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writes:hi im 18 and have been with my partner for over a year now hes 32 and at the start we loved having sex.now he wont even touch me...he says he loves me but he knows i dont love him...im too young to be caught up with love but why wont he sleep with me.im an attractive fun and loving girlfriend becoming more and more fustrated.please help im desparetly fustrated Reply to this Question
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reader, ScooterBear  +, writes (28 July 2009):
At 32 it's possible that he wants to start settling down and starting a family....etc etc.....and if im reading your comments right and you don't love him..... then maybe he doesnt want that type of relationship. Finding out that someone doesnt love you hurts and will no doubt affect him. Although all people act differently when they find something like that out.Either that or he can't keep up with an 18 year old???Either way, only way its gonna get sorted is a) you got to sit down and talk with him....only way its gonna get sorted and you find out how he is feeling or b) move on as it seems as this relationship has run its course. By hanging around in this type of relationship, its not fair on either of you and no doubt you both deserve better than that.Can't be nice getting frustrated....trust me! lolGood luck tho!
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reader, littlekitten1130  +, writes (28 July 2009):
 well...that is quite an age difference...but who cares, you know...you are an adult now and if you really love him, age should never be an issue. I can understand that he might feel a bit uncomfortable, because to him, you are very young. Give it some time to prove to him your maturity or else he might be seeing you still as a child....try talking to him about it....if he doesnt see you as an adult who can make your own wise decisions and distinguish real love from misguidance...then maybe you need to make that more clear to him. Meh...not the greatest advice...but try to understand where he might be coming from, you know? Talk to him about it, he might even be having second thoughts about this...
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