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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:an ex spends loads of time playing little games to get my attention, she cheated on me i walked away. It was hard but i never gave her any trouble. she suddenly thinks im seeing someone else (but im not)we eneded 18 month ago. Anyway i aim to be civil etc. but she starts to hang about, appears when my voice is heard, hot and cold. Anyway her birthday comes, i text her wish her happy birthday (in a normal manner) i havent text for months but i think well she clearly wants my attention...guess what no response..... why why why?? not even thanks or dont text me please.....
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (28 July 2009):
 shes probably going to be thinking oh he still cares cos he was obviously thinking about me to text me and he remembers my birthday u shouldnt have really done it.u need to forget about her and move on with ur life and she needs to do the same
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female
reader, satindesire  +, writes (28 July 2009):
 Sounds like she's not the only one who likes to play games. If she's your ex, why are you still bothering to text her?
You both just need to leave each other alone and move on.
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female
reader, pinktopaz + ♥, writes (28 July 2009):
Like you said, she likes to play games. Flat out, it's rude to not at least say, "Thank you." Forget her, why should she feel special when she's trash? Seriously, when people like to play games and cheat, they don't deserve their ex to even be "civil" with them. Just cut off contact with her, that includes no Merry Christmas or Happy New Year.
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female
reader, quiet-echo  + ♥, writes (28 July 2009):
 She may not have gotten the text or she is unsure if or how she should respond.
She is probably still getting over you. This happens gradually, whether you're the dumper or the dumpee. Even though things are over, and she may have accepted it, having you around gives her some comfort.
In short she probably has mixed feelings so it's understandable that she be sending out mixed signals.
I would keep doing what you've been doing. No sense in both of you sending mixed signals.
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female
reader, Jayney Y  + ♥, writes (28 July 2009):
 Because she wants to be the one to get the last "no word" in. Do you want the interest of someone with the emotional level of a twelve year old?
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female
reader, MRS.SCOOTA +, writes (28 July 2009):
Jus don't worry about it...You can't be stressing your self out about stuff like this anyway...Cuz it ain't worthy...If she doing all that then she aint worth being with...so jux move on
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male
reader, Moviefan + ♥, writes (28 July 2009):
 Sounds like she likes to toy with you probably because she still likes you but doesn't want to admit it so she makes your life hell when you replace her. Pretty simple common reaction for some girls.
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female
reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (28 July 2009):
 Maybe she's done trying to get your attention.
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