our relationship and I love him. We'll talk about doing it and he says/makes ... (180 words)

What does this dream mean please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you think this means? i was so in love:)? All my life every guy that I get involve with breaks my heart and leaves me. But am a nice girl with a good heart. Loyal, honest, caring, loving. Friendly, cheerful. My recent ex bf cheated, lied and dumped me.... (192 words)

Did my wife have sex with her lover during her affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my wife are married for 3 years we have a son together. Recently we've been having alot of arguments and i could't take it so i moved out. during that month my wife met a guy from her new work place and they started talking a lot. my wife and i had a discussion on our ... (244 words)

I want to regain his trust. But do you even think that's possible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so, I dated this guy named Joe from January to early March, our relationship was perfect until he started accusing me of doing things. He thought I told my best friend a secret about him. He also started saying I was lying about every little thing. He also kept saying our ... (532 words)

Just a few questions......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I was just hoping someone could give me advice, i have a few questions and i need someone else's opinions! Alright so, how do you know when you're ready to love again? what's love supposed to feel like? also, how do you know when you're over someone, even though they're ... (65 words)

Will we be friends again...or is our friendship over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Not long ago i asked a question about me kissing this guy who likes me, best friend and him not talking to me anymore.. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-kissed-his-best-friend-and-now-he.html Well, i thought maybe it's just me being silly but yesterday i saw him and agai... (224 words)

Does my boyfriend’s painful past breakup have anything to do with our lack of intimate communication?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, thanks for taking time to consider my question. *Tom and I have been dating for 2.5 years. Things are going smoothly, and we love each other deeply. There is a great possibility that our relationship will turn into a long-term commitment, but we aren’t ... (619 words)

Between my family and boyfriend I feel like my entire world is crashing down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I live in a family with a brother and a sister along with my parents. Being the 3rd child, I have always felt that my needs have been neglected and not taken care of as done with my siblings. My parents are constantly criticizing me and though they have financially provided for ... (142 words)

Should I tell my teacher of my feelings or just leave quietly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and wondering whether my teacher likes me too. I mean, I like him too and it has been 2 years. I don't know if I am misunderstanding the signs because I also have feelings for him. I think he is in his late 20s. He is so nice to me (and other girls too) but lately he ... (240 words)

B/f asked for a threesome but now he wants one every weekend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been in a relationship for 7 years and my boyfriend asked if we can have a threesome i said ok but now he just wants a threesome every weekend. he says it really turns him on seeing me with someone else but to be honest i am not into it and want it to stop i dont enjoy ... (110 words)

Maybe I'm not cut out to be a mom?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Maybe I'm not cut out to be a mom. He's cute, yes, but too much for me to handle, financially and sleeplessness. It is burdensome and bothersome for me. I'm getting so stress out and burnout from taking care of a baby. I don't have a reliable sitter because I don't have enough ... (82 words)

I'd like a little reassurance from my LDR boyfriend but I don't get it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been together long distance for a little over a year. When we started out, the "honeymoon" phase was great. He texted and called all the time, he was sweet, etc. It's pretty safe to say that the honeymoon period's long gone. He still texts me just ... (435 words)

How can I get with her without asking her out on facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my problem, for most of the school year she had a boyfriend which was ok ... (263 words)

My ex has shown that he really doesn't care but I want him back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I'm in an emotional wreck right now. Well i broke up with my bf last week and now im hurt so bad. I had good reasons to let him go, but im just so in love with him that no matter what he do, i'll take him back/be with him. We've been together for 2 years and within those ... (299 words)

Man in wife's class is unintenionally exposing himself, should she tell him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I (we) have some need for advice. My wife and I are married for quite a few years, our youngest child is now in full time elementary school, so my wife wanted to pursue a career. She is currently attending a university to become a teacher. There is this guy who was in a cla... (419 words)

Why do I feel as though I have to force myself into liking someone? I feel like I get bored very quickly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi guys im 18 and started my first year of college after a year out of education in september. i met a girl but she had a bouyfriend and i really liked her she was all i could think about but then those feelings went away after about 3/4 months and then i started having s... (201 words)

