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writes:"OP Own Title" My situation is the following: I have being married for one year for work reasons my husband and i dont live under the same roof monday thru thursday caused we are in different states! for that reason is easy for him to deside not to come home some fridays he have a female cousin who likes to go dancing and invites him a lot! seems something happened with one of her friends and him caused I snoop on his cell I saw a picture of a woman sent by his cousin and a message reading "look bat it in private" he denies there is something going on but I do not believe him. another time I snoop in his computer and there is a pic of him recently with the same woman all cuddly at the disco to close his hand holding her close grabbing her front hip and him on her back! he tried to denied there is something going on he sai he likes to take pics of their hang out group hum there was no group but him and that woman! he constantly lies about going somewhere even working late just to hang with them and never invitges me! I catch his lies he denies it fiersly but when I show proof of everything he comes furious saying it's all my fault caused I don't trust him and he have to lie to me! what a cheap excuse! He sais he is not cheating on me he just want to go out with the group! I said it does not bothers me for you to go out and have a good time it's the lies that hurts! But his argument continued with his replies sayin he will keep lying until I trust him! I said our marriage is over caused I trust him no more! He said he will start saying the truth but honestly I do not believe him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): Without trust you really don't have anything....your husband is playing mind games with you. If he truly loved you, he wouldn't be having those kind of pictures on his cell phone and what the hell does he mean he is going to cointiue lying to you until you trust him? WOW WAY TO GO DUDE!! That is the most silliest thing I have ever heard, if he really wants you to trust him, he will stop doing those exact things!!! How stupid can your husband be? Sounds like he is a liar and a cheater to me. The choice is yours whether or not you wish to stay with him.
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