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writes:I need help everybody! I have communication problems with my mother, I want to talk to her about some "girls' things" but I can't, she never had "the talk" that every mother has to have with her daughter; So I really want her to understand that I can't find anyone else to talk to about these private subjects besides her and I really feel like she doesn't care! I don't want to go to anyone else because I've done it before and it ended up very bad ..what to do ?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): Hello I think there are two aspects, whether your mother understands and doesn't want to say anything or she doesn't know how to talk to you.you know it's stupid but I think you should ask your mother about what your grandmother were doing with your mother when she was the same age as you.if it worked let me know!
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (12 December 2009):
The best way is to write her a letter detailing what you have just posted. Try use a loving tone not an angry tone. But be as honest as you can. Tell her in the letter that if I don't hear from you by such and such a date then I will know you are not comfortable with talking and I will never bring it up again but I will always love you and I just needed your guidance. Leave the letter on her pillow then send her a text after you leave so she knows where to find it. This worked for me with my extremely conservative father and our relationship is now more like best friends. Good luck.
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