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writes:hello guysgirl 1 (girl I like)umm... I told this girl i like her, and she was like wow and then 2 weeks later i asked her who she likes and she said she likes nobody.. after 4 weeks, my friend (girl)came up to me and told me that she knows that i like girl 1 then i was like "how did u know" and then she said "everybody knows," ... i was shocked cuz my friend and girl 1 dont talk to each other a lot, they just talk for like 3 min then its over.. 1. Why did she tell every person she knows that i like her?? ... i realized that every time she talks to me, she cant look at my eyes and she turns her head then smile. my friend and I caught her looking at me and i also caught her listening to my convo with my best friend (happens to be a girl and i can tell shes listening cuz she leaning her head to where i was standing). I walked by her locker and she ignored me but her friend pushes her to my direction.. so i gave it a shot, I called her house and i asked her if she can be my gf but she said "I dont want you to be like that"... 2. why did she reject me?? so theres two questions..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): she doesnt like you pal....
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reader, yussuf  +, writes (12 December 2009):
 Bro, you should have created attraction first,the only reason why she rejected you was because you came too strong. However this experience has tought you the art of knowing when to attack.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (12 December 2009):
she told people that you like her so that she can boast about it to others. She rejected you because she just does not feel the same way. Not every woman you pursue is going to like you too. She has said no, so just move on. Girls often do not like guys who they have not shown an interest in first. It feels creepy to have a guy just tell you he likes you without any prior wave or sitting together in a group or something. Next time you like a girl don't just tell her you like her, try talking to a girl about non dating stuff like maybe tell her "hey that's a nice sweater" then carry on going. Maybe next time you see her just wave or say hi. Now she is taking notice. Then maybe you can invite her to sit with you during lunch or something. Maybe then later ask for her number? Women just don't like random guys who walk up to them and say "I like you"!!!! Its off putting. What did you expect her to say?!Maybe to save your pride just tell your female friend that you have changed your mind about her and no longer want to date her. That will wake her up.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (12 December 2009):
 To answer the second question first - She obviously is just not interested in you in that way. Same reason you would probably not go out with a lot of girls if they asked you. Simple. As for the rest, sorry to say, but it seems she took your approach as abit of fun, most likely told a few people, who then told a few more people and so on - you know how gossip spreads. She is diverting her eyes either coz she feels a little bit bad now others are talking about it, or perhaps she just feels a bit embarrassed and uncomfortable. Especially when it is obvious by her friends pushing her toward you etc, that she is also copping a bit of stirring about it too. I do have to say it was very brave of you tho to make an approach, ... I know grown adults who let people slide by and are left wondering for ever because they have been too scared to make a move. Don't let this rejection keep you stuck on the start line, ... but perhaps in future try to establish some common interests, perhaps try to spend some time doing activites with someone on a friends only basis, so you can try to gauge a little their interest level before diving right on in. It will also give them time to see and appreciate the qualities in you.
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