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writes:He makes me so sad, mad and jealous at the same time. Wouldn’t it piss you off if your crush’s friends who are girls wrote on face book that they loved him and he wrote that he loved them too! Yet he treats me like crap after I told him that I liked him. He never treats me as good as he treats his other friends and it gets me mad. I like him and yet he knows and still treats me bad. I’m going to ignore him from now on and I don’t care about him anymore with the feelings he’s been giving me. When I know about him and his other friends how he helps them, hangs out with them, tells them that he loves them. I don’t get why he wouldn’t do the same for me when I care more about him then they do but not anymore. I don’t see why I should take this ignoring, rude, neglect from the guy I like and supposedly my friend. What would you do in this situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): It hurts when we get the message that someone isnt as interested in us as we would like. The best thing is to be a lady about it and move on. Rejection isnt nice but learn from it darling and next time a guy likes you alot but you dont feel the same, be honest with him but let him down gently. Its much kinder than doing what this guy is doing to you x
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reader, JustMex  +, writes (12 December 2009):
 He's probably treating you differently because the others girl don't fancy him, or at least he doesn't realise. If you were friends before you told him you liked him, I'm assuming he doesn't feel the same, so may be trying not to do anything that will give you the impression he likes you back. Having said that, if he is treating you like dirt, then no, you shouldn't have to put up with that and feel alienated. You could ask him what's going on, but at his age he's unlikely to start opening up and have a mature conversation. It's up to you what you tell him, but I do think keeping your distance would be the best thing if he isn't treating you like a friend - whether you've spoken to him about it or whether he knows you like him or not! You don't have to put up with this. Do what you need to do to get him out of your head because in this situation it's not going where you'd like to, and you're having trouble accepting that. Good luck.
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