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Nervous about meeting someone new, how should I handle it?

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23 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - I am almost 26 and one of my friends whom I see from time to time and works in another city texted me and said that she was talking about me to a friend of hers and that she said that she was interested in getting to know me and to give me her number. Normally, I am not much... (89 words

How should I handle my boyfriend's issues with sex and intimacy?

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23 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 17 months. We are perfect together - we dont argue, we laugh together, enjoy the same things etc. we live in our own places but plan to move in together at the start of next year. There is just one thing missing - sex! We h... (257 words

My two boys love their stepmother but hate the idea she is pregnant with my baby?

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23 June 2011 (M age 51-59 - Hi there, i was a single father for 8 years rared two kids by myself mother isnt in the picture then i met the love of life the kids love her too! and we all have a blast! We are having our first baby together its due in september .Well at first when i told them the were all ... (171 words

I told him I love him and now I'm worried about losing him as a friend

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23 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - a few hours ago i admitted to the boy i have loved for about a year or two that i was in love with him.... but im really woried its going to mess up our really good friendship because hes one of my best friends... any advice on how to keep him a friend? xx... (55 words

My girlfriend will not have anything to do with my second ex!

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23 June 2011 (M age - I need a question answered but first i will try to tell you the history I have been with a girl now for 1.5 years she is great and we get along so well. However there is one issue that i can't resolve and it will break us up! I have been in two marriages and have three boys. ... (562 words

Anyone know of any popular and creative highlights?

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23 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi! I want considering highlighting my hair (since my mom said to dying it black. I have brown curly hair and medium-toned skin. What color or colors would complement me best? I was thinking about auburn, but I's not a definite.... (41 words

My girl slept with my brother before we met,should I be angry?

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23 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I just found out that my brother had sex with my gf of 1 1/2 yrs, it happened before we were together but I'm really pissed at them for not telling me. I knew that they were friends (thats how I met her) but I think he should have told me before we started dating . They think I ... (65 words

I slept with another guy while my boyfriend was away, do I tell him?

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23 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend has been away on a business trip for 3 months now.He has not been contributing to us finacialy,we have an eleven month old son.I have asked him for help,all he does is tell me stories,am realy upset with him.I dont even know if i still want him back.Afew weeks ... (149 words

Is this marriage worth fighting for?

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23 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - We're in our late 30s and we've been married for a decade. She was a little overweight then, and became moreso, and has now been (my best guess, she won't ever tell me real numbers) 90-100 lbs overweight for most of our marriage. It tears me apart but I feel like I've been as ... (964 words

What do you do to rebuild trust?

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23 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - People say in order rebuild broken trust between a couple that you have hard work to do. What is this work? What do you have to do to rebuild trust? ... (30 words

Ex has a girlfriend but wants to see me and...

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I dated my ex for 3 years. About half of our relationship was long distance. I left for college (6 months after we started dating) and I was thousands of miles away. So, we got to see each other on the long breaks: christmas break, spring break, easter break, summer b... (930 words

He's not contacting me as much as he should! Should I be suspicious?

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23 June 2011 (F - hey all, heres the thing my partner and i are both in our early 20's we get on really great together and all that its just he went away a little while ago to work with his family and wont be back for a few months... normaly he contacts me at least once a day eaither by phoneing ... (181 words

My girlfriend does not care for me anymore!

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23 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am in complete loss of thought now due the recent behaviours of my girlfriend. she has refuse to call or even send me a text message,now she doesn't cares about me anymore, she wasn't like this the first time i saw her. at times if i give her a call, all her reply is she is ... (89 words

Major life issues - how do they affect you?

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23 June 2011 (M age 51-59 - What do you think what are the most general issues what can cause problems in ORDER-in people's life between 20-50 years of age? Like the most common is first and less common is last. This are the subjects. 1,money and carrier 2,relationship marriage 3,health issue... (120 words

Should I just risk it and kiss him?

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23 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - There's this guy that over the past 2 weeks that I've become really close too and I really like him and I think he likes me. We've gotten to know each other really well and I think that we are really compatible, but the problem is he's just turned 19 and I'm 15. I really feel ... (99 words

I'm starting to lose patience with her, she's being used for sex and doesn't listen!

