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writes:Ex lover what does he want?A long distance ex lover who i was seeing for about a year and is older than me. We split mainly due to my nervousness around getting too close and the fact i wasnt able to see him much. So i told him best we went our separate ways as i didnt see our situation changing much quickly. We both started dating others, We split up and he then started to date another woman asked me to visit him with my kids i declined as i thought he wasnt serious. Any way he ended up with this new woman, they have been dating for about 6 months. I have moved house and he wants to visit. When we first split up i told him i thought it would be better if he moved on and we didnt remain friends for a bit. Even went so far as to say i thought he wanted to stay friends because he enjoyed the whole younger woman chasing him scenario. He got annoyed and insisted he wanted to remain friends regardless. Now i have moved and he wants to come down to help out with redecorating my house. He is still with this woman booty call or genuine?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answer. My only issue is that he isnt planning on telling her about the visit. So i am thinking how transparent is he. He keeps telling me that he is thinking about me and not just for sex. I am old and cynical.I guess
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (28 July 2009):
 to be honest it just sounds genuine to me hes with another women now you said so he must have moved on maybe he does want to be friends.if your wary stop talking to him full stop and dont allow the visits
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