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writes:Heyi really need some help,me and my boyfriend have been going for about a year and a half, its was fantastic for about 7-8 months thn we started argueing alot.we had the most amazing sex life we did it about 2 3 times a day and it was amazing, but now we have sex probably once a week if not tht then once evey 2 weeks and he seems to be boring and not passionate at all, when we went to barcelona my sex life went back to its orginal self and i thought thats all we needed, jst my luck everything went back to the way it was befor. im really worried that hes bored of me, but when were getting on were great were the most loved up couple you could meet.please help me he means the world to me i want to know what to do so i dont loose him !! x
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (26 July 2010):
 sounds like your moving into phase two always say relationships are like shoes when you first get them you take care of them tend them wash them take care of them.. take them out to all your favorite places and show them off wear them every day.... but time goes soon those shoes become old and worn you dont wash them any more you wear them n the rain and snow and mud you dont care about the scuffs.and then you get a new pair and we all know nothing feels quite like slipping into a new pair of all that excitement comes back..To answer your question theres probably nothing you can do,, people change and you cant change that.. if he loves you and decides he wants to be with you he will on his own you.Talk to him tell him how you feel express your self to him tell him your needs and concerns... if he cares hell adress them
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reader, rivi +, writes (26 July 2010):
To be brutally honest I would say you have already lost him
That is not to say there is any fault on your part - just he has gotten bored with the relationship and needs to move on to try other girl friends. Plenty of men do need to 'spread their seed'..... crude as that might seem.
( Perhaps he already is as he's bound to need sex more than once a month ).
Accept that you had good times together for several months and now it's finished and you can both move on and try other partners.
There's plenty other fish in the sea after all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): There are two things I would suggest here:
First: Try put a bit of effort in. Suprise him with something you'd both find really sexy. Act out his favorite fantasy for example or dress in something saucey. Try to recindle the flames you once had. Don't leave it to him. It takes two. Put in some extra effort and see if things pick up.
second: Maybe you should try and talk to him about how your feeling. Maybe he's stressed or tired. There may be some reasons behind his lack of labido.
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