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23 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Well In my group of friends there are a boy and a girl that are really close. The girl really likes the guy but he doesn't like her in that way. However on and off for the past six months hes been using her for sex (at one of these points hes had a girlfriend!). ... (123 words

Can a promiscuous man change?

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23 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - In your opinion, can a man who has a history of random sex with random women in excess, ever actually grow up and fall in love, and stay satisified with one woman? I'm dating a man who is 37 and recently discovered he was extremely promiscuous in his late teens, early 20's and ... (79 words

Is he a bit too old?

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23 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - hi guys :) Im 14 and I really like this guy, and I have a feeling he may like me as my friend tells me he looks at me and when i look at him he smiles :) He talks to me alot when he is around etc. The problem is that he is 17/18 years old. Is this too big an age gap? Im not... (115 words

I don't want to be his temptation anymore!

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23 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey guys, im 14 and im having a bit of a problem. theres this guy i like alot, hes all i think about. hes really sweet and stuff. he likes me too. and hes said that he is temped to kiss me, but he refrais because he has a girl friend. he dosent like her and you can tell it. ... (97 words

What do men think if a woman asks them out?

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Question for the guys; what do you think of girls asking guys out first? It's just that there's this guy in the year above me at 6th form (he's 18, going to university soon, I'm 17). He's most definitely the cocky confident type but I think he's slightly insecure under everythi... (115 words

My blood boils when he talks to his girl mates!

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - hello, I've been with my boyfriend now for 8 months and i love him to death, but i have a huge problem which flashes warning signs, and i'm terrified to lose him. I hate him talking to girls, normally i don't show it but sometimes i get so so mad when girls talk to him, i feel ... (192 words

I feel like I came between them!

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Its been about two months..Im in relationship with my bf..but we were very close friends from about two years.. He had an ex who is now our good frn..I never had any problem with their friendship..bt nowadays I feel insecure coz she still likes him and they hang out together ... (119 words

I am invisible in her life outside of our relationship

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23 June 2011 (M age 51-59 - If you have been dating someone 4 months and they have never mentioned your name once in all that time. She has talked about things we did but instead of we she put I did this. I am learning to golf. I spent my b day with my girlfriends. No mention of me. Also not one pic of me ... (92 words

He stopped texting, what's going on?

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy at a gig a couple of weeks ago and we really really hit it off that night but the thing is that we live miles apart with a small stretch of water between us and hes 26 and im 18, we have been texting non stop for a week and he suddenly stopped sending me messages ... (116 words

Does he still want to be involved with his ex?

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - What if your boyfriend keeps liking the facebook status of his ex-girlfriend knowing that the status is for him? Does it mean he isnt over his ex and still likes her??... (31 words

I just don't understand, what does he want?

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ok, so the guy I been talking about the whole time is back up again. We may text one another occasionally and say hi or what not. I just seem to not be able to get over him, or even let anyone else in. I feel like is the only one that has my heart. So about a month ago he ... (177 words

I hate her, she loves... Now what do I do?

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23 June 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hi I used to like this girl but after a cuple of incidents i fell out with her and began to resent her and hate her it was like having your heart crushed and squeshed everytime I saw her most of my friens were beging to whisper that i was becoming a hater and that i was cru... (140 words

Told my boyfriend I'm pregnant, is he exited?

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23 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi i posted a question here yesterday about should i tell my boyfriend im pregnant i did today just to re-cap im 10 weeks pregnant have a 4 year old son he takes care of my son as if it was his own child. I didn't plan on having this baby at all and i have not dated anyone in 3 ... (273 words

I'm feeling that this may be a dead end. What can I do?

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23 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hmm..well There's this girl , she is doing the C.A course , same course im into now . also we are kinda related , you can say second cousins , but this girl .. haven't really seen her much , just spoke a few times over the phone , when we were a bit younger . now im 24 , and ... (230 words

My husband can't seem to ejaculate during oral. Is there something we can do?

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My husband can't seem to ejaculate during oral. As I've researched this it seems like it's a pretty common problem, but the reasons seems to be it's not enough or oral isn't done long enough. I have never timed myself, but I know I have gotten him to the point where mentally ... (158 words

Is he flirting?

