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Fetishes and fantasies, are we normal?

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Question - (12 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2009)
A age 36-40, * writes:

hi

i have a extra ordinary fantasy, i would like my boyfriend to tie in bed both his hands and legs and then have intercourse with him. how do i ask him

and 2nd thing is he likes to dress like a lady, he asks me for my skirts and blouses and all my undergarments, is this normal? i gave gave him all he asked he was looking very cute,but i want to know why would he like this. he tells me wear pant and shirt.

i love him please give me replies.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009):

There are a lot of happily married couples where the men enjoy dressing as women, the fact he asks you to wear pants and shirt might mean he likes to reverse the roles between you both. But there have been television programmes about men, who are straight, that enjoy womens clothing.

The fact he was open and honest is a good thing, and if you love and trust him then there is no harm in indulging each others fantasies every so often.

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A female reader, starrbaby United States +, writes (12 December 2009):

starrbaby agony auntWELL!!! I think yours is pretty normal. A lot of people have fantasies of tying their lover up or in my case I like to be. Not violently just fun, playful, style.

His, on the other hand may need a further look. Not always a problem but in a a lot of cases when men fantasize of cross dressing they are usually gay and just haven't completely grown comfortable with that. Maybe not though but I would definitely pay very close attention to this.

You should definitely share yours with him...

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (12 December 2009):

hlskitten agony auntOf course its normal. He will love it if you tell him your fantasy. Sounds like he's told you his!?

As long as its not hurting anyone, & not morally wrong, fantasies are fine, in my opinion anyway!

C xxxxxx

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