Love at first sight? Possible? What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok. I'm back. I was on here a long time back whining about am I ever going to get over an abusive ex. Ok, that's done, pain is gone but now I have a very interesting issue. I had been talking to a guy on and off on a dating site for about a month or more. We seemed... (329 words)

My girlfriend gags when she give me a handjob!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi their this is my problem. My girlfriend has a really bad gag reflex so blow jobs are out of the question witch is cool with me cause i respect and love her. But over the past couple of months she gags when giving me a hand job. And well its putting me right off and have now ... (71 words)

Should I continue being happy and smiling with him or should I be quiet and reserved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a crush on my doctor. In fact, he knows and treats my whole family. He is married and I also don't expect any thing that way. I am younger than him (at least 8-10 years gap.) But I want him to like me as a good patient/person. Please tell me how should i behave ... (142 words)

How should I feel when I don't climax?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a mostly happy relationship with a guy a 3 years my junior. We are, more him than me, both virgins. He is religious and I am not, so he enjoys seeing and hearing me being pleasured as a means of sex. However, he seems to want it much more than I do and therefore, ... (124 words)

No sex, we talk about it but nothing changes!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my man have been together for 6yrs we get on really well,i love him to bits. we have 2 children. the problem i have is we dont have sex hardly at all, which really gets me down, i have discussed this with him many times over the past 2yrs but nothing changes. i dont ... (72 words)

How do I make him stop bugging me when he hasn't formally asked me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I give this guy the slip without feeling like a rude b****?? He keeps texting me, buying me coffee at work (we work together), trying to make physical contact at work, asking if we can meet up outside work etc BUT he has never actually properly asked me out. I'm g... (137 words)

Can your movements be tracked by your mobile phone, and how is it done?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This issue has been playing on my mind..... The question is.... Can your movements be tracked by your mobile phone. And how is it done. Can you tell if your has been tracked. I think am sounding a bit paranoid here. But a friend recently that her boyfriend has been doing... (69 words)

He cancelled our trip and gave all the money to his ex for new clothes for his child! Do I mean nothing to him?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend planned a special weekend away together for us as my birthday present. Then his ex wife called and told him she wanted extra money (besides maintenance already paid and a few extras) to buy clothes for their child. Now this child does not ever want for anything, ... (241 words)

When would be my most fertile time of the month?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - can anyone help me with my most fertile times of the month? as im trying to concive, im on my period now and started it yesterday so i should be finished by saturday as my period lasts for 4days when am i most likely to get pregnant next month? ... (52 words)

Are my feelings justifiable? Or am I just scared of comittment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been in a long distance relationship(which is how we met) for three years and I'm starting to have doubts. I feel in a lot of ways like I'm missing out on the relationship that i want. He is a lot different then i but we also have a lot in common. Bat as i look at ... (259 words)

My boyfriend is acting angry with me, does he want to split? What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear all, Please help. I have been seing this guy for around four months. We had a few problems early on, and I left him for around a month. I eventually got in tocuh and things resumed. he told me that he thought he would never have seen me again, and during that time apart ... (281 words)

I want to prove to him that I do want a threesome with another girl, I just don't know how to find the girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for a year. We're freaky and adventurous, him so more than I, and we got on the topic of threesomes. I'm very shy and still learning things about me. I don't mind being with a woman but men are my main attraction. We had a 4some with ... (244 words)

I broke my partner's sim card because of this young girl who texts him, do you think I need help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel guilty and bad...last night after being so fed up of this young girl texting my partner I broke his Sim card on his phone. I know that he dosen't see her in a sexual way, and that he is just being nice, but she bugs the hell out of me by constantly texting and phoning ... (66 words)

Questions about sex......does this mean he is getting bored of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A few questions about men and sex: 1. My partners sometimes produces a lot of pre-cum, sometimes none or very little during foreplay. If there is little or no pre-cum does that mean he is not as excited? 2. My partners ejaculation is not overly forceful, it sort of just... (184 words)

I want to leave my job, but I'm worried that because my co-worker is pregnant she will be off sick and the company wont have anyone to cover for us....