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I recently started a new job. One of my co-workers has been over the top nice to me, making jokes, and continuously touching my shoulder or back which makes me uncomfortable. Since I'm more shy, I find it difficult to look him in the eye, but he will stoop down to catch my... (138 words

I am planning to tell him my bisexuality but not my feelings

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23 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am 21 years old and studying engineering as an International Student in a German university. I am about to finish my studies (final semester) and my final exams are about to start. But because of this problem I will explain, I even couldn’t sit and study. This thi... (500 words

How can I tell him that I'm not ready for sex yet and want to wait?

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23 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - my bf and i are both 15 and virgins and he wants to be a dad so bad, he said the first time we do it he wants to get me pregnant, and i dont want to have a kid till im in my late 20s and i kind of want to wait to even do it. how can i tellm him i want to wait to have kids and ... (85 words

He spends money on me but doess't ask for sex or even a kiss. Is this true love?

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my guy have being dating for six months now. But he has never a day ask for sex or a kiss,but what surprise me is that he spent money on me very well and always beg me not to try to leave him for another guy,except i want him to stay without trusting a girl again,since ... (97 words

How do I react when I see her again and we come face-to-face?

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23 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I used to be best friends with this girl and we had a very good chemistry, i used to care for her very much. i fell for her, and came open with it, but she was in an other relationship at that time. we were friends for some time after that but we grew even more closer. we used ... (463 words

Is there any hope for me to fix this?

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23 June 2011 (M - To keep it short: my fiancé and I broke up about a month ago after an argument. We have spoken once in person since. One nighti sent her a text saying " I just want you to know, no matter how you may feel, I thought about you and it made me smile". I got a response at 6:30 ... (279 words

Mystery text: how do I convince her I'm telling the truth?

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23 June 2011 (? age 30-35 - Please I need help my gf thinks I'm cheating when I'm not it happened today she is at Florida and I am texting her then she receives text under my name but saying something I never ever texted even in a different way of spelling which is not my spelling cause she forwarded it ... (85 words

How do I prepare for this family life after my wedding?

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23 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Please i really need advice most especially frm the married ones. Am planning for my marriage soon, but wat is giving me sleepless nite is that afta marriage we will be staying in a family house, were all his sisters nd brothers are stayin and the parents comes there afta ... (56 words

Is he being genuine?

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23 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Earlier asked question I am 23 years old and have a 23 months old daughter with a lad i was with for nearly 4 years. Sadly my grandad died of cancer 11 weeks ago and i have been grieving for him a lot. Me and my boyfriend split up on the same day that was 11 weeks since he... (786 words

Should I call him back and tell him I have the same feelings for him? He thinks I rejected him!

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23 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Ok so im best friends with a man. we met in work and became so close, We told each other everything he was almost like a brother to me! He is a single father of two children. We went on a date last weekend with his children it was really fun and then afterwards he got a ... (374 words

What is going on that he wont say?

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23 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend broke up about a week ago. On Saturday he was kinda mean and said we argue and fight too much and he's just done. I am confused because he keeps calling me and says he wants to be friends. If he wants to break up don't they usually just stop all contact and ... (199 words

My boyfriend wants me to have a threesome with another guy! Help!

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23 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - i am an asian girl,my bf is western,he's always feel proud of that i am his girl,he said i can make every man horny as he said i am a very sweet girl which i never notice.i really don't care they are horny or not,but recently he seduced me to have a 3some.firstly he said if i ... (292 words

Not sure how to proceed with this girl....she is in a relationship with my friend but I get the feeling she likes me

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23 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - hi guys im i a real mess and im sorry if i ramble on but please help. i'll start off with my mum and dad are splitting up and it only just hit me yesturday when my mum phoned me at mny friends party. i have been down about it all day today. right ive liked this girl sinc... (485 words

Why should I forgive her if she isn't sorry?

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23 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - The girl i have been dating treated me badly, much deceit there, manipulation, etc. i wrote about this other day here. we broke up and shes moved on but im still bitter. thing is, some people tell me, forgive her, youre only hurting yourself. I cant forgive her cos sh... (111 words

I don't trust him even though he has done nothing wrong! How can I stop this?

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been together for just over a year, we have a beautiful son, and he is a sweetheart. He has had some problems, but never given me a reason to distrust him, yet I do. How can I calm this distrust? It's ruining my relationship!!!!!!!... (49 words

Helppp!!! Should I tell him how I feel before it's too late???

