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I don't feel like I fit in the college dating crowd because I'm petite

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Question - (14 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Last year, I was graduating highschool and was under the impression that guys may be slightly more open minded when it came to girls who were not big breasted and tall. But I got even more intimidated because I feel like a college girl in a jr high/highschool girl's body. I feel like no guys see any potential future with me because of this. I am petite (5'), slender, and small chested. This combonation has me feeling like a kid around adults all the time.

Does anyone have any advice about how I can see myself in a better light and as someone who brings something to the table?

Also, if any college aged males could state their thoughts about small chested petite girls who are college age, I would appreciate it.

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A female reader, audie Zimbabwe +, writes (14 June 2011):

audie agony auntthe first thing you need to stop doing is comparing yourself to everyone else. This will keep you from totally being yourself as youll be thrashing yyour self esteem in the process. There are guys who like small women and i'm sure ther are a few on campus. Just be yourself and be confident. The first step to getting others to love you is to love yourself. By the way i bet you even those other girls have some kind of issues with their looks as well. At some point every woman does.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011):

I am 31.I look like a 14 year old kid.I have never had any problems with guys getting attracted to me.I am a B cup in breast size.I think I am small chested too.The difference is I care two hoots about how I look.It was not easy getting to this stage.I was very insecure at first.Then slowly I realized almost all women out there have something they don't like about themselves.Not all of us can afford plastic surgeries.Confidence is the sexiest feature in a woman.

There are a billion guys out there.You just need to find someone who likes our type.All the best.

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