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writes:Hi, I have a question. My ex-girlfriend had contacted me through facebook out of the blue. We haven't spoke in good terms for about 9 months. When she contacted me, I read on her facebook that she is arguing with a guy and told him that she just wants to be friends with him. Then she contacts me. I know if I asked her who that guy is, she would send me to hell. She is weird like that. I just wanted to know what does she wants from me?
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reader, tonym  +, writes (28 July 2009):
to be honest, ive suffered from the same not through facebook but in direct terms my relationship ended 18 months ago, she was cheating. i walked away. now i remained civil. she was odd. what im getting at, i have found she continually draws me in when i appear to be breaking away. Im not James Bond, i like her she knows it, but every now and then she has to test it and i kepp failing by showing interest, si she then puts me on the back burner.. sound familar. All i wanted was normality and do you know what when i had the odd weird email (all communication) i wish id just ignored it. Its about control. You respond she has you, say it agian, you respond she has you. Options are saty with it until she decides she wants you ( when that will be is anyones guess) or two dont respond or three say listen im fed up with you, your a waste of my valuble time..Guaranteed she wont see that coming... Your value will go through the roof, hard when you care but necessary...i wont fail again...
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (28 July 2009):
 The right question is, what do you want from her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): hmm... she just wants to attract some symnpathy. ignore her. behave as if you dont know what she is upto. let her speak on her own as to what she wants from you. i guess its just attention. girls do that all the time... bring in a 3rd guy and seek attention!
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (28 July 2009):
 She wants to make someone jealous. She is a drama queen and she wants to use you through the computer to play games. Facebook is not nearly as dramatic as Myspace with the moronic games(But Facebook is truly boring too, I certainly don't want to keep up with my family, thats what Thanksgiving is for) but if your arguing on FB it will stick out like a sore thumb.
Yeah, she is playing games...delete her
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