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Am I still a virgin after our messing around session?

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Question - (25 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok ive been trying to find an answer to this but just don't seem to find the right one.

Well like 2 days ago my boyfriend and i were just messing around, and well he fingered me and then well it led to another thing.

He told me he wanted to just feel my warmth(down there) with his penis. So i was like ok. So he did that, but then after that i guess he was hard and wanted to get in, i told him i didn't want to because, im still a virgin and he didnt even bring a condom. So then he just put it on top of me and like pressed it against me, at some moment i felt a pain, and i was telling him to stop because i didnt want him 2 go in. He told me he wasnt in and how he was just on top of it, like not actually going in. So then i told him 2 get off so he did and as soon as he did, he came, i quickly like cleaned myself and he cleaned himself. After that im not sure if we did that again. So anyways he tried to do anal sex, and it just felt like he was under me and not actually in me. Just been thinking lately...am i still a virign? or could i be pregnant by this? How soon do u get pregnancy symptoms?

My period comes at the end of the month so..ill have to wait by then.huh?

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A female reader, Luucy  United Kingdom +, writes (25 July 2010):

Luucy  agony auntIf he did not fully eneter you and thrust etc... then you are still a virgin. I have no idea why on earth you would try anal when you have not even had sex or know soo little about it. If he 'came' on your viginal opening then there IS a chance it may have entered but you should never take chances so if your periods are late make sure you go to the doctor just to make sure.

Next time I would advise you not to let his penis be any where near your vagina if he does not have protection or if you are not ready to have sex.

Just be careful.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (25 July 2010):

Honeypie agony auntIf the penis entered your vagina you are not a virgin. End of story.

And for crying out loud, PELASE stop trying things like anal when you have no clue what sex really is.

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (25 July 2010):

EbonyBlossom agony auntAs long as he didn't enter you and do the actions of sex (the thrusting etc) then technically you are still a virgin. And although INCREDIBLY unlikely, there is still a chance you could be pregnant if he maybe fingered you and the sperm managed to get inside. See if your period is late, and if it is, wait another week and then take a test.

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