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writes:Ok , if u were n a relationship and everything Is good except for the sex, and u even expressed to ur partnerTht ur not happy sexual and even tried to explore new ways wit Ur partner 2 try 2 make it work but they jus can't satisfy uSexual is tht a deal breaker?? Would u stay or leave?? Reply to this Question
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reader, rivi +, writes (26 July 2010):
Well you have to be much more specific about what it is with the sex which is unsatisfactory - ie is it the frequency; or what he actually does with you; or how long he lasts before he orgasms / or what ? do you want him to do things he doesn't want to do ( usually it's the other way around)
be more specific to allow for more specific advice.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (25 July 2010):
 If sex was an important thing to me, then it would be a deal-breaker. Imagine 60 years with the partner, the amount of resentment that would build up would be intolerable.
Alas, not everyone is compatible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): If it were me, and I know thre was no recourse, I'd leave. It really comes down to how much sex means to you. And while it is not everything in a relationship, it is a significant part. If you have concerns now, they will only become amplified later, trust me.
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reader, LillianDickey +, writes (25 July 2010):
Hi I read your question and I think I may have a little advice. See I have always had a problem getting off just having sex I'm not sure why. I do think there a lot of women that have a hard time. So what I do is I have a little bullet vibrator. I use it during sex with my man which most men think its HOT. Use it on your clit while your having sex and if you don't want to get a bullet then rub it yourself while having sex or make him rub it for you. It is hot its sexy it will turn him on and it feels incredible. There are ways to figure out how to be sexually satisfied with this man that you say is wonderful. Make him work harder for you. Make him use toys, tongues, and fingers to please you. If you want to be with him there are ways around it. I hope I have given you some good ideas to help. Good Luck Girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): It could be that your guys penis just isnt big enough(it happens), or you just needs to find THE position to use, or to its maximum ability. Let us know what your working with here. a big one or a small one
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