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23 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am seperated from my husband. I have being seeing a guy for two and a half years. He has a partner (he is divorced). He has a partner and has done since I've known him. We have been having a sexual relationship. We were friends before this all happened. He was supposed... (339 words

Helpless in love...

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello, Well it was 2 years back when me and my boyfriend met. We were in love. After 3 months he told me he can not be with me coz his dad got to know about us and he can not go against his parents. He asked me to leave him and live without him. I tried to make him understa... (806 words

Do you ever have sex like a porn star???

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23 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Just out of curiosity, do you ever have sex like a pornstar? If so, how often? All the time? Once in a while? Special occasions? (And by pornstar sex, I'm talking about stuff you would expect to see in a fairly vanilla porn video - no insane, demeaning, weird fetish fan... (114 words

Parental interference in our wedding plans!

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23 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Last year (August), my dude and I decided to have a wedding in december, his parents said they wouldn't be able to attend the wedding on the date we'd set. When he sat down with them to discuss the next possible date they both evaded heavily. In december he tried bringing it ... (207 words

Why did he write to me again???

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23 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend dumped me for a girl he spoke to online, who lives in America, who he has never met in person. My ex and I live in England. We were together on and off for six years. I haven't contacted him for six weeks ( we've been broken up for seven weeks though ) . He ... (419 words

Am I smothering him too much with my words of love?

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23 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Ok, so I know this is a little long and I suppose Im looking for opinions rather than answers. My boyfriend and I met on the internet and have fallen in love very quickly, however he is a very busy man, works many hours, evening and weekends etc. He also lives about 1.5hrs away ... (427 words

Sex is getting stale with him. How can we change this?

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend of 3 years very much. We have sex quite regularly, usually whenever we see each other. However, I am finding it's becoming quite stale and it doesn't really excite me anymore. What can I/we do to change it? I've tried new underwear etc but that only pays off ... (56 words

How do I get him to start talking to me again???

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were very good friends before being in relationship. We both understand each other very well. He had a girlfriend before me, but now she is just his friend. I know he is loyal to me but his ex still likes him and some of her activities makes me feel insecure... (114 words

He didnt invite me to his sister's wedding, nor has he even told his family about me! Am I right to be upset?

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Would anyone on here be upset that your boyfriend hadnt asked you to his sisters wedding? Ive being going with this guy for the last 8 month. His sister gets married next weekend, he has talked about the wedding and the plans for it but never once has he said do you want to ... (105 words

My husband is never happy and verbally abusive, now I am wondering if my children and I would be better off without him?

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23 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hi I'm new to this sort of thing but here goes. I'm a mum of 2 beautiful children, one aged 8 and a new baby of 8 weeks. My husband and I just can't seem to get along and it's got nothing to do with the new baby this has been going on for years. He's verbally abusive an... (191 words

How do I stop lusting after my teacher?

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23 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - What should I do? I really Love my teacher. I am 17 years old and he is 28.. what should i do? My teacher is not handsome or cute but he has that brains and that slim body that makes me fall inlove and lust after him. When he is discussing our lesson in History. He alwa... (156 words

I want to see her again. How can I avoid coming on too strong?

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23 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I'm just looking for some guidance really. I met a girl over a dating website some time ago and we've been talking for a few months now. We finally had the chance to meet yesterday, so we went out and we seemed to have a very nice evening. We got the chance to get to know each ... (189 words

She is so cold towards me, how can I change this?

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23 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I feel pain. I feel sadness. I feel jealousy. I thought I am over it already. This year I love my female best friend somwhow and at the start everything was perfect. We used to laugh at each other jokes and all sort of wonderful things. However later she went out withanothe guy ... (242 words

Should I let him go, or change like he has asked me to?

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23 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've following your website for quite sometime now and honestly I could relate in anyways. I have problem myself regarding my long time relationship. It's been making me confuse on what to do. My boyfriend has been showing signs of coldness sometimes but there are times he ... (259 words

I don't like that she still speaks to her ex, and to make it worse she hasn't told him about me!