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9 June 2011 (F) - I have been an admin assistant at a job for four years. It is basically me and my coworker doing alot of tedious things. I have been trying to leave for awhile now. My coworker recently told me she is pregnant. It was sort of the final push for me to leave b/c while it is ... (334 words)

He breaks up with me every summer, and this year is no different! How do I get him back?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my partner have been together 3 years on and off. we seem to have a routine of us getting together September/ October time and him finishing with me in June (this is now the third summmer- he always finishes it). at first we fall in love all over again (he asks to see me and I ... (240 words)

He doesn't believe that I have feelings for him anymore and thinks I'm seeing someone else!

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I a 31 years of age and have been dating this guy who is 39,he was married in 1999 and have a son of 11years and after they got married they family left for england and the man came back the wife stayed there she only came back last year april all along he has been... (207 words)

Should I be worried by his threats to take custody of my baby?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my fellow dearcupid friends, I have a serious question. I am nearly 3 months pregnant, me and the man have not been together in a while. Soon after finding out I was pregnant I began working and putting money away for my baby when he or she gets here. I have really turned ... (157 words)

Do I have a criminal record?

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9 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello guys Im really worried about this, maybe im stressing about nothing, I really don't know, in 2007 I was arrested, police said I was taken in for writing CDs, then I spent a weekend at the mini-jail, the following day my fingerprints were taken (this really got me ... (128 words)

He used to check my Facebook, but now I want to check his he says this is wrong! What is with the double standard?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend has gotten on my facebook before and checked out guys he thought I might have had something to do with. I didn't care because I wasn't doing anything. He even talked to one of the guys as if he was me. After doing this for a bit he realized there was nothing there ... (226 words)

He is refusing to go to his family reunion, and I cant help but think he must be embarassed about us or hiding something....

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My Boyfriend's family reunion is soon and I want to go to meet his famiy. he is refusing to go stating he doesn't like being around some of them because of how they make him feel. He was adopted, etc. I have only met one aunt, 2 uncles and a few cousins at a christmas ... (186 words)

Why do I still love this woman even though she hates my guts? And how can she erase me so quickly from her life?

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9 June 2011 (M)

- I was dumped 3 weeks ago for the third time by who was then my Fiance. We dated for 2.5 years. We were a day away from moving in together and we got into an argument. After apologizing for the argument and telling her that I love her very much she went on to tell me how we ... (316 words)

Why did he tell me he was leaving her to come back to me, and then chose to stay with her?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, My question is, I'm confused about my x, we broke up about a year ago...we didn't see each other for the whole year, we were under strict rules not to, after the year was up he came right to me, told me how much he had missed me, loved me wanted to be with me, he crie... (397 words)

Is this too soon and is he interested?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everybody! I've recently been dumped by a guy I dated for ~5 months. I was sad but got through it alright (it's been 2.5 weeks). I wasn't interested in dating anyone and still am hesitant about the possibility after having broken up with someone less than a month ago. I... (330 words)

She doesn't give me oral - Is she really a lesbian?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm dating a girl who doesn't like to give oral. The basic thing to like and love in a lesbian relationship. Is it possible to still be a lesbian and not like to give oral to your partner?... (38 words)

Sex communication trouble......

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Sex with my man of 2yrs has never felt good to me, so mostly I just give him oral sex. When we talk about intercourse or actually doing it he discourages me because he can't understand why would I want it or why I don't feel anything. Even if I'm sort of shaking he doesn't ... (198 words)

I have never been so heartbroken in my entire life, does anyone have any advice?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, i know this probably sounds extremely weird but a long time ago my first cousin and i hooked up and have been together for six years, well he just recently left me and i am crushed, even more so than when i got a divorce, i do not understand this, i have ever never been in ... (128 words)

He broke up with me because I have an autistic son, even though he knew about this 2 years ago when we met!

