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writes:my fiance and I broke up about a week ago suddenly and she hasnt responded to me or talked to me. she suffers from p.t.s.d and I know the symptoms and I know it will not be easy but I really love this woman and now I do not know what to do, do I leave? or do I show her that she is loved by me?
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reader, turk182 +, writes (25 July 2010):
turk182 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you all who answered my question. Its really hard when someone lets you see the real person and you end up falling for the person underneath all the other things and on a much deaper level the love I have for her is at work, I just hope she sees it as Love!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): Walk away - she's told you want she wants, and you're not it. Go and rebuild. If she comes around in a few months AND you're not in a relationship, think it over. If you are, too bad for her... This may be a GREAT GIFT she gave you. Breaking up with a crazy woman is one thing, divorcing one is HELL... been there, and while I was 100% right (and the court agreed) it took 1.5 years and a ton of money to prove she was lying through her teeth. Worth every penny, and I'm married to a truly wonderful woman (who is sane & has a great job), and life is 1000% better.
Think long and hard before you try to get back into the crazy house...
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reader, keishaoc09 +, writes (25 July 2010):
first i feel u should look up the symptoms of what she have..and two i really think u should stick around for a bit longer..but call her number private or through another friends fone and tell her how you feel...if dat doesnt werk then maybe u should try to find someone else..or find ways to get over her...but im sorry this happened..best wishes to you
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reader, Vany  +, writes (25 July 2010):
 I think you should definitelly try to get her to talk to you. You shouldn't just leave, if you really love her. You should show her that. On the other hand, you also deserve an explanation, right? Why did she break up with you? Why so suddenly? There must have been some reason...And you both ought to define it to eachother...that's my opiniong. good luck
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reader, actionterrance  +, writes (25 July 2010):
hi turk182. you need to give her space. You must be there for her if she is really suffering from PTSD symptoms. There is a chance that this is over and a chance that this is just cold-feet or something more serious, but the only way to find out is to be cool and wait it out.
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reader, RaNdiZasTer +, writes (25 July 2010):
Your girlfriend is a psychopath. Well, all girls are. I would suggest that you reach out one more time to show that you love her. If she continues to ignore you, or she stands by her break up decision, don't waste anymore time and leave. Don't attempt to contact her again. I bet she comes around. But if not, staying away and ignoring her will make things much easier on you. When girls are being psycho, you just need to have one powerful conversation with them, and leave. They will let it resinate and usually come around. If not, I would say she doesn't have enough common sense to be considered "a catch" anyways and you need to go find someone better.
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