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I have a problem that keeps eating away at me and has done so for months. I've been dating my girlfriend for 9 months, she is my first love and first real relationship. I love her more than anything, and I know she loves me the same way. She's dated a bunch of guys before, ... (639 words

My marriage problems are making me miss my ex!

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23 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I am married for more than 1 and a half yr, and as the days are passing i am missing my ex more everyday... I cry hours just remembering his cute gestures of care. he was a very loving man... now you must be thinking why the hell I am not with him then!!! it was so happened ... (572 words

Why am I into older men?

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23 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - Why am I into older men.? I'm 16 and ever since I was a little girl, I never really liked the people my age. I would always have crushes on older men. I even had a crush on Jackie Chan... yeah.. Right now I'm dating a man 5 years older than me and we have been together for ... (75 words

How do I forget him for good?

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23 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - So my ex and I ended like six months ago. Ill admit that even though I make myself believe I'm over him my heart just keeps yearning for I him. There hasnt been a day in the last 6 months where I don't miss him or think of him. We have had absolute no contact either. He also ... (128 words

How to get over a girl that you can never have?

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23 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - I've really liked this girl at work for the past few months, I've been non-stop flirting with her and she seemed to be in to me as well. Then we went to a movie, but it didn't end up being a date, just like friends hanging out. And all the stuff she wants to do with me, just ... (275 words

I broke up with him too many times and now he doesn't want anything to do with me! What should I do?

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23 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - hello, im 15 and i've been in a relationship for 1 and 3 almost 4 months with my boyfriend. i broke up so many times with him and it seems like he doesnt love me the same anymore and i've realized i did a huge mistake. he treated me so nicely. our love was crazy now everything ... (238 words

Should I ask my brother if there is anything going on with him and my girlfriend?

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23 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I kind a have 2 questions , so I'll start at the beginning: My younger brother(19) has always been best friends with a girl "katie".They met each other in elementary school. Katie and I started dating dec 2009. My brother was cool with it, things were great until now of cou... (377 words

Problems in the bedroom and mixed messages.....

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23 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hello, this is my first time posting a question on here so please be gentle ( ; I am in relatively new relationship (2 months) with a man I very much like and care for. We get along very well and laugh together all the time. Neither one of us was "looking" for a relation... (379 words

Is it that bad that I get frequent pictures of my newborn nephew from my sister? My wife is making a big deal out of this!

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23 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - I have been a husband for almost 5 years now. My wife and I fight all the time. I wanted to get advice for the most recent reason she got mad at me. My sister just had a baby a few weeks ago and has been sending me a text message with a picture of the baby almost every day. ... (278 words

What's the problem? Is this just the way he is?

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Basically, I like this guy and he likes me too. We go to the same University but live quite far away from each other so we've been trying to keep in contact and it's going quite well. We talk every day and we're always very jokey towards each other but the problem is.. He never... (111 words

Ex-boyfriend advice!

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23 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Ok- so my ex and i have been broken up for about 9 months. In these 9 months, (and up til about 3 weeks ago) he's done a lot to get back with me, but i was really not ready. I feel like now i am ready andi want to give it anothet try. He is hanging out with (not dating) ... (292 words

Abused by an ex in the past, but now I want to be sexual with my new boyfriend I don't know where to start!

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm twenty three years old and am really shy and self conscious I'm with my first ever boyfriend becsause I was abused for a number off years and was controlled by my abuser ex. my boyfreind knows what have been through and has been really understanding, the thing is when I try ... (135 words

My ex used to insult me and ridicule my body to such an extent, that its affecting me even now, in my present relationship.

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I feel embarrassed about eating around my boyfriend.

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Well, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. We just moved in to an apartment together in April. I've always been curvier and possibly a little overweight... but it generally stays the same. I'm a size 16, 18 on a bad day, in jeans so it's not that ba... (151 words

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23 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My question is, how do I reel him in and show him that I still love him with every fiber of my being without scaring him off or seeming clingy and/or desperate? Basic Back Story: Here's the deal, I've been head over heels, madly in love with Takay (not his real name) s... (229 words

How do I get my boyfriend to move out?

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23 June 2011 (F age - How do I get my boyfriend to move out without the police or having to change the locks he has sort of a temper and I dont wont to set him off: Hello My boyfriend and I live together now for 6 months when he first moved in everything was good I am the mother of an 18 year ol... (276 words

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