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9 June 2011 (F)

age - My boyfriend just broke up with me after a two year relationship. We both loved and cared about each other very much. He is 56 and I am 49. We both have been divorced for 10 years and he has a few grown kids still at home (3 that are out of college) and I have two sons at ... (536 words)

Having a booty call with friend's off and on boyfriend

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so heres the situation. I met one of my best friends through work about 2 years ago. We hated each other at first, but last summer we grew very close. And now we are closer than any of my other friends. We talk every day and I love her to no end. So heres the problem. She ... (424 words)

Relationships with ex-teachers - how does society view them?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you know of anyone who got together with their ex teachers? If so, do you know how they deal with pressure from society in general? Like with the ex student's friends, the ex teacher's students and friends etc. How do people view the coupling in general? Thanks for any... (54 words)

After three years it's a lot more than a 'crush' but she doesn't feel the same way

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9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im a 19 y.o guy. I met this girl about 3 years ago in college, we were best friends in college and i slowly but surely began to fall deeply in love with her. Lemme clarify one thing, she is amazing. She is possibly the hottest girl ive ever met, shes popular, trendy, when ... (334 words)

Should I follow my head or my heart?

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9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I just recently broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months and this time I think for good. This was my first serious relationship. I broke up with her 3 times and I know she will not come back. Problem is I still feel very attached to her. Like I lost my best friend. Problem was ... (275 words)

We get along great when we're free of the bf/gf title.

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I was dating this guy we will call X. X and I were very much engrossed in one another throughout our relationship. We were always hanging off of each others every word (and each others faces) and never stopped talking even though it was a long distance relationship. W... (419 words)

Who's in charge of the baby, me or my parents?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 years old and have a 2 month old son, me and his father are still together. My parents act like the baby is theirs and like they can make decisions that pertain to him. I'm very responsible and I do everything for my son, my boyfriend (his father) supports us although ... (105 words)

I just found out he married me so he'd have a caregiver in his old age

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I just need some advice. I am married to my husband who is almost 28 years older than me. Dont think other things, i do love my husband very much. We dont have child, but i do 2 from the first relationship and he got one from his first marriage. We are actually ok. The things ... (287 words)

Guys, would a girl's past FWB relationship put you off her?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm currently in somewhat of a friends with benefits situation with a guy I know. What I want is opinions on how this may make future potential guys look at me in the future. Guys, would you keep yourself away from a girl who had previously been in a fwb situation? Would yo... (120 words)

Healthy mom or sick dad?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im now writting to ask what to do in my family situation. My mom and dad are divorced and i currently live with my mom and my dad lives in a differnt state. The doctors have told my dad that he is diagnosed with cancer and complete kidney faluire and that he is limted in his ... (147 words)

Is a long-term, happy marriage even possible?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm 25 and although I've always thought I want to get married someday, I'm starting to wonder if ANYONE ever stays truly happily married. Almost everyone I know has been cheated on or cheated on their significant other. The way I look at it, as a girl I'm going to... (178 words)

Tension in a 3 year relationship and I'm a virgin.

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this may be a longer question. Please Help me out!! My boyfriend and I have been togheter for over 3 years. We love each other dearly, his family loves me as well...I was included in the family portrait. We are only 19 and 20. We have broken up twice before and still talk ... (427 words)

Why the different reaction to the question of marriage?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just have a question about one of my boyfriends behaviors that baffles me: So we have been together for 5 years. We are both in university and will most likely have at least another 3 years left. We have talked about marriage before, saying that once we graduate and stuff it ... (142 words)

Was my teenage daughter having a fling with a teacher?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Your daughter is a great student! She is tall, beautiful with the sweetest personality." those were the words coming from her history teacher at parent teachers conference. My daughter is a freshman in highschool and all the things he said are true. The teacher is male ... (195 words)

Should I be worried about my daughter's odd behavior?

