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Why all the tension???

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Question - (28 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I dont quite get this. Ok theres a guy in my class and when we're alone we talk fine, we're along some morning if we;re there before the others. However when other people come in the room he goes quiet n doesnt talk to me like he used to. He will finish what hes saying to me but after that, thats it. Now for some strange reason me and this lad dont talk to each oter very easily, even though we sit together!

Also a mate of ours has said to me that theres a lot of tension between us and when one of us is in the room alone we;re fine but ocne the other walks in theres a lot of tension. Im not to sure why because if we;re alone we arent to bad. hes normally the one to start talking because i never know what to say to him. lol, Its weird sometimes we're fine others times its like we dont know what to say to each other. Also i think other people in the class have said some stuff about us lol, but why should we care. its their problem not ours! I dont understand, i can see what they mean about theres tension but im not too sure why that is... what do you guys think?

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A female reader, Miss Karma Louise United Kingdom +, writes (28 July 2009):

Oh my god!! wake up!! THIS IS A CRUSH.

its so ovious and i can even tell you that and i dont now you.

have a chat with each other about how you feel ect.

good luck x

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A female reader, always.curious.ray. United States +, writes (28 July 2009):

always.curious.ray. agony auntthats sounds like the guy i was crushing on. i hate it to dont worry! like we were totally fine when we were by ourselves but when his friends or his brother would come around he is a total jerk.until he wants something. and when our friends are around all we do is fight and yell at each other. then when they leave we forget what were even fighting about. i think it might be because he doesnt want people to know he likes you. now i dont mean that in a bad way its just because he might be one of those bad guys on the outside to them but you what he truely is on the inside and maybe he doesnt want people to that because they might look at him differently that what they do now? also maybe he feels that he can turn to you when things get rough. instead of his friends he goes to you when he needs advice or is having a really bad probelm that his friends wouldnt understand.

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