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9 June 2011 (F)

I'm a girl with a guy best friend and he now has a girlfriend

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, My best friend and I are really close. We tell each other our fears, secrets, hopes, likes, and dislikes. We even share with each other the unnecessary. We text/talk from the moment we wake up to the time we fall asleep. We can hold seven hour conversations with eac... (592 words)

I don't know if she might be into me or just being polite?

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9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl who works out the same gym I do and we've been flirting visually for a couple weeks until last week when I passed by her in the gym and she complimented me with a "hi". But I just don't know if she's actually into me (and doing that first step of getting into ... (132 words)

Do I tell my parents about my online boyfriend coming to visit me?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry, this may be a bit long. I have been talking to my boyfriend online for two and a half years, and we have been together for one year. I truly enjoy his company and love nothing better then spending time with him. We broke up awhile ago because the distance between... (437 words)

How do I get over my ex???

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9 June 2011 (F) age 26-29 - Ok well i went out with this guy and it was my longest relationship. At first i only liked him but the more i got to know him the more i liked him. Well then i started loving him and i mean i knew that i was never going to marry him but i thought the relationship was going to ... (167 words)

How do I get these cars registered out of my name?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - wen i was with my boyfriend we bought 2 cars which both are in my name because he was teaching me to drive and i didn want the first car so he got me another one.. we have recently ended our relationship and he keeps ignorin my calls and texts.. how do i get these cars out of ... (84 words)

Harmless Fun Or Borderline Child Abuse ?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) I could use abit of help. My cousin(Ill call her Gemma)who is 7 her mum has started entering her into child beauty pagents. It was Gemma's mum who made the choice to enter her into these compitions and is encourageing Gemma to go to them. I am pretty sure deep down my ... (462 words)

Did I do something wrong? Why is she acting this way?

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9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So on a Saturday night we went to the movies, and we ate pop corn together, bought a couple of drinks, she held my hand and laughed at my jokes and finally we kissed. But we have no relationship yet. On getting home she SMS me that she had a fun night and she wants us to go out ... (191 words)

Sad confused and not sure which relationship to pursue

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - please help me im stuck and i realy need some good advice. iv been with this man for about three yrs and have known for about 14 yrs . and he has loved me all of this time. but i cheated on him more thin once. so he told me to move out and so i did. after about a week he had ... (216 words)

Am I just being stupid or does he still care?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm so confused! and i apologise this is long. here it goes, so my bf and i have been together just over 5 years. we almost broke up in march (he felt we had no future, i'm a bit of a procrastinater, and wanted to buy a house, because his lease was up and he no longer wanted to ... (547 words)

I want to move out from my parents go to Canada, but what do I do if my request visa is rejected?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't the place to be asking this but I need some help and advice. Please read, I know its long but Id very much appreciate as much input as possible. Im 21 years old and I couldnt be more lost in life. For years Ive put up with an abusive mother and a fat... (809 words)

How do you keep a past relationship from ruining a present relationship?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - how do you not let a past relationship affect a relationship you want to actually turn out right? I've had bad experiances from guys who have broke my heart, and What I've been doing is trying to realize that every guy isn't necesarily the same, so maybe I should give the one ... (195 words)

From time to time I struggle to deal with the loss of my short term relationship and doubt that I will find love again. Why?

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9 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Sometimes I still feel like I'm struggling to get over a short term relationship I had some months ago. Don't get me wrong, I'm a stronger person than I was and I feel a lot happier within myself. I just miss the connection me and my ex shared and I really wish things could ... (242 words)

How do you move past a previous prolonging relationship?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - About a year and a half ago, I had a boyfriend that was no doubt my first love. Throughout our relationship, since it was both our first, we made plenty of mistakes, some that I regret. He ended up breaking up with me for my bestfriend a week later after a year and a half ... (315 words)

Am I being used just to help this guy get off?

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9 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't talked with my best friend in about a mouth and a half, maybe more. Since he's in the army I sent him encouraging messages through his facebook since he updates quite often, but...he never answers back. Now out of the blue he texted me and we caught up, but we ended ... (155 words)